Let's Talk About It
Patrisha McLean talks with the real experts of domestic abuse--survivors. Patrisha survived a 29 year abusive marriage to a celebrity, and CEO and Founder of Finding Our Voices https://findingourvoices.net/
Music is by Jackie McLean Strack, the host’s daughter.
Episodes
26 episodes
    Sarah: When You Escape an Abusive Marriage to Find Out You Are Saddled With Tens of Thousands of Dollars of His Debt
GUEST: Sarah Doucette Sarah is the author of Stronger Than That: A Domestic Violence Survivor Uncovers the Truth About Her Abuser. TOPICS DISCUSSED: Financial abuse, Religion as a factor in ...
        
          
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    Two-Parter – Rachel: When You Grow Up With an Abusive Father Followed by 85-year-old Mary Lou Celebrating 20 Years of Freedom
GUESTS: Rachel Davis and Mary Lou Smith. Rachel, director of the public library in Cape Elizabeth, talks about her outwardly successful but abusive father and the impact that had on her and her brother. Mary Lou ...
        
          
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            Episode 6
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    When a Man is Abused by a Woman
GUEST:  Anonymous (Male) Many similarities to abuse of a woman by a man are shared in this conversation with "Mark."TOPICS DISCUSSED: Emotional abuse, weaponizing of children, lack of resources for men abused by w...
        
          
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            Episode 5
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    When You Break the Silence After 40 Years
GUEST: Vicki Murray, owner of Laugh Loud Smile Big bakeryVicki talks about what kept her silent and what it like to break her silence over 15 years of abuse including strangulation by the man she started dating at 17 years old. ...
        
          
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            Episode 4
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    When Your Criminal Tormenter is Let Out of Prison Early and You Become a Virtual Prisoner in Trying to Keep Yourself and Child Safe
Guests: Agnes BrackettAgnes discusses trying to keep her daughter safe from her gun-toting, fire-starting husband.   Topics discussed: Child Abuse, Guns, Failure of Justice System
        
          
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            Episode 3
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    When the Man Who Almost Kills You is Let Out Early From Prison and (Allegedly) Kills Another Woman
Guests: Darcia and Dezarae – Darcia and Dezarae discuss how the “sweetest man in the world” in prison turned evil upon release.Topics Discussed: Failed judicial system, strangulation, impact on children
        
          
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            Episode 2
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    Teen Dating Abuse
Guest: Lilly DesRoberts – Lilly, a 20-year-old UNE Biddeford pre-dental student,  talks about how cyber-stalking and suicide threats by her  boyfriend from high school plagued her first year of college. Topics: L...
        
          
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            Season 2
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            Episode 1
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    Losing Your Best Friend to Domestic Violence
Guest: Kerry Smith – Kerry talks about the preventable DV murders of mother and daughter Jennie and Lisa Bailey in Bath. Topics include: Police response to DV, Veteran’s Administration response to DV, systemic changes ne...
        
          
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            Episode 19
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          58:00
        
      
    DV Homicide, Almost and Actual
Guests: Michelle, Kerry, Amber – Michelle, a communications executive talks about an early marriage that almost killed her. Kerry and Amber talk about their best friends who were murdered by DV this year. Topics include:...
        
          
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            Episode 18
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    Incarceration and Substance Abuse
Guest: Melody – Melody, a Mi’kmaq native, realized when she connected with Finding Our Voices that domestic abuse is at the root of her substance abuse as well as incarceration. She talks here about ho...
        
          
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            Episode 17
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    Domestic Abuse and Religion
Guests: Anonymous and Jennifer. Two-parter about how religion helped to trap both women in domestic abuse and made it harder to get out.“Anonymous" talks about the Cantor who refused to give her a Get for a divorce, an...
        
          
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            Episode 16
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          58:00
        
      
    When Your Father Kills Your Mother
Guest: Shelly Edwards Jorgensen. Shelly is the author of the memoir Beautiful Ashes: A quest to uncover family secrets and survive the truth. https://www.beautifu...
        
          
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            Episode 15
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    When He Burns Everything to the Ground
Guest: Mary Kamradt, Chief of Staff of Finding Our Voices. Her home was destroyed and dog killed in a fire set by her ex, and her family sided with him.Topics: Sexual abuse, arson, estrangement from chi...
        
          
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            Episode 14
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          57:59
        
      
    Two-parter: The Military and Same Sex Abuse
Guests: Ashley and Dezarae.Ashley talks about how overseas deployments made him increasingly abusive at home. Dezarae talks about being terrorized by a girlfriend. Topics: The military, same sex abuse, impact on childr...
        
          
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            Episode 13
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          57:59
        
      
    When Your Pastor Sides With Your Abuser
Guest: Caroline McKuenThe director of the Presbyterian Advocacy Council talks about her church’s enabling of criminal, financial, and sexual abuse Topics: Religious abuse, financial abuse, sexual abuse.
        
          
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            Episode 12
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          58:00
        
      
    Isolation and the Importance of Friends
Guests: Courtney Davis and Jess Jess introduced her best friend to him, then grew alarmed as he steadily turned Courtney into a shell of herselfTopics: Sexual abuse, financial abuse, what to do when you are worried for...
        
          
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            Episode 11
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          58:00
        
      
    Sexual and Financial Abuse Across 40+ Years
Guests: Lora and Jeannine Lauber OrenA Maine nurse talks about financial abuse continuing with the divorce. Then Jeannine Lauber Oren of Finding Our Voices talks about the Maine law she helped get through to help mitigate financia...
        
          
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            Episode 10
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          58:00
        
      
    It Happens in Rich Families, Too
Guest: AnonymousWhat it was like having a childhood that on the outside seemed golden and glamourous, and on the inside was a “living hell”.Topics: Narcissistic fathers, living a lie, child abuse 
        
          
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            Episode 9
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          57:59
        
      
    No Justice, No Safety III
Guest: AnonymousHe strangled her and forced her at gunpoint to take a bottle of sleeping pills, and is out on bail pending trial! Topics: Strangulation, perpetrator right trumping victim rights, bail reform 
        
          
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            Episode 8
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          41:26
        
      
    No Justice, No Safety II
Guest: JoleneNo accountability from the courts and police make him scarier and scarier, to her, her children, the police and the public. Topics: Criminal court reform, good ol’ boy network, the folly of Batterer’s Inte...
        
          
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            Episode 7
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          58:00
        
      
    No Justice, No Safety I
Guest: BethanyThis nurse’s ex has a 30-page criminal record and has violated protection from abuse orders 20 times with no consequences Topics: Uselessness of PFAs, do-nothing DAs, child abuse
        
          
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            Episode 6
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          58:00
        
      
    When Your Abuser is a Celebrity
Guest: Donna Kaz William (Body Heat) Hurt swept Donna off her feet when she was a young actress, and grew steadily more dangerous. Topics: Narcissists, fame as an enabler, career-sabotagingDonna is...
        
          
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            Episode 5
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          58:00
        
      
    When The Rights of A Father Trumps the Safety of the Child
Guest: Amy Maine officials worked overtime to give full custody of her baby granddaughter to a two-time domestic violence felon. Topics: Family court dysfunction, child abuse, grandparental rights ...
        
          
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            Episode 3
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