The Voice of Ash

What a Boudoir Shoot Taught Me About My Body

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For years Ashley told herself she'd do a boudoir photo shoot after she lost the weight. Then one day she asked herself a question that changed everything: does my body not deserve it right now?

In this short, spicy, and surprisingly moving episode, Ashley shares the story of finally booking the shoot — stretch marks, curves, rolls and all — and what she saw when she looked at the photos afterward. Spoiler: she didn't recognize herself. In the best possible way.

She gets honest about a lifetime of body struggles starting at age six, the unhealthy goal-setting, the body dysmorphia she didn't have a name for, and why she now believes her body's weight has been protecting her all along. And she makes the case — passionately — for every woman to stop waiting for the "right" body before treating herself like the queen she already is.

In this episode:

  • Why she almost waited until she lost 100 pounds to book the shoot
  • The moment she asked herself "does my body not deserve this?" — and what came up
  • How boudoir photographers pose your body in ways that will genuinely shock you
  • Learning to admire her curves, her rolls, and her body exactly as it is
  • The connection between how you treat yourself and the partner you attract
  • Why your body deserves celebration right now — not someday