Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace
Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace Podcast is hosted by me, Becky Kolb, Certified Life Coach specializing in estrangement and relational loss.
This podcast is for Christian women who are estranged from a son, daughter or close loved one and who long for wholeness.
Your heart is broken. You flip between guilt, shame and feelings of unworthiness. Conversations between you replay in your head as you wonder if it was your fault or what you might have done differently.
Anger and resentment are constant emotions as you wonder how this could happen to you.
You feel distant from God and wonder if He even hears your prayers anymore. You aren’t sure how to pray or if there is a right or wrong way. I’ve been there and felt all of this. You are not alone.
And that’s where I come in. As one who has experienced estrangement on several levels, I get you. I understand the grief and heaviness that you feel.
You aren’t who your child or others may say you are. Guilt and shame keep you locked in a mental prison. And I will help you unlock the prison door and find wholeness again. You long for peace.
As your coach, I will help you:
Heal from the crippling effects of guilt and shame.
Reconnect with God and find joy again.
Learn the process of forgiveness - what it is and isn’t.
Build a meaningful life amid the estrangement.
Navigate difficult holidays.
Identify triggers and establish healthy God honoring boundaries.
Let go of the outcome and trust God with your loved one.
Discover lasting peace.
Start the process toward healing now. 📲DOWNLOAD my FREE guide - 4 Steps to Discover Lasting Peace Amid Estrangement at: 📲www.beckykolb.com/guide
My estrangement story began with a divorce and remarriage and some decisions around that. The guilt and shame was overwhelming as most of my family didn't speak to me for several years. You can read my journey with estrangement and the peace I found at https://www.beckykolb.com/meet-becky
I discovered the #1 step toward healing broken relationships and the barrier that kept me from it. You don’t have to make that same mistake.
My relationship with God was almost non-existent and I wondered if He had rejected me too. But what I discovered was His arms open wide waiting for me to come back.
I learned that you can't force reconciliation. Any attempt to change another person is fruitless. The only control you and I have is with ourselves and my podcast and coaching focus is on WHOLENESS in your heart.
I offer free no pressure, no obligation discovery calls to see if coaching is right for you. It's not a sales pitch. If that's something you seek, navigate to www.beckykolb.com/consultation and let’s have a conversation.
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Estrangement: Turning Pain into Peace
70: The Heaviness of Why in Estrangement
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The heaviness of why in an estranged relationship with a loved one is unbearable at times. As I continue with the theme of changing your thoughts and changing your life, let’s explore how to lessen the weight of why.
Why is the cry of the heart of a mother who is estranged from a son or daughter that often results in loss of a relationship with grandkids. I know a woman who has been estranged from her daughter and grandkids for years.
She is a Christian, but that doesn’t exempt her from the pain she carries in her heart. The heaviness of why lingers day after day. But she has learned to let go of why and turn her heart in another direction. Settle in with me today and I’ll share the story.
Becky Kolb helps women with estranged relationships find lasting peace and the ability to move forward from guilt & shame, learn the process of forgiveness, rediscover God and what he says about you, develop boundaries and non-negotiables for healthy relationships. And the result is living your passion and purpose with peace and losing the weight of anger and bitterness!
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