Episode 21: Why is there a Malentine's Day?

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Playful Intro And Valentine’s Vibes

SPEAKER_15 0:00

Welcome to the table. The opinions of this podcast are for entertainment purposes only.

SPEAKER_02 0:06

Our thoughts and views are not to be taken personally.

SPEAKER_13 0:09

It is not that serious. We are trained professionals at being regular ass people. If you can't take what we serve in, this is not the table for you. Reservation denied.

SPEAKER_15 0:20

Enjoy the show. Welcome back to the table, ladies and gentlemen. I hope you enjoyed your Valentine's Day. All the lovers.

SPEAKER_06 0:31

I just like my space on some of the shit.

SPEAKER_15 0:33

All the cheaters these days, I just like all the side pieces, men and women. Women and men, men and men.

SPEAKER_05 0:43

Women out of our men out of me, but vice versa.

SPEAKER_15 0:48

I hope you got everything you deserve on Valentine's Day.

SPEAKER_05 0:52

There ain't even no room in my place for you, for the I thought there was no more to see for you, brought the ocean.

SPEAKER_06 1:01

New Ella LMAF can give me a lot.

SPEAKER_13 1:09

I haven't listened to it yet, but I'm gonna look, don't touch.

SPEAKER_06 1:14

That's the last thing I want.

SPEAKER_15 1:18

I hope everybody did what they had to do. Hope y'all were safe this weekend. Don't you do the also Black History Month.

SPEAKER_06 1:29

There goes my heart again. Then we get close.

SPEAKER_10 1:35

Yeah. This is fire.

SPEAKER_15 1:46

Oh no.

SPEAKER_04 1:47

Only known 'em for some years, but I met him in another day.

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Table for three. Your week.

SPEAKER_04 2:03

Show me what it is should be. Short week it is. But we're sick.

SPEAKER_15 2:07

Nice holiday on Monday. How many of y'all plus ones got it on this weekend for Valentine's Day? How many of y'all plus ones are just a plus one? How many of y'all plus ones is just one? How do you enjoy your weekend? You don't know how to feel some people enjoy being by themselves on Valentine's Day. Some people don't.

SPEAKER_04 2:38

Is Valentine a day for you? It's a day for me.

SPEAKER_15 2:57

Or was it this type of weekend? Or was it this type of weekend?

SPEAKER_01 3:07

Remember you cheese. I always go for tough guys, and but Michelle Majors.

SPEAKER_15 3:17

How many of you had that asshole over the weekend?

SPEAKER_01 3:22

Say you don't mind if sheets are pink as long as I'm laying on. You a stupid motherfucker.

SPEAKER_15 3:33

How many of y'all didn't didn't mind feeling stupid this weekend with that? You just happy to have a Valentine. Welcome back to the table, ladies and gentlemen. Uh hope everyone had a great weekend. Yeah. I am Mr. If you're new to the show.

SPEAKER_13 3:54

I am that woman Anna. And I'm your boy Valentine Divine.

SPEAKER_02 3:59

Valentine Divine. Also known as Sean X.

Galentine’s, “Malentine’s,” And Gift Etiquette

SPEAKER_13 4:07

I am calling you Valentine Divine, the rest of this damn show.

SPEAKER_15 4:11

Yo. How was uh how was y'all weekend, man? How was Valentine's Day for you guys? Good. Good?

SPEAKER_13 4:18

It was good. Um I took, you know, my husband and my sons out to eat breakfast.

SPEAKER_02 4:25

Uh huh.

SPEAKER_13 4:25

And then my husband took me out to eat dinner. Nice. No.

SPEAKER_12 4:31

Um just so nasty. That sound is so nasty.

SPEAKER_15 4:43

And I missed it because I just spaced out. Sorry. I didn't hear words you say. I just started the show and left. I was just like, knock, knock, I'm here, I'm leaving.

SPEAKER_02 4:53

Like, bye guys. He pressed record and walked away. He was like, new LABA. Bye guys.

SPEAKER_11 5:04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_13 5:05

Get out of here. That's a hot ass matter. So he took you to dinner. Yeah, he took me to dinner, and um, my fat ass ate a lot. Really? To the point where, first of all, everybody and their mother was out. And then and then you know what I seen? You know how they have the um that whole thing with the girls now. What is it, Galantine's?

SPEAKER_11 5:26

Mm-hmm. Oh.

SPEAKER_13 5:27

With the girls. Oh, yeah, the girls' night. So going in, you know, to see how long the reservation or whatever is gonna be. And it's just a group of girls going out together. It was so many of them.

SPEAKER_15 5:39

Yeah, that's the thing now.

SPEAKER_13 5:40

And I was like, oh. I like just to witness it in like full bloom was kind of like crazy to me. Um but it was a two-hour wait. Yeah. It was a two hour.

SPEAKER_15 5:51

And I I think you waited because you went to No, I did.

SPEAKER_13 5:54

I waited and I ate my ass off. Like, oh What are you sitting on?

SPEAKER_15 6:00

That was a short meal.

SPEAKER_13 6:01

Nothing. Hey out. Don't do that. My husband likes it. Not short meal.

unknown 6:12

Oh my God.

SPEAKER_02 6:17

She only had an appetizer. But yeah, Galantines is a thing now, but you know what else is a thing I just stumbled across?

SPEAKER_15 6:26

I think you're about to say exactly what I'm about to say.

SPEAKER_02 6:29

Yeah, there's a man version of it. It was a group of guys that decided to have a Malentine's Day, and they got together and celebrated Valentine's Day, but just like So the picture I saw, they was like in their pajamas hanging out, and they each had gifts. No and shit. No. And I was like, that's a little weird. Yeah, that's a little weird. Like if it wasn't the pajamas, the concept of it could have been something different. Cause I don't know why pajamas. Heart pajamas.

SPEAKER_13 7:14

Oh, they was in heart pajamas?

SPEAKER_02 7:16

Oh, I'm about to say I it was just, I don't know. It it was different.

SPEAKER_13 7:22

I could understand it, you know. Single people. Yeah, they were just like nobody. So hey, let's just hang out. But let's hang out and chill in our pajamas.

SPEAKER_15 7:31

Yeah, like it's weird. But um I don't even know what I I don't even know what to say about that. That's so if I had to describe that in one word. Yeah, here you go.

SPEAKER_14 7:46

You know what? What's the word? What's the word? Uh no, please do.

SPEAKER_13 7:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_14 7:50

No.

SPEAKER_13 7:51

Please do. You already got us excited. I want to know. Come on. I don't know. That's kind of that's kind of weird. Yeah. Nah, you're dumbing it down.

SPEAKER_15 8:02

I am dumbing it down. That's kind of weird, though. I don't want to be around a bunch of my boys in pajamas.

SPEAKER_02 8:09

Pajamas.

SPEAKER_15 8:10

Yeah, that's that's that's chocolates and shit like happy Valentine's Day. Like, no, nigga.

SPEAKER_13 8:14

Like if they got together and be like, you know, let's go do something.

SPEAKER_02 8:17

Let's go bowl or play pool or some shit. Yeah, or like you know, play cards and they got together like at one of their houses and was like, oh, let's watch the game, have some week some beers or whatever, and just kind of whatever. But don't make it like about Valentine's Day.

SPEAKER_13 8:32

Not they got together and they got wine and the Chiccuterie boys and shit.

SPEAKER_14 8:37

The picture that I saw.

SPEAKER_02 8:38

The Chicoterie boys. The picture that I saw, and I don't know if that was the real picture of them or just the picture. Yeah, because the picture like they had on like Valentine's pajamas, and they had like little gift bags, and one had like a Mickey Mouse. No. No.

SPEAKER_13 9:01

Somebody fabricated that picture because ain't no way. Ain't no way. Nah, Mickey Mouse. Like, hey, bro. How you feel? Somebody pop up with chocolates for you. One of your boys, bring you some chop barbershop.

SPEAKER_15 9:12

No, they're not coming in my house, yo.

SPEAKER_13 9:15

Knocking on the door.

SPEAKER_15 9:16

Nah, yo.

SPEAKER_13 9:16

Hey yo, Mister, what's good? I got you some chocolates, my boy. Like.

SPEAKER_15 9:20

Fuck out of here, bro.

SPEAKER_13 9:22

Ooh, chocolate.

SPEAKER_11 9:23

Extra noob.

SPEAKER_15 9:24

Like, extra nukad, man.

SPEAKER_11 9:26

I got the wine.

SPEAKER_15 9:28

What the fuck is this?

SPEAKER_13 9:30

Don't bring me no Snickers, dude. Don't bring me nothing with nuts in it. Get out of it away from my eyes. I brought you a Mr. Goodbye. Like, that's wild.

SPEAKER_14 9:40

Yeah, I could bring me a payday.

SPEAKER_15 9:43

That's nothing but nuts and chocolate.

SPEAKER_13 9:46

That's why you said a payday.

SPEAKER_15 9:47

Got it. Understood. You got a Malentines?

SPEAKER_02 9:50

The original payday is no chocolate. It's just all nuts.

SPEAKER_13 9:57

You hear me? With nougat. Nuts and nougat. Alright, we got off topic. Alright, sorry. But um, no, like, I don't know. Like, I couldn't. That should that should never be a thing.

SPEAKER_12 10:11

Just the description that you gave. I'm a fine bitch. It's crazy.

SPEAKER_15 10:15

That should never be a thing.

SPEAKER_13 10:16

No, I'm not like so. I if guys want to get together, hang out. No, if they want to hang out, they want to hang out like you guys would hang out.

SPEAKER_15 10:25

On the 13th or the 15th. No. We should not get together on the 14th of February. Ever. Ever.

SPEAKER_13 10:36

I don't see nothing wrong, but it like, y'all just not the pajamas. That's that's wild to me.

SPEAKER_02 10:42

And again, I don't know if that picture was real. Yeah, I don't know. No, but I like to do it.

SPEAKER_15 10:47

But there is there, there is a thing out there for like that. They do that. Yeah. Like I don't know if it's the new age thing.

SPEAKER_02 10:55

Well, that's very new to me. Yeah, that's a new age thing. Just like like the Galantines thing is newer.

SPEAKER_15 11:00

That's new.

SPEAKER_02 11:01

Can you imagine a bunch of Yans together for Valentine's? With they they hard pajamas and Tim's on. With pistols in their back.

SPEAKER_13 11:10

Yo, shut up. Now they got them in them little uh holsters? What they call them crossbody bags.

SPEAKER_14 11:16

Crossbody holsters. Yo. This nigga said. Like, what the fuck? Yo, get out of here. So, how's everybody's weekend?

SPEAKER_12 11:29

No, no, no, no. You can't start off with the Yeds doing a fucking palant or Valentine's Day. I just can't get the fucking bitch out of it. They got ski masks over. All right.

SPEAKER_15 11:41

So they said mask, dreads, dreads coming out of it, skinny jeans. Yo. Mumble rapping. Wow. Not mumble rapping. Wild. So how was everybody's weekend, though? Other than yours, Sean, how was yours? Listening to K Michelle. Yo.

SPEAKER_12 11:57

Can't raise the man.

SPEAKER_02 12:00

Hey, yo.

SPEAKER_13 12:04

Y'all should have never said nothing about no Valentine's.

SPEAKER_02 12:08

It was um a short week, thankfully. Because you know, we had some holidays spread in there. So my ass has been on vacation. So it was nice to have a very short week of work. Yeah. Uh-huh. How was your Valentine? Oh, it was good. It was a Valentine with a little time.

Spotting Side Pieces And Last‑Minute Shoppers

SPEAKER_13 12:31

I waited two hours for my email. You know, the fact that he sat there with the smile on his face, knowing what I was wrong. I'm waiting for all the time. Knowing what he wanted to say. It wouldn't have mattered what his response was. You were just ready to just fire.

SPEAKER_02 12:47

Ready and fire. I could have said, you know what? We went to church and prayed. Behind the pew by the pastor.

SPEAKER_15 13:00

Amen, Jesus.

SPEAKER_13 13:01

And the mother of the church. No.

SPEAKER_11 13:04

Oh my God.

SPEAKER_15 13:05

The deacons caught you.

SPEAKER_02 13:08

Then I caught the deacon.

SPEAKER_12 13:09

Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_13 13:11

Then you had a deacon. So we we we like to, you know, teeter the line and you laugh. You just he kicks the line out.

SPEAKER_14 13:24

Yes. Hold on, what line?

SPEAKER_02 13:27

Who fucked through this? I want to see people get titty fucked. I was about to step on this shit. Let me boot this. Oh my god. I'm sorry. But no, I'm not. It was a good Valentine's Day. I also waited two hours for my food. Oh. Did you really? Yeah. Mad as fuck. For real? Mad as fuck. Yeah. It was busy. It was busy as well.

SPEAKER_15 13:52

Yo, everybody thinks that day is important. You know what I seen when I went out and took my wife out? You know every bitch is a side bitch. Hold on. Cause you can see the signs. Cause all you see is niggas at the table like this, just looking around. Looking around. Making sure nobody noticed. Hey, yo, I see so many pigeon nextes. Like, yo, what the fuck? Like, yo, dude. That's crazy. Calm down.

SPEAKER_02 14:28

Like, yo, don't be out here. Yeah. Or if you're gonna be out here, don't be out here in your area. Yo, for real. Like, no.

SPEAKER_13 14:59

And it's not just dudes, because now that you mention that, I noticed like it was these two chicks out, you know, and the butch one kept doing what you call a pigeon net. Yeah, yeah. I kept, I was like, Yeah. Why she keep looking around? Like, that makes sense now.

SPEAKER_15 15:17

They they out there. And and it's those that's out there like fishing. Uh-huh. You know what I'm saying? Just looking at the fucking like, alright, I'm gonna go. You know what I'm saying? Like, Valentine's Day isn't just Valentine's Day. It's it's uh it's a major uh it's a major shopping day. It is, it is you know what I'm saying? They be out there looking for other people, motherfuckers.

SPEAKER_13 15:38

Like, oh, let me see what he's doing for her. Yeah, I'm about to bag him, he got me next year.

SPEAKER_02 15:43

And I went to um, I went to CVS to grab something real quick. And the Valentine's Day aisles with like the Valentine's Day candy and shit was empty. Was wrecked. It was like people ran through like Black Friday with the city. Ladies and gentlemen. Oh my god, last minute.

SPEAKER_15 16:04

I forgot to grab. Don't ever get your partner anything from uh CVS for Valentine's Day. That is a thoughtless ass gift.

SPEAKER_13 16:12

Because you know, you know it's from CVS. That's the type of shit you get for your kids.

SPEAKER_15 16:15

Yo, bro, that is a lotless as if you got a if any uh of y'all got a CVS chocolate or bear. Well, if they'll know. Like you decide, bitch. I mean the chocolate ain't gonna say CVS necessarily. I mean, you can tell a CVS chocolate.

SPEAKER_12 16:34

Oh I agree. You can tell it's the CS chocolate. It's a lot of lighting on CVS chocolates.

SPEAKER_02 16:42

No, you can go in there and get a box of Ferrero Rocher, that don't mean it came from the CBS. No one's like, oh my god, that's the CVS Ferrero Rocher. Like, stop.

SPEAKER_15 16:52

Yeah, no. Because then the chocolate differences inside. It don't match, it don't match the pictures. Not as butterfinger wrapped in that. Don't ever get your lady CVS Valentine's gifts.

SPEAKER_11 17:09

Be thoughtful.

SPEAKER_02 17:10

Be thoughtful. That ain't no different than the running into the grocery store.

SPEAKER_15 17:16

Yep. I'm telling you, like, listen, you gotta see.

SPEAKER_13 17:20

I mean, the flowers from the grocery store.

SPEAKER_15 17:23

Grocery store flowers? I mean, that's go to a no go to a florist.

SPEAKER_14 17:29

If you care about that woman, go to a fucking florist.

SPEAKER_13 17:32

Thinking about, like, oh, let me just grab my mother some flowers real quick. That's a Valentine's Day.

SPEAKER_15 17:38

You come home with squash covered. Because that shit is in a vegetable aisle.

SPEAKER_02 17:45

You it's right next to the project right there. We got a couple strawberries sitting on it. The road smell like yam.

SPEAKER_14 17:57

Why my sister?

SPEAKER_02 17:59

Why my rolls smell like yam?

SPEAKER_15 18:02

I got the dairy cheese gang slice stuff in my fucking road. No, go smell like the vegan aisle.

SPEAKER_14 18:11

Treat your partner right, man. Yeah, don't be thoughtless.

SPEAKER_15 18:15

Don't be last minute thoughtless now.

SPEAKER_13 18:16

And don't come with no barefoot wine.

SPEAKER_15 18:18

Don't do that. If you're doing that for your side piece, I could buy that myself. Then I get it. So it might just have been a lot of side pieces out there getting slimmy as flowers.

SPEAKER_02 18:30

I don't want to discourage anybody because some people may not have it like that to do the other stuff, and it's the thought that counts. Okay. I'm just I'm talking about. All you can afford is what CVS has on their shelf. Well, it's not and you're showing your love for you.

SPEAKER_15 18:46

I ain't talking to I ain't talking to I ain't talking to those people. I'm talking to I'm talking to those people that got it.

SPEAKER_02 18:56

I'm talking to those who bring your boys no sleeping.

SPEAKER_14 19:02

You better go to the floors and go get a free. You better get an edible arrangement.

SPEAKER_15 19:09

Oh my God. And I think I don't know about edible arrangements either for Valentine's Day.

SPEAKER_13 19:14

Why do the peonies inside the box?

SPEAKER_15 19:16

I mean that too.

SPEAKER_13 19:20

But they're not cheap.

SPEAKER_15 19:21

They not.

SPEAKER_13 19:21

They're not cheap at all.

SPEAKER_02 19:22

But no, they still they have a lot of different things in edible arrangements. Not just the like the fruit. Like you can buy like chocolate covered strawberries and all kinds of and bouquets of flowers.

SPEAKER_15 19:35

Now let me say, I'm not, I'm not if if if it's the thought that counts. Give me some edible arrangements. I usually I know I know some ladies don't mind.

SPEAKER_02 19:50

Especially because it's nice that you know you get delivered. Yeah, well, yeah, that's true. Yeah, but if you know, third year edible arrangements. If they like it, they got a membership.

SPEAKER_12 20:03

They ain't having thinking about it no more.

SPEAKER_02 20:05

That's the only fruit she has on automatic delivery.

SPEAKER_14 20:09

This bitch ain't ate no fruit all year.

SPEAKER_13 20:10

Let me give her some edible fruit. That's crazy. Let me ask y'all a question though. Would it be crazy if, like, say your person came with like the a bouquet of like fake flowers that they went and put together at like a Michael's or a Joe Ann's. How would you feel? Or Hobby Lobby, how would you feel about it? I think that's sentiment. I don't think you put an effort for that.

SPEAKER_15 20:37

Yeah, I don't think that's a faultless gift. I think that and and it's something if they could keep. And if if they if they play their cards right and put their words together, that's something that can be like, oh, this is a long, long-lasting type of thing. It's not just gonna last a couple days.

SPEAKER_13 20:51

It actually takes effort. That takes effort, especially because trying to put a fake uh even followed bouquet together.

SPEAKER_02 20:57

Some real bouquets is ugly as fuck. Something that my love don't die type shit. You know, or love don't cost a thing.

SPEAKER_15 21:07

Yeah, you know what I'm saying? I agree with that. That's not a that's not a faultless type of rich.

SPEAKER_12 21:13

He ain't even catch it. Yo, I didn't. I'd be I'll be spacing the fuck out.

SPEAKER_15 21:22

I'm gonna hear it and play back.

SPEAKER_12 21:24

It wasn't me, it was him.

SPEAKER_15 21:26

I'ma hear it and playback. Shit.

SPEAKER_12 21:29

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_15 21:30

But all right, last question on there. I ain't gonna drag this on. Um so what would you consider a thoughtful type gift? I know the the bouquet, you know what I'm saying? Well, what else? Like, there's not a lot of things you can get on Valentine's Day. So for me Well, that's not actually true either.

SPEAKER_13 21:49

Right, yeah, you can get anything on Valentine's Day. Yeah. Oh, okay. But so for me, it it's the thought that count. I'm simple. I'm really simple. If you had you made a card, like you took papers, like I don't even if you ain't got it in you, yeah, and you put something together or whatever, I appreciate that.

SPEAKER_02 22:08

Yeah, because I don't, you know, I hate when people have expectations of other people. Yes. Um, so the fact that somebody thinks of you enough to do something is, in my opinion, is right what if

SPEAKER_15 22:25

You go to the Hallmark aisle in the grocery store, find the the card that takes, you know, says what you wanted to say. You take a picture of it, you write it down in your own word in your own handwriting and give it to them as as if you wrote it.

SPEAKER_13 22:41

That took dedication for you to actually go into a store, take a picture of it, to go home and write it down, even though it's not what you're doing.

SPEAKER_15 22:48

It'd be like sign, sign me.

SPEAKER_02 22:50

You know, I I wrote this from my heart. You ain't even gonna do that now. Chat GPT something. Yep. That's true. I'd be like, write me down. That is very true.

SPEAKER_13 22:59

But even still for somebody to go through that and do that, like that's taking time out. Because you're taking time out to do it. I mean, it's uh oh shit, let me get something together, but you're taking the time out. Some people are like, oh shit, oh well. Yeah. They go to fucking CBS and get you a box of anything that you know somebody chooses to do for you.

SPEAKER_02 23:25

Yeah, you know. However they do it. I don't want to make anybody feel like shit. Right, however, they do it.

SPEAKER_15 23:30

How many babies are gonna happen in nine months? I don't know, it's about to be a bunch of Ferrero shades out here. I'm done. Maybe not. Very true. All right, I'm done. I'm done with that time. What's going on in the world today? Co-parenting.

SPEAKER_13 23:47

Oh parenting. Um, happy black history months. Oh, absolutely. So yeah. But go ahead. You said what? Co-parenting. Co-parenting. Uh-oh.

Co‑Parenting Boundaries In A Snowstorm

SPEAKER_02 23:57

So we have a guy who um has a child with a woman, and he's currently in a different relationship with another woman, and there was some snow that happened to happen, and it was significantly enough snow where this man's child's mother was stuck in the driveway. The car was snowed in. So he says, apparently being a father is weird now. I'm currently at my baby mama's house because her car got snowed in and was stuck in the driveway. She had no one else to call and had to be at work in the morning. My girlfriend told me not to go, said it was weird that I'm still the one my ex calls, and someone else should have already handled it. I ignored that and went anyway because when it comes to my kids, I don't debate. I move, I shoveled, salted, and got the car free. Do you think that he was wrong for A being the one that is still being dependent on by the baby mother? B being the one that actually went, even though his girlfriend protests too much. Um, or should he have allowed her to go outside and shovel her own snow, find someone else to um dig out that car? Or like, do you think it was disrespectful for him to not honor his girlfriend's wishes to not be running to her um aid every time that she That's your baby daddy, right?

SPEAKER_13 25:39

That's your baby mother. Okay. Y'all broke up. Y'all no longer together. You're obligated to the baby, not the mother.

SPEAKER_15 25:47

Very true.

SPEAKER_13 25:48

So no, you shouldn't be going to shovel her out.

SPEAKER_02 25:50

So that's what he said. He said, in order for her to go to work and the kids to get where they need, he went and did that because my kids still have to get to school, get to whatever. Okay. I and I hear what you say. I'm not I'm not saying. No, no, no, no. That's just my look at it. Like, okay, pick your kids up.

SPEAKER_15 26:11

So the type of person I am, uh-huh. Okay, I would have at least helped, right? However, I need to see if you made an effort to do something. Like, just don't call me because you you stuck and you, you know, you need help and you did you even try to shovel yourself out? Right. Like, did you even try before you call anybody? What did you do for yourself to try to get our child to where they need to be, where you need to be? Like, if you tried and it's like you got to a spot and it's like I can't get the rest of this, um, I I the kids go, you know, the kid going crazy. It's it's a difficult, it's harder snow here. Uh, I I the only persons I know that's doing it, they can't get to me on time. I need to get to work and it and our kid needs to get to I I I hear that yo, just to get our kid where he needs to go, I I I'll I'll come by and do the rest for him for or her, the child. I'm not doing this for you. I'm doing this so for the well-being of our child. I understand that point of it.

SPEAKER_13 27:19

What was she doing um beforehand? Like, so now every time it's snow, I'm up you obligated to go. No, because No, just think about that though.

SPEAKER_15 27:27

There's a conversation that has to be had there, though. Like when I get there, there's a conversation that had to be had. Like, I can't be, I can't be the only person you depend on. Cause now that word makes everything different, right? Yeah, the that that depending thing. Like, I you can't depend on me. Our child has to but depend on us, but I don't need you to depend on me, because I ain't gonna be there every time you need me. I'm gonna be there every time you need the child. My bad, go ahead.

SPEAKER_13 27:53

No, no, no. I wanted you to finish. Cause I'm like, so here's my thing, you know, I was like overanalyzed shit and think about it. You have your own place. So I'm assuming whatever. You might have an apartment, you may have your house, or whatever. Pick the child out. You knew where what the situation was with having to, you know, dig yourself out or do whatever. I've dug myself out of shit. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So there's no need, I've never called my baby daddy to be like, hey, can you come dig me out? I'm stuck now. So nor have I called a brother or my father. I like you can get yourself out.

SPEAKER_15 28:35

You can get yourself out.

SPEAKER_13 28:35

So for me, as far as the girlfriend, and I'm like, nah, you could we could go, we could go pick up the baby and bring them to school while she shovel herself out. She could be late to work, but your kids could get to school on time.

SPEAKER_15 28:47

So that was gonna be my next point. That would have been what I my next point would have been if I'm not going to do that, I'm going to pick up my son or my child. And they're like, I well, if you can't get them him or her or to school on time, I'll bring them. I got them, and then good luck with whatever you need to do. Because I'm not gonna be the person you depend on every time something goes wrong.

SPEAKER_13 29:08

So that's me might sound fucked up, but at the end of the day, it's like I owe you nothing.

SPEAKER_15 29:13

I owe you, I owe you what I owe you for the child, which is making sure I'm there for our child.

SPEAKER_11 29:20

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 29:20

Um, but I'm not gonna be, I'm not gonna fix your pipes, I ain't gonna fix your toilet trees, I ain't doing any of that shit.

SPEAKER_13 29:26

And I'm only saying this on a defense of the girlfriend side. Now, if I was the type of girlfriend who be like, oh bet, I'll help you come shovel her out, then that's fine. You know what I'm saying? Not everybody's not like that. So, like, for me, it would have been some nah, go pick up the kid because why the fuck she calling you to dig her out.

SPEAKER_02 29:44

Well, no, see, because if I'm the girlfriend and I'm like, all right, well, come on, I'm gonna go with you and just shovel this bitch out. That bitch better be paraplegic, or all three of us is out there shoveling because I'm not going out of the car. That's what I mean. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_13 29:58

Yeah, because ain't no way I'm gonna let you go shovel this bitch out when she's sitting in the car getting warm. No, no, she's not even in the car. She's not here and made you a hot breakfast and stuff like that.

SPEAKER_15 30:08

Yeah, very true.

SPEAKER_02 30:09

Come on in and get warm.

SPEAKER_15 30:10

Like I said, yeah, you gotta do something first.

SPEAKER_02 30:12

Yeah, before you bitches out here be on some other levels, yeah. It was interesting because um looking at the different views on the situation, and it was very, very much an even split. Yeah, and a lot of people, even females, was like, it's not that serious. Y'all tripping. Why y'all feel like when people co-parenting that they gotta hate each other? Like it.

SPEAKER_13 30:38

But nobody said anything about hate and it's the respect of the other person.

SPEAKER_02 30:42

No, they're saying like it don't have to be that serious of why your girlfriend has to feel some type of way about it. Because why is that a uh uh issue? We are co-parenting a child, and I'm saying I'm they don't have something for to be able to, you know, help take care of your child. Because even if it's not, there was like even if it's not the that the kid gotta go to school, it's that I have to go to work, and if I can't get to work, I can't provide, I can't provide for your child. So it's like the baby father was dead, then what serious of a I'm just saying it's so many scenarios, like then you would be getting his social security and you'd be able to buy a snowblower.

SPEAKER_13 31:25

Yeah, exactly. So that's my thing, man.

SPEAKER_02 31:29

But some people was like, um, you know, at this point, because y'all exes, you guys have moved on. So regardless of the fact that there's children involved, there's also boundaries that should be set. Very true.

SPEAKER_15 31:44

So it all again, it all depends on the people that you're dealing with. Like it depends on your lady, it depends on how how well you know your ex. And if I know my ex is on some on some crazy bullshit, bitch, I'm coming get my child and we out of here. Right. I'm not you gotta know who you're dealing with.

SPEAKER_13 32:04

Exactly. And that's what I mean when I when I was like, it like it depends, like if your person is cool with it. Yeah, it's off of the strength of like it ain't no funny shit going on. Like, we all cool. Yeah, she ain't she gonna got no hate for me because I'm the new girlfriend and now she be like, nah, um, this, this, this, because you with that new bitch, but you calling my man to come help you get out. That's not happening. You gotta know. If it was on some respect shit, like I'll come help if he can't. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 32:33

Yeah.

SPEAKER_13 32:33

Like, we can do it together.

SPEAKER_02 32:35

Like, well, I right, but I I think even like for me, like I feel like what Mr. first point that he made of what did you do before you go? Yeah, did you have to put any effort in to try to get yourself dug out? Like, were you just sitting around like I'm going out, they're about to do that. I ain't gonna like at some point you have to learn how to take responsibility, responsibility, and take care of yourself and your kids.

SPEAKER_13 33:06

I was like, I pulled up and see her like not do nothing. I'd like girl, bring them kids out.

SPEAKER_15 33:10

Yeah, because if I pull no, that's that's the point. Like, if I pull up and this shit is like not even touched, okay, grab my child, I'll I'll bring them to school. You can handle this, you know what I'm saying? Because no, I'm not gonna be a sucker for that shit. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? I I care for my child, and I just want to make sure they're I they're in in good hands and and well-being, and they can get what they need to get, which means if that means you gotta get to somewhere to make sure they're good, fine. But I need you to I need you to do something, yeah.

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SPEAKER_02 33:39

And so for me, I looked at it more to Nene's side of it. I understood both sides, but for me, I was like, okay, if I was in that situation and that happened, it's not even about jealousy or any of that type of stuff. It's the fact that she can call you an act. You're an adult. Yeah, and unless you're handicapped or in some way unable to think for yourself, right? There is no real reason for you to have to call this person to come from where they're at to come and assist you because that's technically not co-parenting. Yeah, that's right. That had nothing to do with co-oparent at all. Because there are so many other options out there of how you could have handled this. You ain't the only person that got snowed in. Right. You got neighbors, yep, that's very out there probably shoveling or snow blowing. Yeah, you can ask for assistance. Yeah, you got a couple dollars, ask one of these young fools that's walking around.$10, get your whole shit. Yeah, yeah. Or even myself, one of the last snows that we got, the big snow that we got recently. Oh, what you do?

SPEAKER_13 34:49

And because not what you do, shut up.

SPEAKER_02 34:52

I had just recently sold my house, and so I got rid of a lot of all of my equipment, uh-huh, not thinking like I was gonna need shovel where I was moving. And then we got 18 inches of snow. Yeah. I was outside with a fucking broom. You had to get it done. Because I had to do what I had to do until one of my neighbors came out and he was shoveling out his girlfriend, and I was like, When you done, can I use your shovel? He was like, Yeah, no problem. Like, you just have to do what you have to do. Absolutely. Put you and your kids, yeah. And you have to have somebody else in your life that you could have called before you went to start. I'm sure there was a list of people. Like, you gotta have somebody. Yeah, right. Yeah, it is a list of people, but it's just that I do.

SPEAKER_13 35:36

What a dude you you doing right now.

SPEAKER_02 35:39

Yep. Yeah.

SPEAKER_13 35:40

He probably said, girl, I ain't gonna need to shovel shit.

SPEAKER_02 35:42

And I've seen people above the age of when they should be actually out there doing this shit, yeah, doing this shit. Yeah. So if they can be out there doing this shit, very true, you can get out there and shovel.

SPEAKER_15 35:53

For real. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 35:55

So but I did find it interesting because I saw how many um people it was really, really split.

SPEAKER_15 36:06

Yeah, yeah. I can see I can see both sides. You saw both sides of it. You can see both sides. Because it it again is the people you're dealing with and their mentality on how they they look at shit. So, yeah, whatever. All right. Don't go shovel nobody, no exes. Just just stay home. Just stay home.

SPEAKER_13 36:29

So I want to know if y'all agree with this. Well, mainly you, pretty much. As a man, you, mister. As a man, if you are still dealing with girls who need money for nails, hair, cooking gas, data, and data, you are not serious with your life. Do you agree with that? And data.

SPEAKER_02 36:52

Yeah, like I think they're talking about um like the cell phone data. Like, um, can you pay for my um because you ought to you didn't use the upgrade in your plan? Um which most plans I thought were unlimited unless you got like a cricket. But even don't post. I think so. I don't know.

SPEAKER_15 37:12

Here's here's my stance on that.

SPEAKER_13 37:15

We got unlimited. I don't I don't got night time out. Right?

SPEAKER_14 37:22

I don't got that prepaid. Okay.

SPEAKER_13 37:29

What's the question again? Oh my god. Um as a man, if you are still dealing with girls who need money for nails, hair, cooking gas, and data, you are not serious with your life. And I feel like this excludes well no, I'm not even gonna be able to do it.

SPEAKER_15 37:44

Here's two words that that that's a red flag to me. Men as a man, and then you said girls. As a man and girls should not be that shouldn't even you know what I mean. So if you're dealing with a a girl and you're trying to trick out with hail, hair nails, and all that shit, then you you know what type of future you're gonna have. Um if I'm dealing with someone who who I don't mind doing that stuff for, but if there's no growth on their side to be like, yo, I can reciprocate or I can let me do this for you, type shit, and I'm just kind of coming out of pocket at this point, I it kind of gets old. It gets old. And it I you know, because I I kind of I want us to grow together, and if it feels like if I'm outgrowing, then it's it's either like uh well.

SPEAKER_13 38:41

So here's my thing with this too, though. Um who the fuck cares? And it's a man and a girl.

SPEAKER_15 38:52

But I just think I just think the person is just if they like to do that, then they like to do that.

SPEAKER_13 38:57

Yeah, like if a guy wants to it are you mad because it's not you, like, why are you upset? Because it was a chick who actually asked that question. Gotcha, gotcha, gotcha. Um, so it's just like, why are you upset about that? So what if this person, it's probably their child, they worried about, like, oh my son keeps spending his money on this girl, whatever. But it's like if that's what they want to do. They like tricking, they like tricking. Yeah, they'll eventually grow out of it, or they won't. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. You know what I mean? Like, yeah, it's either working for them, let it work.

SPEAKER_15 39:25

It's either get to a point where he's like, I'm I'm done with tricking on these chicks, or it's like this is if if this is sometimes sometimes dudes feel like that they need to do that to feel the like feel love reciprocated somehow.

SPEAKER_13 39:38

Like they or some men just like to do that just to feel quote unquote what they would call as a man.

SPEAKER_15 39:46

Yeah. I I got a friend that used to do that, who buy the their lady stuff because they feel like that's their that's their love language, but they took advantage of that, and it they just like I don't know.

SPEAKER_13 40:01

But that's the thing, it can happen. Like women can't will and can take advantage of the men, and you know, vice versa. But again, that's that person that's what that person wants to do.

SPEAKER_15 40:12

They like doing it, they like doing it.

SPEAKER_13 40:14

Mind your business. So if unless it's like detrimental to them, like and you see that if it's gonna cause them harm, or you know, like, oh, if this blows up, something's gonna, then okay, I could see you saying that to them, but like just leave people in their relationships.

SPEAKER_15 40:29

I guess because sometimes get that Valentine's out your throat.

SPEAKER_12 40:39

Hey, yo.

SPEAKER_02 40:42

I guess cause sometimes looking depending on the situation, like who you're dealing with, the people, it can be detrimental because so say it's your brother, Nene. Stop. And he's just the type of person that he's just a very nice giving, generous person. Some people may look at that as he's a simple what have you. And he's just used to, you know, doing things like that. But he's it's always ends up being the it always ends up being at the place where it's no longer him doing it because it's something that he feels inclined to do. It's because these bitches have gotten used to it, and so now they take advantage of now they just always expect it and asking. And it can't end up being detrimental for him because and if I see it from a distance, right? Exactly.

SPEAKER_15 41:59

I have to say something.

SPEAKER_13 42:00

Well, see, that's what I that's what I meant when I said it, unless it's something that you see and it's gonna be detrimental, then say something. But you can't just go off the rip and be like, Yeah, you you guys need to upgrade your lives because you out here buying chick stuff. That's that's that's unnecessary.

SPEAKER_15 42:16

It's tricky too, right? It can be. Because if I'm seeing it from a distance and I'm like, yo, dude, like that, what you're doing, but again, that's his choice if he wants to listen to you or not. Yeah, but yeah, by the time I want to say something, I think the time span of him doing it. It's like he doesn't he either he knows or he doesn't care, or is this like he just doesn't want to see the truth of the matter because he he's getting something from it that he it is it's making him feel good about himself.

SPEAKER_13 42:46

Again, that's why I'd be like, well, and again, it comes down to who you know, the person, like how you know the person. Like, are you if you say something, are they gonna listen to you? Because you know what, 99 times out of a hundred, they're not listening to you.

SPEAKER_02 43:03

You're right, depending on the situation. I don't know, maybe I'm just different because I feel like if my person is doing these things for me, and I'm not even asking for it to be done, that's one thing. If they've done these things for me, and then now I've gotten to the point where now I'm comfortable or spoiled or what have you, and now I don't even attempt to do these things on my own, and now I'm always just asking. Yeah. Like, oh, I need my hair done this week, or I need my nails done, and like it's shampoo. That's when I just get it, I feel like it's a bit cringey because it's like, okay. Yeah. Yeah.

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SPEAKER_13 43:44

At some point. Like, you ain't send me that money, you know it's time for me to get my yeah. But again, again, some people, that's some people put themselves in those situations, right? Very true. And it's like, why am I gonna like one make a big old post and sit there and say, like, you're you're a you're an idiot for doing it. And they may be what may, you know, they may be an idiot, but that's they business as idiots. True, yeah, true. You know what I'm saying? Cause I've seen a lot of stupid shit people do. I've done stupid shit and people've told me about it. I've ignored it. So you know what I'm saying? Like, it's it's like how many times

SPEAKER_15 44:24

People gotta lie to you. Right.

SPEAKER_13 44:26

That's what I mean. I'm not trying to make it seem like off the rip you're gonna be harsh. Cause I get what everybody's saying, but for this particular person to call them, like, oh, you need to upgrade your life or whatever with your life, I think that's unnecessary.

SPEAKER_15 44:39

Yeah. It's hard to put expersions on people after like because you know personally, everybody go through their own kind of struggles and they know what that are that is. And when they start like casting their issues on other people when they see like similarities of what they've been through, they want to kind of stir you away from it. And you you can't. Sometimes you just gotta let people go through what they need to go through. Right.

SPEAKER_13 45:05

And you can't sit there and call them stupid because then it's gonna be like, damn, like I gotta be all like that.

SPEAKER_15 45:11

Like sometimes people gotta struggle, and sometimes their struggle is just gonna be a little bit longer because you know they they just they think they know what they need to do, right? Sometimes it doesn't turn out the best for them. So good luck.

SPEAKER_02 45:23

Sometimes people just like being used. Yeah, yeah, that's quite honest. Like they're like, well, I got it, and I ain't got nothing else to do with it. So very true. That's true.

SPEAKER_13 45:31

Very true. Yeah, yeah. That brings us back to when we had a conversation before when it's like stay out of people's relationships. Like, because it's it sometimes it might break whatever bond you have with that person. Because yes, you do feel inclined to protect your people, but sometimes you have to sit back and just lessons are meant to be.

SPEAKER_02 45:52

Yeah. Yeah. Sometimes you gotta go through that's life. But um, so we got an interesting story about um weapons of ass destruction.

SPEAKER_10 46:01

Ooh, ass destruction.

SPEAKER_02 46:03

Weapon of ass destruction. We had a hospital in France that was evacuated after surgeons discovered a live eight-inch artillery shell from 1918 lodged inside a patient's rectum. A what hospital? Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

SPEAKER_13 46:21

No, just let him finish, please.

SPEAKER_02 46:23

What the hospital staff quickly contacted the bomb squad and emptied the facility out of fear that the shell would explode. So authorities deemed the shell not to be a threat and took it with them for further investigation. It remains unclear how the bomb ended up in the main. Unclear? I can tell. Tell them how local officers are clear. Local officers stated that prosecutors are considering taking legal action against him for handling a category A munitions. Shells of this sort were deployed by the Imperial German Army during World War I. Unfortunately, this is not the first incident that this has happened in that area of France in 2022. Another hospital was evacuated because an 88-year-old man had arrived with a similar World War I artillery shell lodged in his anus. Something's going on in that town.

SPEAKER_13 47:21

They look like dildos. They do. And I mean, I can understand the 86-year-old, he's not gonna probably know the difference.

SPEAKER_15 47:29

It might have been in there for a long time.

SPEAKER_13 47:30

It might have been in there since World War I.

SPEAKER_15 47:32

It might have been in there for a long time. You don't know what they was doing back then.

SPEAKER_13 47:36

Now he was a rocket mule. I mean a missile mule. Ammunitions mule?

SPEAKER_02 47:43

Yeah. I just want to no, I don't want to know.

SPEAKER_13 47:46

You know when you read that all our pictures, you ever see that video, the little cartoon video where the guy's looking out the window at the neighbor, and it's an old lady in the backyard, and she looked like she exercising, but she's actually going up and down on the gnome in her yard.

SPEAKER_15 48:00

Hey, yo.

SPEAKER_12 48:08

But look how big them shits is. That's crazy.

SPEAKER_02 48:11

Well, one of them was just eight inches. Well, not that that's not big, but I'm just saying, like, yo, he had that rusted shit in his asshole.

SPEAKER_13 48:18

I don't know if that was actually, but that's what I see. That nigga was But the fact that this is not the first time that happened is wild to me. Like, what do y'all do? Why do y'all have missiles just lying around? Like the the government, y'all need to go pick them shits up.

SPEAKER_02 48:34

It was bullet buddies. They had a secret Valentine's Day group. On the 14th, we about to get bullet buddies.

SPEAKER_13 48:50

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_02 48:57

But people do better. There are so many different ways that you could satisfy. These are older older people, right? There was one where the man was 88 years old, but this gentleman was not that as old. He was not that as a reenactment.

SPEAKER_12 49:15

What?

SPEAKER_15 49:16

35. Let's do a reenactment of one.

SPEAKER_13 49:22

Hey Chris. You want to see a missile in my basement?

SPEAKER_15 49:27

Yo.

SPEAKER_02 49:29

Yo. Nope. But like, did you lube it? Like, I'm trying to understand, like, hey, um, when you run out of toys, right?

SPEAKER_15 49:43

And you're just looking for substitute substitute. Your hand?

SPEAKER_13 49:46

Do you have hands? Not when you rub out run out of toys.

SPEAKER_15 49:50

It's like some people just outgrow hands. Just move on. People fist. Anything anything.

SPEAKER_13 50:00

Watch a couple of those. It's amazing to see.

SPEAKER_15 50:04

Fisting? That is crazy. That is an amazing thing that can happen I I yo, that is That is not a turn on.

SPEAKER_13 50:12

It's like it is for some people. I know it is. I know it is. That wouldn't be a thing if it wasn't.

SPEAKER_15 50:18

You know, you can put a baby head through it. Might as well. Well.

SPEAKER_02 50:21

Well. Yeah, you know what I'm saying? But the baby heads come out. That's they fist in various holes, not just the vages. Oh shit.

SPEAKER_13 50:32

What? Some people have big ass turds. Just like the coochie sweat, so does the booty. I said stretch. I meant to say stretch. I said sweat.

SPEAKER_14 50:44

I was so lost when she said sweat. I'm like, yo, coochie sweats?

SPEAKER_12 50:48

Concussion protocol.

SPEAKER_14 50:51

Coochie sweats. Like, well, that's a lot of work. Sir. Your boochie sweat?

SPEAKER_13 51:01

All men booty sweat.

SPEAKER_02 51:04

Why is it just men like all booties?

SPEAKER_13 51:08

Everybody got a booty on. Coochie sweat too.

SPEAKER_02 51:11

Well some have missiles, some don't.

SPEAKER_13 51:13

Oh my god. That's how we got up in there.

SPEAKER_02 51:16

Chris.

SPEAKER_15 51:18

Yo. I wonder if he like shot it in there or he sat on it. Sorry, if he shot it in there, he would have moved up by. Oh, well, you never know. You never know. They say keagles is a thing. Is it what's the word for assholes? Beagles.

SPEAKER_02 51:48

Stupid. Yo.

SPEAKER_13 51:56

Please don't. Hold it for ten seconds. No, no.

SPEAKER_14 52:00

As kegels, yo. That's crazy.

SPEAKER_15 52:06

I mean, technically you do that like the you gotta shit. You can do the little shit squeeze. That's a kegle.

SPEAKER_14 52:16

Yo, if you can't shit squeeze, yokes booty loose as fuck. That shit just called like water.

SPEAKER_13 52:24

Like so I wanna I yeah. I just want to talk about the because we didn't get a chance to have a conversation about a Super Bowl. Oh. Oh yeah. I love so and I mean the Super Bowl in itself was trash because that shit was so boring. It was like what the fuck? It was boring as well.

SPEAKER_15 52:47

Unless you're a defensive person and like defense, but still it's not even enough.

SPEAKER_13 52:51

That's mm-mm. That shit was trash. Um, but I love the halftime show. I thought the halftime show was very, very it was cultural.

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SPEAKER_15 53:00

It was it was culturally like it was so everything about it. Yeah, it the messaging, like a lot of the messaging I got after, like just researching and looking it up with people kind of pointing things out. Oh my god. You okay over there? I was doing my beagle. But for every idiot that didn't realize, he shouted out damn near the whole Central America and be like, hey, we Central South.

SPEAKER_14 53:25

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 53:25

We're America too. Like you're deporting us back to you. Like, the fuck.

SPEAKER_02 53:30

The fuck you talking about? That's why I found it so funny that you know, all of the um racists who were so up at arms about, oh, I don't understand what he's saying. He's speaking in Spanish. You didn't have to understand one word. Not a word. Exactly. Actually, gave a shit about it. Not a fucking word. Understanding the message.

SPEAKER_13 53:49

The visual was yeah, the visual was right there.

SPEAKER_15 53:52

How easily they they glaze over the the the electric pole thing when when they had the the the flood or whatever in Puerto Rico and they lost electricity for damn near a year. And it's America. So, you know, right. Yeah, you don't get that reference, people.

SPEAKER_13 54:07

That's because they still stuck on the dumb uh orange tangerine talking about how he even realized that Puerto Rico is a part of America, dummy. He still don't. I know. That's what I'm saying. So his little cult following behind.

SPEAKER_02 54:23

He does when he ended up.

SPEAKER_15 54:24

Yeah, he's talking to himself. Yeah, yeah. But I loved it. I love every second of it. Yeah, no, it was dope.

SPEAKER_13 54:29

It definitely was.

SPEAKER_15 54:33

Oh yeah. I don't give a fuck. If you didn't like that halftime show, you stupid. No, I mean, like this shit was fire. When this shit came on, nigga, man, I wanted to get up.

SPEAKER_03 54:52

Come on, come on!

SPEAKER_13 55:01

What? And I don't understand Spanish, and y'all couldn't tell me I wasn't Spanish at all.

SPEAKER_15 55:09

I am dancing now.

SPEAKER_13 55:17

Yo, I don't know.

SPEAKER_15 55:33

Yo, we bought this.

SPEAKER_13 55:39

What you need to understand? You don't need to be alone. Like the music.

SPEAKER_15 55:46

Oh my god. Come on, people. Come on, people. I don't give a fuck what you think. That shit came on, you wasn't moving to it, you're a racist. It was no fucking race. Pretty much.

SPEAKER_13 55:59

Well, I mean, they could have went and watched, you know. Kit rock. That dumbass shit. Kit rock and uh um failures do their performances over there. Um I love that Ricky Martin was there. Like, you know what I could have did it did without, but I get it.

SPEAKER_15 56:16

Don't say Lady Gaga.

SPEAKER_13 56:17

It's Lady Gaga.

SPEAKER_15 56:18

I like Lady Gaga. But I get it.

SPEAKER_13 56:19

No, I'm not saying I didn't like it. I'm not saying that I didn't like it. I love Lady Gaga. But I just I get why now that she was there. Um, but it was just like okay.

SPEAKER_15 56:32

Bad bunny loves Lady Gaga.

SPEAKER_02 56:35

Like there's that's like she Yeah, I like the different cameos. Yeah, Hardy B popped up, Pedro Pascal was like a Alba.

SPEAKER_13 56:42

It was like all of the yeah, all of these different Latin um and a shout out to uh Daddy Yankee.

SPEAKER_15 56:49

Yeah, the the the guests.

SPEAKER_13 56:50

Did they do Don Omar too? Did they shout him out too? Was it Don Omar?

SPEAKER_15 56:55

I think so. Possibly, yeah.

SPEAKER_13 56:57

I think so.

SPEAKER_15 56:58

I just I I like the overall message. I seen Barbados Flag in there, shouts out to Barbasians. Uh yeah, I mean, it was it was It was a great performance.

SPEAKER_02 57:07

It was a celebration of culture and bringing everyone together, and we should not be separated, and what's going on in this country right now is disgusting. And just highlighting the fact that we don't have to be where we are right now. We're this way because all of these racist mayonette packets is just choosing to be Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 57:29

If your conversation to me about the Super Bowl halftime is I didn't understand what they were saying, then don't talk to me because you're not paying you weren't paying attention.

SPEAKER_13 57:36

I had a friend text me right after, and they were like that, they were like, that was trash. And I was like, I liked it. They was like, I didn't understand nothing they were saying. I was like, neither did I, but I enjoyed it.

SPEAKER_15 57:53

Because they refused to look at the visual message, they went into it negatively.

SPEAKER_13 57:58

Yeah, and the crazy part about it is this person's not even American.

SPEAKER_11 58:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_13 58:03

That's what cracked me up. I still love you, boo. But it was just like, you gotta you gotta think outside the box a lot. People don't think outside the box.

SPEAKER_15 58:11

So I had some old I I work with some older uh Latin women who was like they enjoyed it, but even they was like, even they didn't kind of understand what he was saying. Because this this different type of Spanish that people talk. So it's the I think it's the dialect of Spanish, like certain dialects of Spanish that were these women um Cuban or Costa Rica? That's what I'm saying. I don't know what exactly were they from. Yeah, but because they was like I liked it, I just there's even certain things I didn't understand he was saying because there's there's you know, we say it different. Yeah. So I could I could understand that point of view of things.

SPEAKER_13 58:47

But they said they liked it. Yeah. If they had said we ain't enjoyed it, then that would have been different.

SPEAKER_15 58:51

Yeah, but but those who talking about, you know, I didn't like it because I didn't understand what he was saying. No, it wasn't for you to understand what he was saying.

SPEAKER_13 58:56

And surprisingly, well, I won't even say because it was almost like a 50-50 thing with our people saying, like, oh, I didn't really like it because I know like speak English. Like this English is not even the first uh that's that's England's language. Exactly. That's what I'm saying. Like, y'all so stupid.

SPEAKER_15 59:16

We should be speaking Native American here.

SPEAKER_13 59:19

Like, y'all crazy. Like well, Sean speaks Navajo. Slap a ho. Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_15 59:27

Yeah. Mm-hmm. One of the um some more Valentine in your throat. You want to get in? You was about to. Might as well just finish. One of the um solid that quick, didn't it? Yeah. I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_02 59:43

It's a table for four. Just four. Millions. I don't know. You done with your Kegels? Beagle's eagles. Kegels baby. Beagles, baby. Sorry, girl.

SPEAKER_12 59:58

Oh.

SPEAKER_02 1:00:00

Alright, my bad, go ahead. One of the things that I saw online, which was very it was funny to me because it's so true, is um they were saying that how those that had an issue with Bad Bunny's performance because they they couldn't understand it, were the same people saying that they couldn't understand Kendrick's performance. And that wasn't so it had nothing to do with the language. It was the language room. Yes.

SPEAKER_13 1:00:27

It wasn't a language. Yeah, because I've heard a few people like, um I didn't get it. I don't like that type of music. That just say that. Right.

SPEAKER_15 1:00:32

Right. Just say that. Yeah, and it's funny that these same people will go on vacation to these places and enjoy the music. Italy and France. No, no, no.

SPEAKER_13 1:00:41

These people have gone to the DR, they've gone to Puerto Rico, they've gone to Brazil, they've gone all over the place. Yes, I did. And they enjoy the food, the music, the people. And then they get here and be like, oh, the Super Bowl. How dare you!

SPEAKER_02 1:00:56

They don't even go there to enjoy it because the same motherfuckers who didn't appreciate Bad Bunny was sitting at home with their salsa and their goddamn chips. Yep. Yeah. Yeah. Eating, watching the fucking Super Bowl.

SPEAKER_13 1:01:11

Right, exactly.

SPEAKER_02 1:01:12

I want guacamole. No, seriously. I want the fucking reprints.

SPEAKER_15 1:01:18

We're avocados from Mexico. Thank you.

SPEAKER_12 1:01:22

Yeah, that's how I'd be dying. I was like the fucking nerve of y'all. Like, really?

SPEAKER_02 1:01:28

Fucking advertising from Mexico. All these bitches need to change their name to Old El Paso, but now they want to talk about, oh, I don't get it. Why it gotta be in Spanish.

SPEAKER_13 1:01:39

Take your fucking sombrero off. No, seriously. So going into like after this and whatever. So before the Super Bowl happened, um, y'all know, do you heard of Skilla Baby?

SPEAKER_15 1:01:51

Uh am I supposed to? Somebody.

SPEAKER_13 1:01:57

So I've heard of him, but I don't think I've like know exactly who he is. He's like, Am I supposed to? You funny. So he went on to say that, you know, everybody. I just know he's like, everybody knows who my goal is because he's like a big uh supporter of Chris Brown. And so he was like the greatest entertain entertainer we've ever had, but why haven't he had a Super Bowl yet? Been out at the Super Bowl, you know, entertained the Super Bowl or whatever. So I was like, you know what? That's true. It would be great to see a Chris Brown performance at the Super Bowl. That'd be dope, right? Because from watching all his videos on his tours, he's a great performer. Yeah. So that brings me now to after the Super Bowl, where Chris Brown commented saying, Y'all need me. Do you think the timing was wrong? The timing was way off. I get what he's saying, but the timing was wrong. I think it was way off. Yeah. Like that was not the time for you to say that. No, no. So now I think me too. I was like, damn, Chris, I get it. Like, and and I know, like, Skiller Baby boosted you up, which I'm I was like, yeah, you're right. He should do a um halftime performance. But after that, like now you're saying like you with everybody. That's the that's the just the perception I have, like you don't you didn't like Bad Bunny's performance. Like, that's crazy. You know what I'm saying? So that's how I feel about that. What do you think?

SPEAKER_15 1:03:29

Um I'm I'm typing something real quick, hold on. Because I I'll tell you, I'll tell you right now. Bad bunny halftime show brung in 128.2 million viewers.

SPEAKER_12 1:03:48

Yes.

SPEAKER_15 1:03:50

To 135 million. So in that range, 135 million. They didn't really need you, but Chris. Not not now. He bring in a hundred damn near 135 million views. So I think it was ill-timed.

SPEAKER_08 1:04:03

Yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:04:03

And then and then with his type of and it's sad now because now people are gonna say, well, that's probably why you're in the predicament you're in, and then they'll start bringing in his past and shit. Like, why would you dig your hole? Like you was you was just you was just coming out of that. He really was like he was really just coming out of it now. You're gonna put this little bad spotlight, which is gonna grudge up all these other things. And it did. It's just like yo, dude, just just you really put your foot in your mouth. Just wait until your time, bro. Like, cause you he was having an amazing year. Even from last year. I think he was he was just on the roll. He's been on a yeah, he you know, he's doing shows, he he was laying low, he wasn't saying shit, he wasn't in the media. Like, he was have it was a lot of positive things was happening from him. His toys were huge.

SPEAKER_13 1:04:48

Yeah, just this little bit, little bit of you can see how something's so small, like he didn't even do like a paragraph. It was just a little phrase, and and it just put bad taste in people's mouth.

SPEAKER_15 1:04:59

It was like you ain't I don't I don't feel no different way about Chris. I think he still is a great idea. I just think now people I think people are gonna take that and just now throw like dig him back in a six.

SPEAKER_13 1:05:11

I don't think it's gonna be a lot though, because again, remember when I said it's 50-50 for our people who was who's in agreement with him with that. So I mean Oh yeah, because there were a lot of people.

SPEAKER_02 1:05:22

Yeah, it could go either celebrities who agreed with it. Yeah, so I just feel like it was one of those read the room situations.

SPEAKER_13 1:05:28

Yeah, it was like we didn't need that. Like for the people that actually rock with you and then rock with Bad Bunny, that puts a bad taste in that aspect because you don't want to lose anybody.

SPEAKER_15 1:05:37

It's the perception, it's all it's almost like you're shitting on Bad Bunny's lifetime, and it's a cultural learning thing for the America whose ice is grabbing on people like this is just not add to the devices.

SPEAKER_13 1:05:51

Yeah, it's like oh yo, that just makes you look like you're being ignorant.

SPEAKER_15 1:05:54

You should be in support because now it's like, yeah, but now it's like you you you standing against everything he was trying to represent in the fucking Super Bowl. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:06:02

So it just didn't look good, it didn't look good. I agree. Yeah, I agree. So um interesting uh recently, Gene Simmons, the co founder and front man of KISS, the rock and roll group, um, came out with a statement um and then received some backlash for it, and then he doubled down. On his statement, which was um his stance on rap and hip hop that it does not belong in the rock and roll hall of fame. He says, because I don't come from the ghetto, was his quote. Um, he was appearing on an episode of the Legends and Leaders podcast, where um he reiterated his comments while he was talking about the relevance. Um, the host of the show said that there's popular, and then there are words like relevance. Who determines relevance? The fact that, for instance, the Iron Maiden is not in the rock rock and roll hall of fame when they can sell out stadiums. And Grandmaster Flash, one of hip hop's original innovators, is um Ice Cube and I had a back and forth on that subject, and he's a bright guy, and I respect what he's done. It's not my music, I don't come from the ghetto, it doesn't speak my language. Um, he continued and said, Um, and I said in print many times, hip hop does not belong in the rock and roll hall of fame, nor does opera, symphony orchestras. How come the New York uh Philharmonic doesn't get inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame? Because it's called the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. But Ice Cube has shot back and said, No, it's the spirit of rock and roll. Um how what do you think?

SPEAKER_13 1:07:47

So this is where it's gonna it's finicky for me because it could have his point of view could have been made so much better, but the fact that everybody who listens to hip hop or rap didn't come from the ghetto. So that part, no, that's that part didn't need to be said.

unknown 1:08:08

Okay.

SPEAKER_13 1:08:09

That part did not need to be said.

SPEAKER_15 1:08:12

I'm gonna go against the grant on this. And hear me out.

SPEAKER_13 1:08:16

I'm not disagreeing with what he's saying. I'm just saying he could have said all of that without saying I'm not from the ghetto. And I mean Gene Simmons, really.

SPEAKER_15 1:08:26

I can understand why.

SPEAKER_13 1:08:27

White people always, I'm sorry, I'm gonna let you speak. I just want to say this. White people, or sorry, clear people, whoever, not even them, like uh non-black folks always wanna say like the ghetto when y'all bitches have y'all own ghetto. Ghetto is ghetto. It's not a place.

SPEAKER_15 1:08:49

I'm gonna stand on the other side of this. And and here's my here's my reason why. I okay, based on what you read, I understand why he's saying what he's saying about rock and roll. Okay. I get that. But before I start saying the whole ghetto thing, understand where hip hop came from. And understand what they was rapping about when it was come when we was coming from it, right? The hardships, the struggles. We were boasting ourselves about the ghetto. Like he's he came up in the error with the Grand Master Flash, with the old school hip-hop, the Curtis Blows, the people, these are people who created hip-hop and rapped about our struggles from being in these prover uh poverty areas, right? So a lot of our history in rap is about trying to get out the ghetto. So for people, for a person in a rock and roll culture not understanding what we're trying to build in our culture, we'll say, Well, y'all rap about getting out coming out the ghetto. I'm not from the ghetto. That's not what he said though.

SPEAKER_02 1:10:01

He's I I'm not from the ghetto. What did he say? He said that it doesn't belong in the rock and roll hall of fame because he doesn't come from the ghetto. He doesn't come from the ghetto, he doesn't come from the ghetto.

SPEAKER_15 1:10:12

And I'm taking it as if he's referencing hip-hop from the ghetto from what he understands hip-hop to be in his era. In his era with the Curtis Blows and stuff. So can we? The message, the messaging, the messaging back then was we trying to get out the ghetto. Right? Like, that's the messaging of hip-hop. Uh that's kind of always kind of been the messaging of hip-hop. Like, now we don't have to say that. Or even in the golden era with the MMs and like in that era of things, I mean, we wasn't really in the ghetto because we done got ourselves out of it. But in his era where where like rock and roll was rock and roll, right? And then hip-hop started kind of our own thing in the late, like the late 70s and the 80s and stuff like that. So rock and roll's been around.

SPEAKER_13 1:10:57

So here's my thing. I don't mean to just like shut you out like that. But here's my thing. I get what you're saying about that part, but hip-hop wasn't the only thing he said shouldn't be fed it in the rock and roll. So why I was gonna get there. So why would that be his choice of so that was gonna be my point? So you know what I'm saying? Like that that's why I say he had me with agreement with him. I understand where he's coming from, but that part he didn't have to because he's not because people who win a symphony could be getting a ghetto.

SPEAKER_15 1:11:28

Right. You mentioned uh I thought I thought he was referencing rap when he was talking to Ice Cube about the ghetto. I think I didn't I didn't equate him saying that to opera or anything.

SPEAKER_02 1:11:40

No, he was saying to the the guy that interviewed him.

SPEAKER_15 1:11:42

Yeah, he was saying I didn't take it as he was equating opera and shit to the ghetto. I'm I I was I was equating that just to the hip hop because he was speaking about what him and Ice Cube was talking about.

SPEAKER_02 1:11:52

I think what she's saying is like him saying all these different categories of music should not belong to rock and roll. Why would you have to not point out this one and point out that it's it's ghetto?

SPEAKER_13 1:12:05

He's not from the ghetto.

SPEAKER_15 1:12:06

I got you doesn't belong in the that so his the way he described our our genre is because it's not from the ghetto, but opera he didn't say opera doesn't belong in because I'm not from the suburbs world, but I'm not from Italy, right?

SPEAKER_13 1:12:21

You know, like he didn't say what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_15 1:12:24

I I interpret it as he was he was saying that when he had the conversation with Ice Cube. You see what I'm saying? I thought I was I was connecting that with the conversation with Ice Cube. I I didn't think he was saying it generally with all the other stuff. I think it I I took it out of the context of when he was when he had the conversation with Ice Cube, he doesn't relate because I'm I'm not from the ghetto. That's how I took it. And then then I then I start understanding why he would say, well, opera don't belong in a rock and roll hall of fame because opera's not rock and roll. I get that. Right. You see what I'm saying? So I'm I'm differentiating, um, fuck that word up, but I'm I'm splitting those two because of my understanding of his conversation with Ice Cube and then his ice uh his conversation with the interviewer. And I think they kind of I think they kind of spiced that and merged it together.

SPEAKER_13 1:13:16

Yeah, because they're he he's he's he brought up his conversation with Ice Cube and they're and added that all in at the same time. So it's just like for me, regardless if he was talking to Ice Cube, they're like just say, you know what I'm saying? I don't, I don't, I not what's the word I'm looking for? I don't um Associate. Uh not associate. What's it's like you know, I don't I don't know why it's sitting right there and I can't fucking say it. I slightly I don't resonate with, you know, how how you your culture or how you know with that music.

SPEAKER_15 1:13:58

I can understand he could have just left the ghetto shit out.

SPEAKER_13 1:14:00

That's what I'm saying. I get it, and that's where for me why I have a problem with it, because clear people always teeter that line because they know what they're saying, but they say it perfect, where it doesn't come off as if it's gonna be offensive. You get what I'm saying? And they mastered that art.

Public Proposal Gone Wrong

SPEAKER_15 1:14:18

I get it. I and I I agree.

SPEAKER_13 1:14:20

And that's why I'm like I do agree. He could have he could have said that different.

SPEAKER_02 1:14:24

Because if he was talking about vanilla ice, would he have still used that phrase?

SPEAKER_13 1:14:28

And and my thing is too, like you vanilla ice. Here's the thing, but here's but we've been it's twenty.

SPEAKER_15 1:14:33

I'm kind of moving the bar with vanilla ice as a rapper. Because yeah, but here's the thing vanilla ice wasn't back there when like when he brought up with ice cube with ice. I see I'm taking it as if I don't think it has as much with the time though. No, what I'm talking about. No, no, no, no. What I'm saying. What I'm saying is you're talking about this a group that's been around since whenever, right? And he's having a conversation with Ice Cube. And if Ice Cube is explaining to this guy what it what it is, like what the culture, how it, how we should be in a rock and roll hall of fame, and ice cube's explanation is you know, this this generated from uh us in the struggle in the ghetto and trying to get out. I can see why he would say that in this interview, referring back to the Ice Cube conversation. But I understand why but I also understand what he could have just left that whole shit out.

SPEAKER_13 1:15:27

But I think, yeah, but I think Ice Cube actually said that it's uh um a thing like hip hop and all that came from rock and roll. Right, yeah, right. That's what he was saying. Black rock and roll originated from black people. So that's what Ice Cube was saying. So him to still say I'm not from the ghetto is unnecessary. I get it.

SPEAKER_02 1:15:51

Associating that with black people and their type of music that you identify black people's music to be.

SPEAKER_13 1:16:00

Correct.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:01

Because you could have all white As it's portrayed, though. You could have all white rappers in hip hop and no black people. Would you still have use the term ghetto?

SPEAKER_15 1:16:09

Trailer trash if it was Eminem.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:11

That's not ghetto. They don't they don't consider that ghetto. We do. That's us.

SPEAKER_13 1:16:16

You know what I'm saying? They don't care what we think.

SPEAKER_15 1:16:17

So I I don't know. I I I think this is a fine line. I and I'm not gonna I'm not gonna.

SPEAKER_13 1:16:21

And that's my point that I'm saying.

SPEAKER_15 1:16:23

Yeah, I'm not gonna judge him. I I agree. I definitely agree that a better choice of words could have been used. I'm just associating it with how I thought he how I thought he had a conversation with Ice Cube and how he applied it in this interview.

SPEAKER_13 1:16:37

No, I'm agreeing with what how he said it, but it's he didn't need to say it that way.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:43

I got you. That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_13 1:16:44

I got you. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:16:45

Because I think it goes back to the argument that they're trying to have about Beyoncé and black people in country. Right. Music. Because they don't view, they they essentially want to have these certain categories that they never owned, just them. This is our category. Right, and it's like our type of music. It's not, and y'all can't relate because y'all are from this type of world, but we're not all from that type of world, first of all. But even still, like it it's always that divisive type of um conversation, right, where the ownership, and and we do it on our side too, where it's like, oh, rap and hip-hop is only supposed to be a black thing. Right. And so we look sideways when white people um determine themselves to be rappers a lot of times. We've somehow given Eminem a ticket to the um cookout, but we don't offer that up so easily to other white rappers.

SPEAKER_15 1:17:58

So we're we say the same thing he would say. We're not in reverse. That's what I'm saying. That's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:04

That's why I don't want to be have that divisive mind. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:18:07

That's why I don't kind of I don't look at it that way because if if if if we was talking, if if it was a flipped, right, and we was be saying this about a white rapper and this, we would be like, yo, you know, you ain't you came from the trailer trash. We don't we don't associate.

SPEAKER_13 1:18:22

So that's why I'm saying what I'm saying because I wouldn't.

SPEAKER_15 1:18:26

You wouldn't.

SPEAKER_13 1:18:27

I know, but so I'm I'm not speaking for nobody else. I'm saying my perception and how I feel about the situation. I don't think that the I feel like what he said and how he said it was unnecessary. Just like if we if somebody is saying that to a white person, then like we don't consider you a rapper too. That's unnecessary. Very true.

SPEAKER_02 1:18:45

Because you also like if you actually listen to his whole interview, because he goes into speaking about more of the reason of why he doesn't feel hip-hop, um, is because it's almost like he doesn't view it as real music, per se. And he's like, like it doesn't take any real skill or talent, and you're just kind of speaking words. Um you rap, Gene. Very true.

SPEAKER_13 1:19:16

If it's so easy, do it. Yeah, because I can't fucking rap.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:19

And that and that, you know, with rock and roll and stuff like that, it requires the talent of uh of learning how to play instruments and and singing. That's not all.

SPEAKER_15 1:19:32

That I don't disagree with when he's I I disagree with him when he says stuff like that. Like so let me cle let me be clear. I I'm standing on the side of I under I kind of understand, but I I don't agree with how he does. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, that's that's not that's all I'm saying. It but all this extra shit that he's doing, I don't yeah, fuck out of here.

SPEAKER_02 1:19:53

Yeah, I I I actually agreed with him as far as when you are now going to separate types of music into genres, then you that genre needs to stay that genre. Right. So if you're doing hip hop and you put out a hip-hop song, the hip-hop song shouldn't be in the rock and roll hall of fame. Right. Now, if that artist puts out a rock and roll song, then that song can be in the rock and roll hall of fame. Exactly. Yes. But to just determine that an entire genre or like based on the people who does it, the people that do it and what you believe that that kind of thing to be. Okay, gotcha. That's what throws it off for me. I agree with that. Yeah. Because I do agree with him that, like, no, country shouldn't be in there. Yeah, yeah. That shouldn't be in there. But um, look at all of the black artists from back then when where he came from, who was doing rock and roll. Like, should Prince not be in the rock and roll?

SPEAKER_15 1:20:56

Let's not forget what y'all did to uh uh little Richard.

SPEAKER_13 1:21:03

Exactly. They should be right. So that's what I'm like. That right there is the whole because they got you, they play around with their words really, really well. Gotcha, gotcha, got you. Fuck off. Then turn around and be like, then turn around and be like, that's not what I mean. Like, like you said, like he's trying to double down his shit.

SPEAKER_02 1:21:19

Like, yeah, because he didn't even, he wasn't even like, oh, well, you know, I didn't mean offend, or that's not the way it meant. He was like, no, I said what the fuck I said, and then it is what it is. Yeah, I'm not from the ghetto. And it's like, well, not all rappers are from the ghetto.

SPEAKER_13 1:21:31

Exactly. And thank you. And not all people who listen to rap are from the ghetto. Right. And they enjoy that shit wholeheartedly. No, no, no, no. It's a large portion of white people who talk in love.

SPEAKER_02 1:21:46

But that's the part that I hate, is that once again, even like so this conversation, we are divisive because why is it even a black and white thing? Right. It's automatically determined that black people are from the ghetto. Thank you. That's not all black people.

SPEAKER_13 1:22:03

Thank you. That's my thing right there. Right there. It's like not all black people are from the ghetto. Even some of these rappers who claim that they're from the ghetto, them niggas is not from the ghetto.

SPEAKER_02 1:22:14

Not their experiences, but they they rapped about stuff that they know. So you could be able to relate to the messaging.

SPEAKER_15 1:22:20

If that's the messaging, you can't be hate, you can't hate on the response that you get from the people that might not understand it. If that's the messaging, of course they're gonna take it that way and think that way. If we're portraying it that way.

SPEAKER_02 1:22:33

But I mean, everyone who sings country wasn't boot scooting boogie and no, I think country is about a whole bunch of white people cheating on each other.

SPEAKER_13 1:22:42

And don't get me wrong, a lot of rock and roll. That's what they sing about. A lot of rock and roll is a lot uh about like drugs, pussy, and all types of shit, too. So it's like it's not different. That's what I'm saying. It's just the way you're singing it.

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SPEAKER_15 1:22:54

So that's why I'm like, so the way they portray, the way they portray their music is how I'm gonna take their culture. It's like, all right, well, if you're gonna cheat on your your wife with a man, I mean, cool, that's what y'all do. I'm assuming that's what y'all do if you're portraying it that way. So if they you know what I'm saying, like don't get mad if we start saying that shit a lot about y'all, motherfuckers.

SPEAKER_13 1:23:14

So But the crazy thing about it, and I get what like with shit. Because we we are stretching this out a lot. Yeah, we are but the the the main point that Sean was saying is like we are all the same. Absolutely. Black, white, Puerto Rican, whatever the fuck, we all do the same stupid shit. Absolutely. You have you have black people sleeping with their sisters, you have fucking um white people doing sisters and slings, you wouldn't talk about your siblings. Thank you. You know what I'm saying? Like no, no, like even with country music, they was talking about uh tractor, like you got niggas riding tracking. Oh my god. Oh my tractor. Yeah, I think I was like, oh my tractor. Like, you know, you got people black people doing that shit. Jabuzi. Yeah, so it's just like y'all open your eyes and shut the fuck up. Like that shit's annoying at this point.

SPEAKER_02 1:24:13

Yeah, Virtual. On all sides.

SPEAKER_13 1:24:16

No, it is. It's all sides.

SPEAKER_02 1:24:17

Yeah, as we continue to just delight ourselves, it's it's absolutely crazy. At some point, I'm gonna stop.

SPEAKER_13 1:24:22

No, you're not. Why I laugh like that.

SPEAKER_14 1:24:27

Because you ain't gonna stop either.

SPEAKER_13 1:24:30

Nope. All right, so real quick before we get to your part, I want you to play this video because we need to know. And I need you to know. I need you to play it all the way through.

SPEAKER_15 1:24:42

Well, I don't know which one you're pointing at. This one. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:24:46

Um we need to know very much further. I don't want to have to go. Where do you go further? This passion.

SPEAKER_15 1:25:20

I bet she came with the walker though. She came with a rolling walker. You got wheels on that bitch. Wheels on the nerve of this woman.

SPEAKER_03 1:25:37

I have nothing. The chunker on. Nothing. If I don't have a lot of people.

SPEAKER_15 1:25:46

He looked like yo, the look on his this man's face. Centric.

SPEAKER_07 1:25:53

I know we haven't been knowing each other that long. Hold on, pause.

SPEAKER_15 1:25:58

I can't believe it. We haven't known each other that long?

SPEAKER_13 1:26:02

Just let it go, please.

SPEAKER_07 1:26:06

But I feel as if my connection with you have been genuine, and I just feel like I want to ask you a question. It's not normal that a woman comes to a man to propose, but I just feel as if you're my guy. You're my guy, and I know it. So I just want to ask you, would you marry me, Sadra?

SPEAKER_10 1:26:32

Yo, his face.

SPEAKER_09 1:26:43

You a good person. Okay, no, no, stop it. I know how much you care for me. I know how much. I know how much you feel. I know where you feel about it.

unknown 1:27:04

Okay.

SPEAKER_13 1:27:08

Her face! I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_15 1:27:11

Robin?

SPEAKER_13 1:27:11

No, I said you can stop it now.

SPEAKER_15 1:27:13

No, I gotta see her reaction. Her face. Yo, she got all the red jacket, the red boots, the the the matching walker with the wheels on him. Bedazzled at that.

SPEAKER_13 1:27:27

Stop it. So can I say my part? Okay, got it quick on it, right?

SPEAKER_10 1:27:36

So she is flabbergasted.

SPEAKER_13 1:27:39

Any time you start off something. She is flabbergasted. Listen, no, she broke down. She was crying. She did, yeah. She cried really bad. But listen, listen. Yo, is that her ass? What the fuck is that?

SPEAKER_15 1:27:53

Oh my god, what is that? Yo, her legs and her ass proportion is not real. That's a diaper. That gotta be a human diaper.

SPEAKER_13 1:28:02

Can we, can we, because we we we need to get she stomping around like she got legs to stomp on. We need to move it along.

SPEAKER_15 1:28:08

She needs to get her stro uh little walker back. She's about to fall.

SPEAKER_13 1:28:12

Look at the shit rolling. Why are you destroying this woman when she already destroyed? I'm sorry. So can we talk about it now? Let's talk about it. Thank you. Just disrespectful as hell. I just listen. So my Right? She started it off like that's something. I know we ain't been together so long. And I know you said that you wasn't ready for a relationship. That's when you fucked up.

SPEAKER_15 1:28:38

Stop right there.

SPEAKER_13 1:28:39

And that's all I'm gonna say.

SPEAKER_15 1:28:40

Stop right there. I'm done. You can't come in singing. Don't make McLeose, one mother. You came in with Whitney, you rolled in with Whitney.

SPEAKER_13 1:28:52

Sir.

SPEAKER_15 1:28:55

Your legs kind of struggled to walk towards them, so you only walked three steps. And hit them. Now you sang, you sang the shit out of that song, girl. I ain't even gonna I ain't gonna hold you. You you hit them notes. But you set yourself up because you knew you set yourself up because this the first couple things you said was I know you're not looking for a long-term relationship. A what? Long-term relationship. Okay. I was my my my tongue was struggling just as much as our legs were. Um and we haven't been in this relationship long. Now, what do that mean? Like in the walk. What do how do you equate we wasn't in this relationship long? Because some people might say, hey, you know, I know it's been a year. How much is not long? We don't know, we don't care.

SPEAKER_13 1:29:44

Because when you started off, no, I'm just saying, when you started off with I know we ain't been long, we ain't been together long, and I know you said that you weren't really looking for a relationship. None of that should have been put together. And all the people in your camp should have been like, yo, should have told you not to do that.

SPEAKER_15 1:30:04

This is this is pressure. You're you're trying to pressure that man into saying something in front of all these people and hope so you be like, well, I don't want to hurt my mind. I don't want to hurt anybody in here, so I'm gonna say yes. But yeah, you know, you get what you give.

SPEAKER_13 1:30:18

Did y'all catch when she finished singing and said all she said? He said, Oh, good lord.

unknown 1:30:27

How did y'all catch that?

SPEAKER_13 1:30:28

I was hollering. I mean, I'm I'm sorry, ma'am, that that didn't work out.

SPEAKER_15 1:30:33

The moment Whitney started coming out of her mouth, his face was like, What the fuck?

SPEAKER_13 1:30:37

He knew it was happening.

SPEAKER_15 1:30:38

What the fuck is happening here? He he didn't he and I I why was he there? I I don't understand what you know what I'm not even gonna be, I wasn't even gonna take it there. Look. Sean, what's your thoughts?

SPEAKER_02 1:30:53

So this goes back to the old question of whether it's appropriate or should women propose to men. And there was a lot of commentary on that, and she could have saved herself a lot of embarrassment if she had never did that and shut the fuck up. Um but then it also goes back to Nene what you said, where a lot of people actually said the same thing, and they're like, You started off the conversation saying you knew that this man wasn't looking for that type of relationship, and yet you still put yourself in that situation.

SPEAKER_13 1:31:26

So you got what you got.

Closing Laughs And Cultural Embrace

SPEAKER_02 1:31:28

You you asked for it, and then there were people that said you knew what the fuck was gonna happen when you rolled out there in the first place, and then uh so I just you think she got her ass done because that shit was abnormal and it didn't help her foolpa.

SPEAKER_15 1:31:43

It just made it look worse. First of all, she looked a whole bit 60.

SPEAKER_13 1:31:47

Do I feel why he looked a whole bit 45?

SPEAKER_02 1:31:50

I feel bad only for the fact that it was public. You got family there. She was hurt. Like, I don't know why you set yourself up. Don't yeah, don't do that. You brought the family there. You came out there with your Easter Sunday outfit, you got your your wheels oiled on your walker, and you didn't came out there to profess your love at karaoke night for this man, knowing, because you thought that if you put him on a spot in front of your family that would pressure his family. Yeah, that's what that's what I got out of it. Yeah. And I'm sorry that it didn't work out the way that you wanted, but you knew better. You know what's crazy? I know somebody who would have done that, she would have sung off tune. Um I I feel like I know who you're saying, and this is horrible of you. And that's our gems.

SPEAKER_11 1:32:47

Please, please.

SPEAKER_08 1:32:50

Please pull off stems, the wall got the ball right now. It's up a friend, got the gems back in the house once again. With the life catadamas and guns and now James Hol gas, like a big sand, pull on stems, the wall got the ball. Please.

SPEAKER_15 1:33:25

Ah, gym number one. For those of us that are close to the hill. What are things you should not no longer be doing after forty?

SPEAKER_13 1:33:42

Let's talk about it.

SPEAKER_15 1:33:44

Um I mean proposing on a walker?

SPEAKER_13 1:33:50

You can do whatever the fuck you want. Who's to say what you can and cannot do?

SPEAKER_15 1:33:54

Well. After 40, you shouldn't be at no uh high school.

SPEAKER_13 1:34:01

Well, yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:34:04

Yeah. You know.

SPEAKER_13 1:34:06

But I mean, as far as like anything that's illegal, nobody should be fucking doing.

SPEAKER_02 1:34:12

After 40, you shouldn't be trying to be a rapper. Don't crush people's dreams. They might make it. Yeah, but then they only got a couple years worth of. Well, you know what I'm saying? The clips, the clips is damn near what they didn't start out at 40.

SPEAKER_15 1:34:29

You really they they actually started at 41. They was old as fuck when they started. They old as hell. That was old as fuck when they started.

SPEAKER_14 1:34:39

Well, one of those brothers.

SPEAKER_13 1:34:44

Somebody pushing 60 right now, man.

SPEAKER_14 1:34:48

You can't shave off all that hair and look young.

SPEAKER_15 1:34:52

This shit ain't gonna work for a long time. Um yeah, there's a lot of shit you shouldn't be doing after 40, but who's stopping you? So except the cops. But uh don't do dumb shit like that. But you should be able to do God willing and body willing. You can do whatever the fuck you want to do after 40.

SPEAKER_13 1:35:14

Right, because I feel like that's like a like what do you mean? Like, it has to be more context. I'm not going sledding like after 40, fucking. There's some people doing that.

SPEAKER_15 1:35:24

There's people, I am not. Yeah. You know what I want to try though? What? What? Nigga, what? Snowboarding. Snowboarding.

SPEAKER_02 1:35:45

Oh, really? So you don't want to go sledding. Make that mixture. You don't want to go snowboarding.

SPEAKER_13 1:35:50

Make it make sense.

SPEAKER_15 1:35:51

I I want to try snowboarding. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 1:35:54

But you don't want to go sledding.

SPEAKER_15 1:35:56

Make it make sense. Yeah, no. You out. I always wanted to try snowboarding. Your priorities are snowboarding.

SPEAKER_02 1:36:03

You go snowboarding. You're gonna come out like that lately. Lindsay Vaughn.

SPEAKER_13 1:36:08

Okay, talk about I I know what I can't do with sledding, but you can snowboard, stop it. I probably can't snowboard. I just want to try it.

SPEAKER_15 1:36:16

Yeah, okay. Even if it's a little bit like I I slid a little bit, I take the shit off a bit. Slid a little bit. He's gonna be screaming at his wife. After I seen what happened to Lindsay Vaughn, I don't want to touch skis. Prayers up to Lindsey Vaughn. I hope she gets okay. Lindsey Vaughn, um, uh the skier that was with uh Tiger Woods, old old chick, old girlfriend. If y'all not watching the Olympics, oh by the way, the Olympics is out. If y'all not watching the Olympics, uh Lindsay Vaughn did does the ski, the downhouse ski thing, and she hit she hit the thing and rolled.

SPEAKER_02 1:36:48

Rolled and fucked up, broke a leg. Yeah, the Olympics they ran out of condoms. They went through like 10,000 condoms in like two days. What? For real? Yeah. That's the real thing? Yes. Yeah, the whole thing about that.

SPEAKER_15 1:37:00

Oh wow. Like they're just they is fucking out there. Are y'all following the Olympics or anything? That part. I I I kind of like uh like uh I used to like the the ski uh the snowboarder? No, the uh ice skating thing. Oh yeah. I used to like that. You know what I don't like? When it's a black girl who does a uh this black flip and they ban the shit years ago, and then this dude does it uh a couple or days ago, and everybody's up in the uproar, like, oh my god, I can't believe he pulled off this. I don't know why anybody's shocked. Oh my god. I can't believe it.

SPEAKER_13 1:37:36

This has been things that's been happening for years.

SPEAKER_15 1:37:38

I don't fucking I don't fuck with it. All right, gym number two. Why do people back into back into parking spots?

SPEAKER_13 1:37:47

Because it's easier to pull out forward. Mm-hmm. That's why I do it. I don't know why this is a question. Because they probably can't back in. For a long time it took me a while, I couldn't back in either. So, but I'm a pro now.

SPEAKER_15 1:37:59

When them cars came out with backup uh cameras, not you back up until there was a camera. No, no, I knew how to back up.

SPEAKER_02 1:38:05

I knew how parallel park too. Um parallel park. I back up, I I reverse park for a couple reasons. One Well, you need a car.

SPEAKER_12 1:38:18

I don't know why that hit me so hard like that. You need to turn your mic off. Get the fuck out of here.

SPEAKER_02 1:38:29

Hey, yo. One because, yes, it's sometimes it's easier to pull out, but the other reason is because depending on how the cars next to me are parked, sometimes I don't want my driver's side door on the same side as their driver's side door. Because if y'all come out at the same time, depending on how they're parked. Yeah. So yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:38:54

Uh, question. How do you park when you go to a grocery store? Are you are you going in forward or backwards?

SPEAKER_02 1:39:00

It really depends on where the space. It depends on the spot.

SPEAKER_15 1:39:03

I always park for so I can get to the trunk easier.

SPEAKER_02 1:39:06

Well, yeah, that, but yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:39:09

I I think anybody do it different is a psychopath.

SPEAKER_02 1:39:12

Oh my god. But what if you only went in there for one item? Psychopath. You don't need the trunk.

SPEAKER_15 1:39:19

Psychopath. It just takes too much. I just want to go in there and get out. Why am I backing up? Uh that's too much time. I just want to get up. Anyway.

SPEAKER_12 1:39:28

Hey, yeah.

SPEAKER_15 1:39:30

And you just want your ass out. And I I'll back into places uh just in case I gotta get a I have a quick getaway. I gotta I gotta get out of there fast. Um because I backing up, like if you go to a concert, you know how when it or a basketball game, everybody everything's congested. So when I go to events like that, I want to I wanna back in so that I can I can pull out quickly and I don't have to wait. All right, uh gem number three. I'd rather struggle every day than hear somebody say if it wasn't for me, yeah. I'm not hearing it. Absolutely. Yeah. Even though I was probably that person as a previous time of my life. Take credit for shit. Like uh Yeah, I feel bad for that. But yeah, if it wasn't for me though, look at God. Look at God. The full circle moment. All right, that's my jumps. Alright, um anything we gotta say to our good people before we head up out of here.

SPEAKER_02 1:40:43

Yeah, lube your missiles before insert. Lube your missiles.

SPEAKER_15 1:40:49

Yeah, and no, seriously, lube your missiles.

SPEAKER_13 1:40:51

Don't be haters when it comes to Spanish people music. Embrace everything.

SPEAKER_15 1:40:56

Lob your missiles.

SPEAKER_13 1:40:59

And we love you guys. Keep listening.

SPEAKER_10 1:41:02

Later. Later, y'all.

SPEAKER_00 1:41:22

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