The Midlife Marriage

Episode 47: How to Love Your Laid-Back Partner When You're a Go-Getter; Type A Woman meets Type B Man

• Carrie Cohen

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Are you a driven, goal-oriented, Type A woman who's paired with a laid-back, go-with-the-flow Type B partner? If so, you're not alone! In this episode, I dive deep into the challenges of navigating a relationship where ambition meets relaxation—and how to make it work.

As a Type A woman, you thrive on getting things done, staying on top of everything, and leading the charge. But when you're married to someone who moves at a different pace, frustration can build. You might find yourself nagging, micromanaging, or feeling like you have to do it all. Meanwhile, your partner’s easygoing nature can seem like a lack of effort—but it’s not!

Here’s the truth: Your Type B partner has strengths that balance your drive, and learning to appreciate those strengths is key to building a healthy, happy relationship.

In this episode, I share:

  • The Struggles of Type A Meets Type B: Why independence and control often clash with a more relaxed approach to life.
  • How to Embrace Personality Differences: Tips on recognizing your partner’s strengths and how they can complement your own.
  • The Importance of Communication: Why weekly family meetings can reduce nagging and create accountability.
  • Seeing Life as a Video, Not a Picture: How to shift your mindset from perfection to enjoying the flow of life and love.
  • Leading Without Overpowering: Redefining what leadership in a relationship looks like, and why it's okay to excel in certain areas while your partner shines in others.

If you've ever found yourself questioning your partner’s laid-back approach or feeling like you have to do it all, this episode is for you.

💥 Ready to stop the frustration and start embracing your partner’s strengths? Tune in now!



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