The Bumble Blab
The Bumble Blab is a candid, curious, and slightly unhinged exploration of modern dating, relationships, and self-awareness.
Through real dating stories, voice-note-worthy reflections, and honest conversations, I break down what’s actually happening beneath the surface. From attachment patterns and mixed signals to people-pleasing, chemistry, and walking away when it’s not aligned.
This isn’t a podcast about “doing dating right.”
It’s about noticing yourself, questioning your stories, and learning how to stay grounded, playful, and sovereign while navigating connection.
Come for the dating blabs.
Stay for the self-trust.
The Bumble Blab
If You Want Something, Then Let Yourself Have It
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If you want something, then let yourself have it.
That’s the lesson I had to face when planning my trip to California — holding my son’s father accountable for his word, navigating the fallout, and choosing my want over fear.
In this episode, I share:
- The story behind saying yes to California, even when resistance showed up.
- Why 10x Is Easier Than 2x and what it taught me about wants vs needs, simplicity, and letting go.
- The story of a young Michelangelo and how his want created 10x results at only 23.
- The deeper truth of wealth: freedom from vs freedom to.
- Why wanting is the most vulnerable — and most magical — thing we can do.
And yes, I even tie in one of my favorite childhood movies, HalloweenTown, because its wisdom is still shaping how I live today.
✨ Reflection for you: What do you truly want right now that you haven’t let yourself have?
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