Peacebuilding with Dr. Pollack

The 10-Second Brain Reset That Can Stop Conflict from Escalating

Dr. Jeremy Pollack

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Why do difficult conversations seem to spiral so quickly, even when you're trying to stay calm?

One reason lies in the way your brain interprets what's happening inside your body. As your heart rate rises and your breathing changes during conflict, your brain can mistakenly read those physical sensations as evidence that you're in even greater danger, creating a cycle that makes clear thinking increasingly difficult.

In this episode, Dr. Jeremy Pollack explains the neuroscience behind this stress loop and introduces a simple 10-second technique that can help you interrupt it. By shifting your attention from interoception—your awareness of internal bodily sensations—to exteroception—your awareness of the world around you, you can regulate your nervous system, think more clearly, and respond more intentionally during difficult conversations.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • What interoception is and why it can intensify conflict
  • How your brain unintentionally amplifies stress during difficult conversations
  • A simple 10-second exercise to shift into exteroception
  • How this technique helps regulate your nervous system in real time
  • Why becoming more present improves listening, communication, and conflict resolution

This episode explores one of the seven neuroscience-based principles from Dr. Jeremy Pollack's book, Wired for Peace: Using Seven Neuroscience-Based Principles to Resolve Conflicts.

Whether you're leading a team, navigating workplace disagreements, or simply trying to have more productive conversations at home, this practical technique can help you stay grounded when emotions begin to take over.

Resources

  • Wired for Peace: Using Seven Neuroscience-Based Principles to Resolve Conflicts
  • Learn more about Pollack Peacebuilding Systems or schedule a complimentary consultation at PollackPeacebuilding.com

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