Cozy Up with Regan and Friends Podcast

EP 44: Dating Bestie's Ex and Crashing Parties with Madi

Regan Olin Season 3 Episode 17

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In this episode, we’re putting ourselves in some very questionable situations and seeing what we’d actually do… We’re pulling random scenario cards and diving into the gray areas of friendships, dating, and social etiquette—like dating your best friend’s ex, dealing with someone stealing your Uber, bringing an uninvited plus one, or navigating the awkward moment when your bestie’s boyfriend is a little too friendly.

Some answers are rational… some are messy… and some might get us canceled by our own friends. It’s honest, it’s chaotic, and it’s exactly how these conversations go in real life. Get cozy and decide… what would you do?

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Um, a friend tells you they hate your partner. Gary can hold. Right.

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Your friend dates your ex. Your friend's boyfriend flirts with you. But to what degree is flirting? I think like if I had a boyfriend, I don't think I would like go out of my way to like text a past lover. You get in an Uber and you're stealing it. How do you know where that Uber is going? No, that's like completely valid. Hey y'all. Welcome back to another episode of Cozy Up with Reagan and Friends. I'm Reagan. I'm Maddie. Maddie's making fun of me for this like in like this fun fact. But the other day I filled gas, and I noticed gas was very, very expensive, and gas is back up to like $5 a gallon almost. And then I was like asking, like, oh why? And then someone said like the war in Iran, and I was like, oh, that makes sense. Um, because oil. But then I started like going down a bunny hole or bunny trail or what's it called? Bunny trail, rabbit hole. Rabbit hole, bunny trail, whatever. I chased the bunny. And I I heard someone say a quote today, like, the bunny has meat on it. Yeah, where did we hear that? Bible study? Is that where she said it? Yeah, okay. We're gonna chase this bunny because it has meat on it. Yeah, and I like that. Okay. Anywho, I thought it was interesting. So I'm just gonna ask you. This is like so stupid, and you're gonna be like, whatever. But I thought it was interesting. So back in, we're just gonna do like then versus now, like prices. Because like you would I don't know, I feel like we talk about this all the time. Maybe not. Maybe I just think about it. I mean, I'm good about Zillow because I'd be on. I'd be on a good user. Okay, so gas right now is like five dollars. Well, it's $4.89 where I was filling. Back in 1998, what do you think it was? 78 cents. No, a dollar and six. Oh, okay. College tuition, that one's more interesting. College tuition now average this is $12,000 plus, but I feel like $12,000 is like is that yearly, you think? Oh yeah, yeah. They're saying $12,000 plus a year, like a big institution. Okay, well, what do you think it was in 1970? Like $1,500. Way less. Probably per year was $394. And the last thing, because I find this interesting, is a wedding. Nowadays, an average wedding costs $35,000 to $45,000, right? What do you think it cost back in 1970, 1980? Well, let's see, we got like $12 for florists, $16 for photographers. Yeah, at least do they even have cameras? Grandma made the tablecloths. For sure, granny Ann. And the dresses. Like $800. Um, the average cost was $4,000. Oh, so I was really Yeah, you were lowballing. You know. I would love to ask. Actually, hold on, let me ask my parents. What do you think your wedding cost? So my parents got married, I want to say in like 85. And my mom said she spent about $2,000 on her wedding. But they got married on a Tuesday. My dad was in medical school, and she had two bridesmaids, and they got married, like married at a Catholic church or a Lutheran church, and then like the reception was at the Lutheran church, I think. Yeah. And then they just went back to like life the next day. 2,000 smackers. No, that makes sense. Right. Right. Right. Let's talk about that really fast. Maddie and I is Roman Empire, I think, for the last I mean Maddie probably long longer than me. But have y'all seen? I'm gonna insert now. Have you ever had a crispy cream? Have you ever gone to crispy cream? Was it crispy? No. Yeah. Right. Right. For a long time I said right, right. And then she finally like caught on and then I like showed her the video. So now every time we see her. You ever had a crispy cream? Right. Yeah. Was it crispy? Right. Right. The fact that the video starts and she's just like Okay, so today's segment is gonna be judge or jury, and I don't think that really makes sense, but basically we're gonna look at these cases and we're gonna decide if they decide if they need to go straight to jail. Cases as in like an actual case, but cases as in like instances. In like scenarios. Okay, okay. The first one we'll explain like kind of what we're doing. Yeah. Okay. Kind of like last week, but it's not just like relationship things. Like last week was like his mattresses or it his mattress. Don't even remind me about the mattress on the floor, son. Skip or whatever. This is like the same thing where it's like there's like an instance, and then we decide like if they should go to jail. But not actually, but if if it's like an if it's like a behavior that's okay or if it's not. Yeah, yeah. It makes sense. Okay. She has not read these, and I wrote them, and I specifically put one at the very end that has me just cackling because I was like, Maddie was giggling the whole time she was writing these. Because I saw the last one and I've never thought of something like that happening before. So I am excited to see. So let's it's probably not even funny, but I don't know. It just was really funny to me. Um, yeah, let's get let's get her started. I'm excited. I love when I have no idea. Some of them are kind of stupid, but that's okay. Okay. Judge or jury, go to jail or not. A friend posts a bad photo of you and won't take it down. I had this happen to me on my birthday. Yeah, that's the worst shout-out. Like a reverse shout-out because it was a despicable reason to be shout-out. But Maya Elkin posted the worst photo of me from the beach for my birthday, and I was like, It sucks because dang. My mom did that once, but she took it down. Yeah, I tried like everything in my power not to. I think sometimes it's hard, especially with like with like the podcast too. I tried to do like our thumbnails, I try to look at all of us, but it was like always so hard to get all three of us to be like where we should be. Um, yeah, no, that's a tough one. Not jail, but maybe like a good, like, maybe like a like a ticket misdemeanor. Yeah. Um someone brings an uninvited plus one to your party. You know what? It really depends on who that plus one is. Because the plus one ends it being like a good person, good vibes. I don't know. I guess like with n This is why we gotta be the jury. Like what with no warning? No warning. No warning. Yep. I think like I said, I think it's what if you have table placements out for just enough people you thought were coming. I've never had a a dinner party like that. Um so that would be a little bit more like inconsiderate too. Yeah. I think for like a normal party, if they're cool, you're lucky that okay. That was our like rule in college, was like, everybody, come on in. But if you end up like bringing like this random plus one and then they're like odd or they're destructive, or they're the ones who piss on the wall, or Canadian goose. You have something against that? You just said that remember that weird guy that came to your house that one time and then ended up like shouting at everybody, and everybody was like, Who is this guy? No, I don't. He ended up getting kicked out. It was like Jeff. Oh, it was like his friends? Yeah. Oh, okay, okay. Yeah, that makes sense. And then Jeff was like, I don't even really know that guy. Oh. I do know he like migrated from the bar with everybody. Yeah. Yeah. Um, a friend tells you they hate your partner. Definitely not a jail item. I think that like that's like a deeper. No, there's a lot of things that go into this one because if it's one friend, okay, I get it. My partner is not every single person's cup of tea. But if multiple friends are saying, I don't really know about him, then that's like I think he goes to jail. I think it also is like, okay, they say they hate your partner. You obviously have like a deeper discussion. Do they have valid reasons? Is there like an explanation for their reasons? And then is it just like they're just continuing to hate them to hate them? Yeah. So there's a lot to that. I think it's okay for them to say, hey, I don't like your partner. But there has to be like a reason, and then there has to be some like conversations. I think you can say, like, I don't like your friend's partner, but it depends on how you like handle the situation because can you still interact with them in a way that's like respectful and stuff, or if you just have beef with them and you're just always like a beef in, like, what's that about? Then you need to go to jail. Yeah, I agree. Um, you show someone something on your phone. Wait, you show someone something on your phone and they start scrolling. As in like a photo, yeah. So you're like, oh, look at this picture of my dog. Oh, that's the eye. And then they're like, oh my gosh, so cute. And then they start like perversing. Yeah. No, straight to jail. I think that's crazy. My I don't ever have anything horrible in there, but there's like even like some like mirror picks. Yeah. Or like a selfie I took way too many of to try to get the right one. Yeah. Um I don't need like my mom or my brother like looking at a picture of Ivy and then like seeing that I took like 92 pictures in that mirror, you know? Yeah. No jail. Anyone scrolling, because it's like I don't have bad pictures. No. But the one that would pop up would be something that's like stupid and has a really long story and why I have it, or like or like a screenshot that maybe I don't want to have to explain. Yeah. Yeah.

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No, don't if someone hands you your phone to look at something, don't start scrolling. That's crazy. Yeah. Um, someone takes aux and plays terrible music. I mean, yeah, like that's so not okay. If you're gonna be on aux, but it's also like so aux is so um interpretive. Yeah. That's what I was thinking too. If it's like, okay, you're in the car with four people and all three people have the same music tastes, and you refuse to give up aux and you're playing music that they all hate, okay, whatever. But say you're at like a party and there's like lots of people and lots of different kinds of people with lots of different tastes, and like one person doesn't like it, well then that's their problem. Yeah. There's a lot of like ways around that. But I think relatively, if you're gonna be on aux, like yeah, like especially at a party, like that's a big deal. What's that one song? Oh god. Okay, when I'm on aux. Okay, you can play any song on aux and nobody can judge you. What are you playing? I like have a decent, like, decent, like basic uh crowd pleasing ox. I feel like I don't know, I don't have anything weird. Okay. Well, I'm playing Gary Come Home by SpongeBob SquarePants. So you don't have anything like that. I love that song. Gary Come Home. Right, you like it too? I do. Yeah. Uh what's like what's like the beginning part of that song? It's like dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun. Yeah. And then it's like Gary Come Home, and then it has like the backup vocals that's like Gary Come. But there's like there's like meat and potatoes to that song. Like, what is it? Gary, I can see that's that's I was wrong. That's what I was doing. I messed up. And now you're gone, and it's like wow, wow, wow. That's exactly what I was looking for. Yeah. That's the song I would play. Um, I do play it actually, and I don't care people don't like it. I mean, like if I'm really like if I'm on like a big old speaker, like obviously I want to play some like side girl music and just like blare it. But no, I would just play like my normal, like forever by Chris Brown or like nowhere or no hands. I don't know. Like basic armies music, you know? Yeah. Playing Jane. Yeah. What was that one song that came out that was horrible? And it was like Sea Bat. I don't know. There was like someone who You know what song I'm playing? No judgment? What? Um, I don't even know, but it's that it's that Bruno Mar song with the Korean girl, and it's like ah, I don't even know how to say ah but yes, yeah, whatever. And you would also play golden. Yeah, I would play that. I'm kind of a K-pop fan. No, this this is what you this is what you would play. Yeah. Stop! That's crazy. I was not expecting that. That's like actually hilarious. Dang. The worst songs ever. Okay, Friday by Rebecca Black. No. I hate that jail. Your friend dates your ex. Jail. Okay, okay, okay, okay. Is this the second to last one? No. No, it's not. It's not. It's not. Okay. Your friend dates your ex. No, I mean, definitely Bestie, probably jail. Right. But listen, if it's like your friend who, you know, like you're good friends and you think they're a good person, but like you're not super, super close to them. And if it's like your ex who's like your great great extent, like instead of like a like when you broke up with them, like, hey, we clearly were meant to be, like, it just ha like whatever happens, then it's fine. I feel like I if you two want to give it a shot, more power to you. Yeah. It there's a lot of circumstances to it. I wouldn't say straight to jail. Right. Yeah. Maybe yeah. There's room. There's there it's you could be like found not guilty for sure. But there is higher chance it is, it is a an area that you kind of tiptoe around. So as soon as you're gonna be able to do it. And it took you four months to get over him. Yeah, like no. That's not right. That's not gonna work. No. College boyfriend from freshman year that just ended because you're both just kind of like hoeing around, and then like now you've like grown up, rekindled, and like you were an acquaintance, and then you're like, oh, like we both have common interests. I really think that that could be fine at the end of the day. Yeah, you know. Um, okay. Someone you're with claps when the plane lands and stands up immediately. Jail. Jail, jail, jail. Jeff and I just had this conversation because he said when he landed in Phoenix, a whole family of I won't say what kind of people immediately stand up, grab their bags, and walk all the way to the front. And then there's obviously every time you fly, you see the people who immediately stand up, grab their bags, and stand in the aisle. If not, and then they start working their way to the front. I'm like, I'm hello. The only thing I can see that being acceptable is if you have a connecting flight and you're really pushing it, you're gonna be skeeting to the next gate. But usually if you like let everyone know, even like the flight attendants are in on it, they're like, oh, this person hasn't got to get flight. Like that I totally get. But it's like always kind of a specific type of person who like immediately stands up, grabs her bag, and heads to the front. And I'm like, I'm sorry, sir. Yeah. That's not how that works. No, that thing irks me. I there's nothing worse than like no spatial awareness, especially in public settings. Like when you are in the grocery store and people just stand in the middle of the aisle. No. Yeah. Like Trader Joe's is the worst. Like, get out of the way. Or like people who walk in parking lots right in the middle. Oh, yeah, no. And are like so unaware that your car is. No spatial awareness or no awareness for like what's happening, or like the plane part where they like clap and stand up and like try to leave a meeting. Clapping's like crazy, but standing up is it's like that those situations where it's like, you're not the only person on this plane. No. Or like contents where people are trying to like shove. It's like you're not the only person. No, it's like what I love. What I'd love to stand up and go to the front meet the first one off the airplane, absolutely freaking literally. But am I aware that I was cheap and bought a seat in row 32? On spirit? Yeah. Well, no, we're not going now. But um, yeah, no, it's like it just yeah, jail. That's straight to jail, unless you are about to make a connecting flight, then everyone understands, but more or less straight to jail. Um, your friend's boyfriend flirts with you. So is the person on the stand the boyfriend? Because your friend's not on the stand. She did nothing wrong. Right, right. Right. Your friend's boyfriend flirts with you. Yeah, so he's on the stand. I mean, like, that's not cool. No. I mean, yeah, because that's like But how do you handle it though? I mean, you tell the friend. I feel like what to what degree is flirting. Yeah. What is he flirting? But also, like, where were you and why was she not there? Yeah, I feel like, and you can tell, like I was gonna say, like, there has to be like a deeper dive. But I'm like, you can tell when someone's just like complimenting you and when someone's like flirting or like joking around. Yeah. Like a man can still say, like, oh, I like that outfit and not be flirting, or oh, like your makeup looks really nice, and like not be flirting, especially if it's like your besties man. Yeah, like you're probably like, oh, it could be like oh, like you look nice, or you look great, you know. You know, like it'd be the clever guy who would say that. But if he was like, damn shoddy, shoddy. What's how he's looking so good, you know. Come on, try my new sheets. Yeah, see that would that's pretty obvious that that's straight to jail. Um but yeah. More or less I would say majority of the time that's probably straight to jail. Right. Yeah, right. I think so too. Yeah, second to last, probably. Okay. So it's probably it's not even that funny. Okay. Your boyfriend texts his your boyfriend texts his ex happy birthday. Okay, but I thought the only exception, you typically straight to jail, but the only exception is like if again, it's his great great boyfriend girlfriend, and they still share the same friend group, and it's like, oh, we dated years ago, but now we're in the same friend group still. So it's rude of me to be the only one in the friend group to not tell her how to do it. Yeah, but if you were like legitimately dating, I don't know. Like, is it necessary? Like, okay, so say, say it were to bother me, right? And I were to tell my boyfriend, like, hey, like, not a big fan of that. I get it, it's like totally innocent, and I am not like mad, but I'd prefer if you didn't. You know, I think he should just be like, all right, I understand, moving on. I understand. I understand. I don't think I would be like super keen on it. And I think like if I had a boyfriend, I don't think I would like go out of my way to like text a past lover. I'm agreeing, but as like the ad an advocate for the other side of here, I'm gonna say, okay, they're still in the same friend group and they all go to concerts and they all still take trips and they all are like very much still involved. Sure. But they still are considered an ex. But how many of those do you know? I don't know, maybe the few around. Yeah. Exactly. A few around. Okay, and say they're not college besties. Then no. Yeah. No reason to. If there's absolutely no connection still, and the happy birthday is the connection, then no. Yeah. No, no. All right. Probably not that funny, but it had me geeking just thinking about it. Someone steals your Uber ride. Okay, no, I would actually be like so pissed off. Because you have to think about it. Like, you have to think about like you get in an Uber and you're stealing it. How do you know where that Uber is going? No, that's like completely valid. And I like think that people do do this. And I think you can maybe change the course, be like, oh, but then wouldn't you just do that on your phone? Also, how do they do it? Do they just see the car pull up and then they walked in like before you could walk in? What if you watch the phone? I was thinking of this is such a despicable move to me. What if you walk that person get in and then drive away? That's what I'm thinking about. Like you're standing outside the bar waiting for a two 2024 Kia Soul. Yeah. Someone just comes and gets into it. Gets into it and then says there, you're and they say, Oh, are you Reagan? Yep. It's like, okay, well, you're about to head to Mesa. Yeah. You know? Yeah. No, that is such a despicable. I knew that one was like straight to jail right away, but the more I thought about it, the funnier it got to me. Okay, well, that leads me to like something very similar. So someone steals your Uber ride, but I've seen people steal. Hold on, I need to thought the time a moment. I have to add this out. I was gonna say I've seen people steal like to go orders. Yeah. But that wasn't as interesting after I thought about it. Okay. Okay. But stealing an Uber ride is so crazy to me. Like stealing a package. I don't know. No, a package is one thing. A takeout order is one thing because you're getting something. You're getting whatever is in the package. You're getting whatever food they ordered. An Uber ride, you're getting a ride to you don't even know where, and you have no access to change it because it's not on your app. You're just getting in a car and saying, take me. Take me somewhere. I don't know, like along the way that, yeah, then you're just like, oh, stop here. And then, but like, do you know where you are? But you have no idea where anybody No. You don't know anything about anything. And I think it's been done before. And I don't just blow really know like what I would do. Or think about being a person stealing right. Getting in this car, huh? I would be like scared. Like, did they show up at my house? I think like I think me with the person with the phone, I'd be able to call and be like, hey, by the way, that's not me in your car. Or like, hey, did you pick me? Like you left and you I'm not in your car. And they'd be like, oh yeah, you're right here. Like, oh, that's not me. You know, like, you know? Yeah. This is like another one. It says a friend says they're five minutes away, but they're still at home. It's like a different topic, but this is like one of my biggest pet peeves. It's like I'm a very like, I try, I've been recently embracing fashionably late. I feel like it's a very kind of like city thing to do, is like show up to dinner a couple minutes late. Maybe not dinner, but like if you're all like me for drinks or you're all like whatever, it's like I won't be the first one there. But yeah, when someone's like picking you up, I also I feel like I've been bad lately with like airport rides too. Where it's like I used to be very good about timing them out. Okay, well, you told me the wrong time in my defense. You told me four, and you text me at like 2 50. You're like, I'm here. There's like daylight savings time while I was on the plane. Well, y'all, you're on the plane at one in the afternoon. Yeah. I was like mid-nap and she calls me and um she's like, I'm landed. Oh, okay. Well, I had an alarm for 55 minutes from now. She can pick you up. Um, no, I've tried I've gotten really bad about that though. And then as a driver, you're like, oh, it's no big deal. But like as a person sitting there outside. Yeah. Jail, jury, judge or jury, whatever, guilty or not guilty, homeboy has his mattress on the floor. And that is straight to jail. I have talked with many people over that. It has continued to remain in my brain. And I don't know why that's so like messes with the chemistry. I'm just okay, back to back to that topic. Like I said, if everything else lined up and he was a nice man and I just had to be like, you need to go get a bed frame, and he did, then I'd be like, Yeah, okay. But I wouldn't immediately, you know, obviously. But it's hard because the person I talk to would probably have a bed frame and probably already have that step taken. And they're like, but like it takes a while to get to that point to be able to be like, hey, you should get a bed frame. Yeah. At least for me. Because I'm like the people pleaser, and I'm not gonna be like, hey. Yeah. Like, but I also like if everything else is lining up and they're like the person for me, I'm not gonna be like never gonna talk to you again because your bed's on the floor. No, it's just like really kind of like diabolical, but no, it is, it's a bad behavior. It's bad. Um misdemeanor. That like almost, yeah. Felony. Felony, like not in prison for life, not death sentence. But you gotta fix something. It's like a serious issue. Yeah. Serious. It's dirty, serious, serious, right? Right, right. Um, you know, it's also a serious issue, and I'm just gonna put this on blast, is if you're on a dating site, right? Right. And like I think it's wrong if you have very specific preferences, okay? Yeah. Religious beliefs, political beliefs, animals, etc., and you don't put that on your dating profile. I just think that that's straight to jail. No, that is. Um, because like if I'm just putting stuff out there, the person I was talking to didn't have political beliefs, I'm conservative, he's a liberal. Okay. That's the first bump in the road, a decently serious one. I go to church and Bible study and have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. He doesn't believe in organized religion, but like respects it but doesn't have it straight to jail. Like you know where I stand. Yeah. Um, and then um doesn't like a dog, I feel like if someone has a surprise dog, that's okay. Like if you like show up and you're like, I didn't know you had a dog, oh my gosh. Yeah, fine. Showing up to someone's house and they have not one but two cats that stink litter box in the kitchen. See, and that that's even a problem because like if that were to happen to me, I'm allergic to cats. Yeah, you didn't tell me that. No, it's like very surprising. Now my own. And what sucks is like I was almost getting to because you're like, just tell them to get a bed frame or just tell them to move the cat, litter box, whatever. I like was getting to that point, and the cats have gotten better, but then it's like, oh, you didn't say any of that other like major stuff on your profile. And then I just like said politely, like, if you see that mine says conservative and mine says Christian, and you see my lifestyle and you see what's important, like do not match with another girl like me. Because it won't work out. No, you know, anyway, straight to jail. That's just what was on the world. Or be upcoming about that before being like a month in. Yeah. Like when I mentioned like how often I go to church, or on my profile, it says I want someone to go to church, like in all caps. Like, that's really like what I want. I don't know like what they were expecting moving forward. Right. They should have said that at the beginning before like there was any sort of like attachment feelings. Yeah. It's crazy. But anyway, straight to jail if you are like kind of weird and shady on your dating profiles. Like, I'll just put everything out there. And some people think I'm a little too thorough, but then you don't run into situations like that typically. But I mean, current events personally, or just like around whatever you want. Um, yeah, what do you what do you have going on? You just got back from good old Dickieville, North Dakota. I went to a bridal shower in North Dakota. It was amazing. Um it was actually really, really nice. And then April, in April, we'll I'll be having the bachelorite here. And then um I got a new car. Yes, you did. Yes, big girl purchase. Yes, she's very cute. She was cute. And I graduated. Um, I applied to grad school and I applied to be a dog sitter on Robert. Oh my gosh, that's actually like I love that. Yeah. People like really enjoy that. Yeah, I did so much dog sitting in high school and I like stopped for some reason. And now I'm like, why would I not start up again? I love dogs. I love it. That's actually so much. That's actually. There's the area we live in, live in is like pretty decent. I mean, I'm sure I'll see some people who are like maybe stinky or dirty, but like that's just a good stuff. You know, I just think and then I'm like, okay, I if I'm dog sitting, I just go over and do my homework and do my lesson planning at that house. And no, that's actually a great idea. I'm happy for you. I hope that works out. Yeah. And this weekend, you're also going on a trip. Yep. This week, this Saturday, this Sunday, my mom and I are going to Florida. So I guess this will be in the future. So I did go to Florida. Yeah. So for a week. Oh, here's an exciting thing. Um, if anybody has tips, wait, when is this coming out? Next Thursday. This comes out on the 19th, this episode. Okay, here's an exciting tidbit that we can share and then we can update you on. The first week of my spring break, I'm going to Florida. And then the second week of my spring break, I'm gonna paint some sort of mural in our backyard. I'm thinking just like a color with like a sun and then like some flowers or some like cool design. But we have a cinder block fence and it's really bare in between like our like by our pool. And I saw this Instagram thing that was like so cute, and I was like, oh, we love like cute vibes in our backyard. We have some stuff. But um I guess like worst comes to worst, you just like find like a gray paint. Yeah. And I go over it. Yeah. I'm sure like well, honestly, worst comes to worst, I just do like a plain color and then do like waves or something. Yeah, so there's something on the wall. Yeah. Um I'm gonna put something clear on it so it doesn't get like stuff. We'll have to insert. I'm really excited for that. The next time um you and I record, we'll have to insert a picture of the outcome of that. And then I said this comes out on the 19th, so I guess in four days, yep. Five days, I'm getting my arms chopped off. And uh that'll be quite the journey. So y'all are gonna we'll we'll have a deep clean episode at some point about the process and all that, but yeah, we'll see. I'm excited. Um, yeah, Maddie will be on spring break. My mom and dad will be here to take care of me. It's getting busy. This is like a busy time of year. No, okay. The weather's right, there's visitors coming, you're going, you have spring break. Like, um it's always fun. It's always busy. And then the summer hits and then everything kind of slows down again, and then you get a chill until like school year starts, and then you have holidays, and it's at the same cycle. But yeah. Alrighty, we should we will wrap her up. She's actually let me do this. She's so cute right now. She's just gonna get the watery. Iverson. Oh hi. All right, she was not happy that we just did that. I don't even know if I can record. She went like just yeah, I did. No, she's pissed. But alrighty. Well, we will see you guys next time. Yes. Uh, right. I don't know, that'll be in a little while, but I hope you guys have a fabulous week and weekend, and I hope that whatever you're doing for spring break or for spring whatever, I hope it is so much fun. Yes, yes. Right. Hi T T Y L. See ya.