YOU ARE THEM NOW
YOU ARE THEM NOW is the podcast for the woman ready to step into her power and claim the life she’s always dreamed of. Hosted by Ashley LaButte, this show brings you the tools, insights, and awareness to help you break free from societal expectations, release old projections, and dive deep into the shadows to uncover your authentic self.
Through empowering conversations, personal stories, and transformative practices, you’ll rediscover the truth: the version of you that you’ve been admiring in others is already within you. If you can spot it, you’ve got it.
Get ready to reclaim your light, embrace your fullest potential, and step into alignment—because YOU ARE THEM NOW.
YOU ARE THEM NOW
Ep 9: The Truth About Becoming Them
Everyone talks about “stepping into your highest self” like it’s as easy as flipping a switch—but let’s be real… that’s bullshit. Becoming them isn’t just about deciding to be different. It’s about unlearning, unraveling, and sitting in the discomfort of breaking old patterns that have kept you stuck.
In this episode, I get raw and real about what this process actually looks like—the deep shadow work, the messy in-between, and the fears that come up when you finally stop running from yourself. I talk about overcoming addictions (yes, even the sneaky ones like people-pleasing and overworking), owning your choices, and rewriting the negative stories you’ve been telling yourself for years.
If you’re in a season of transformation and it feels scary as hell, this episode is for you. Because the version of you that you’re becoming? They already exist inside of you. You just have to stop fighting them.
Let’s talk about the hard, necessary work of becoming them—because you are them now.