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4 Biblical Ways to Avoid Bad Decisions | Proverbs 16

Chris Teien

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How can you avoid bad decisions when facing choices about your family, finances, work, relationships, and future? Good planning matters, but wise decisions require more than trusting your feelings, resources, or understanding.

In this message from Proverbs 16, Pastor Chris Teien shares four biblical ways to avoid bad decisions: surrender your plans to God, trust His sovereign purposes, value His wisdom above worldly success, and follow His ways every day. You can plan carefully while trusting God to direct your steps, examine your motives, provide what you need, and accomplish His purposes even when life does not unfold as expected.

You’ll Discover:

  •  Why good planning must begin with surrender to God 
  •  How prayer and wise counsel can protect you from impulsive decisions 
  •  Why the path that seems right is not always the right path 
  •  How pride, worldly success, and personal feelings can mislead you 
  •  How patience, humility, and self-control lead to wiser choices 
  •  How to trust God when your plans unexpectedly change 

In This Message

  1. Surrender Your Plans to God

Planning is wise, but every plan should be surrendered to the Lord. Through personal stories about financial decisions, a dangerous damaged tree, and other everyday choices, Pastor Chris demonstrates the importance of seeking God in prayer, examining our motives, and asking for wise counsel instead of relying only on ourselves. (Proverbs 16:1–3; Proverbs 3:5–6; Proverbs 21:5; Nehemiah)

  1. Trust God’s Sovereign Purposes

God is working out His purposes even when we cannot understand His timing or see how everything will turn out. Joseph’s life demonstrates how God can use suffering, setbacks, and the sinful actions of others to accomplish something good. We make plans, but the Lord ultimately directs our steps. (Proverbs 16:4–9; Genesis 50:20; Romans 5:8)

  1. Value God’s Wisdom Above Worldly Success

The world measures success by wealth, possessions, recognition, and status, but God values wisdom, humility, integrity, and faithful obedience. Wisdom is worth more than gold, pride leads to destruction, and true success comes from pursuing God’s purposes rather than worldly approval. (Proverbs 16:16–20; Daniel 4)

  1. Follow God’s Ways Every Day

God’s wisdom should shape our words, relationships, choices, and character. The path that seems right can lead to destruction, so we must trust God’s Word above our feelings. Kind speech, patience, humility, integrity, and self-control help protect us from foolish and harmful decisions. (Proverbs 16:21–33; Colossians 4:6)

Takeaway

Are you trusting God more than yourself? Bring your decisions and plans before the Lord in prayer. Examine your motives, seek wisdom from God’s Word and trusted believers, and move forward in obedience. Plan carefully, but trust God with both the direction and the results.

Illustrations

  •  Making a financial decision without prayer after Pastor Chris’s wife was placed on bed rest during pregnancy 
  •  Asking a professional arborist for help rather than taking unnecessary risks with a damaged tree 
  •  A GPS rerouting around a closed road as a picture of God’s guidance when plans unexpectedly change 
  •  Joseph’s life demonstrating how God can work through suffering to accomplish His purposes 
  •  Praying as a family before deciding where to attend Bible college 
  •  Investing in a quality Bible as an example of valuing eternal wisdom above temporary pleasures 

Key Quotes

“Are you trusting God more than yourself?”

“Planning is good. The Bible is for planning.”

“God examines your motives.”

“How much better to get wisdom than gold.”

“Pride always brings us low, and humility lifts our eyes up to God.”

“Trusting God more than yourself means believing God’s Word over your own feelings.”

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