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135. Is This Normal? Newborn Feeding Questions Every Mom Asks with Ashley Feeley, IBCLC

Chelsea Barbine INHC, Postpartum Health Coach

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Are you constantly wondering if your baby is actually getting enough—or if feeding is “supposed” to hurt this much?

In this episode, Chelsea Barbine sits down with lactation consultant Ashley Feeley to unpack the biggest points of confusion families face in the early days of feeding—especially when you’re sleep-deprived, overwhelmed by advice, and trying to figure out what’s normal (and what’s not).

You’ll learn:

  • How often should a newborn eat? (Is every 30–90 minutes normal?)
  • Is my baby getting enough milk? Signs to look for beyond the clock
  • How do I know if the latch is good? What effective milk transfer feels/sounds like
  • Why does breastfeeding hurt? When nipple pain is normal vs. not
  • When can I let my baby sleep longer at night?
  • Why is my baby not gaining weight? What might actually be going on
  • Should I wake my baby to feed?
  • Is it okay to give a bottle for my sanity? (The “mental health bottle” explained)
  • Cluster feeding or low supply? How to tell the difference
  • How do I trust my gut as a new mom?

If you’ve ever fed your baby… put them down… and then heard them cue again 30 minutes later, this episode will remind you: you’re not doing it wrong. You’re learning your baby—and that takes support, not shame.


Disclaimer: The information and stories shared during this episode is intended to offer general guidance and support. However, every individual's health and circumstances are unique. Before making any significant changes, or if you have concerns about your health, it's essential to consult with your healthcare practitioner.


Connect with Ashley Feeley, IBCLC

Website: www.lovelylatchlactation.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovelylatchlactation

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovelylatchlactation/


Next Steps:

Book a call to coach with Chelsea: https://link.fgfunnels.com/widget/bookings/coachwithchelsea

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