The Bumble Blab
The Bumble Blab is a candid, curious, and slightly unhinged exploration of modern dating, relationships, and self-awareness.
Through real dating stories, voice-note-worthy reflections, and honest conversations, I break down what’s actually happening beneath the surface. From attachment patterns and mixed signals to people-pleasing, chemistry, and walking away when it’s not aligned.
This isn’t a podcast about “doing dating right.”
It’s about noticing yourself, questioning your stories, and learning how to stay grounded, playful, and sovereign while navigating connection.
Come for the dating blabs.
Stay for the self-trust.
The Bumble Blab
How a Trash Can Taught Me Boundaries
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What do a stolen trash can, a Hobby Lobby moment, and a book on boundaries have in common? They all taught me the same lesson: courage shows up in the small, ordinary moments — often with shaking hands.
In this episode, I share the story of confronting my neighbor after she admitted to sending her son onto my property to take my trash can, and what it revealed about protecting my home, my son, and myself. I also share a Hobby Lobby story that brought me face-to-face with the same truth: boundaries have to be clear in order to be respected.
We’ll talk about:
- How “beautiful rage” was born in me when my son was born
- Why fear and shaking don’t mean you’re weak — they mean you’re human
- The Law of Exposure from the book Boundaries and why unspoken limits don’t work
- How everyday conflicts can be powerful practice grounds for courage
This isn’t about trash cans or checkout lines — it’s about reclaiming your voice, honoring your worth, and standing tall in the little moments that matter most.
✨ As a thank you for listening, I have a free gift for you — the full recording of my People Pleaser Detox workshop. It’s a powerful session that will help you set boundaries with clarity and confidence, without losing your compassion. Watch it here: People Pleaser Detox Workshop
💬 And if you’re personally struggling with boundaries — if you feel unsure how to say yes and no with clarity, or how to handle conflict without guilt — I invite you to join me for a free 30-minute consult. In this session, I’ll share tools that can help you protect your energy, communicate your needs, and approach boundaries with confidence and compassion. Click here to schedule: Scheduling Link
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