The Voice of Ash
The Voice of Ash is a podcast for high-functioning women who are tired of performing their lives and ready to come home to themselves.
Hosted by shadow work coach Ashley LaButte, this space is where emotions become wisdom, self-betrayal turns into self-trust, and healing goes deeper than mindset shifts. Through raw conversations, embodiment practices, personal stories, and powerful reflections, you will learn how to stop abandoning yourself, become friends with your shadow instead of fighting it, and make grounded choices that align with who you truly are. Not who you were taught to be.
The Voice of Ash represents what rises after everything false burns away.
Ash is what remains after transformation (the truth, the clarity, the real self beneath the masks). This podcast is about finding your voice after survival, after people-pleasing, after living for everyone else. It is the sound of becoming who you actually are. This journey is not perfect and is messy.
If you are emotionally intelligent, self-aware, and ready to stop living on autopilot, this is where your rebirth begins.
Transformation isn’t loud.
It is honest. It is embodied. It is powerful.
Welcome to The Voice of Ash. Where you rise from what no longer serves you and step into who you are becoming.
The Voice of Ash
Ep 9: The Truth About Becoming Them
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Everyone talks about “stepping into your highest self” like it’s as easy as flipping a switch—but let’s be real… that’s bullshit. Becoming them isn’t just about deciding to be different. It’s about unlearning, unraveling, and sitting in the discomfort of breaking old patterns that have kept you stuck.
In this episode, I get raw and real about what this process actually looks like—the deep shadow work, the messy in-between, and the fears that come up when you finally stop running from yourself. I talk about overcoming addictions (yes, even the sneaky ones like people-pleasing and overworking), owning your choices, and rewriting the negative stories you’ve been telling yourself for years.
If you’re in a season of transformation and it feels scary as hell, this episode is for you. Because the version of you that you’re becoming? They already exist inside of you. You just have to stop fighting them.
Let’s talk about the hard, necessary work of becoming them—because you are them now.