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Love, Sex, and Pleasure with Ann Nguyen

This podcast is for soulful, ambitious women who want to have great sex & create thriving relationships.

I’m here to help you fall in love with your pleasure, sensuality, and erotic expression to connect you with your creativity to make your world and our collective a better place.

I’m a Vietnamese-American somatic sex love & relationship coach who’s gone from spiraling in toxic relationships, doubting my power, and having sex to get love from others - to falling in love with pleasure as a deep self-love and spiritual practice, calling in the love of my life, and bravely pursuing my creative power and leadership in the world.

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Consider me your sexy bestie who’s also walking this path with you, sharing wisdom both from my lived experiences (my greatest training ground) and in my professional experience as a somatic sex, love & relationship coach.

My work is rooted in Buddhism, Tantra, Taoism, and Intersectional feminism - all in devotion to walking the path of Love and in humble reverence to the Great Goddess that lives within us all - regardless of gender.

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Love, Sex, and Pleasure with Ann Nguyen

31. How to Transform How You See Yourself using Erotic Archetypes to Create Sexually Fulfilling Relationships

June 19, 2025 • Ann Nguyen

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DOWNLOAD YOUR AUTHENTIC EROTIC IDENTITY WORKBOOK HERE In this episode, you'll learn:

[0:00-5:00] The concept of Erotic Identity and how transforming how you see yourself as a sexual being impacts your sex & love life

[5:00-10:00] How to overcome internalized sexual shame and expand your definition of eroticism

[10:00-15:00] Defining eroticism: how it's about aliveness and passion beyond sexual acts, using examples like Jane Goodall's connection to nature

[15:00-17:30] Techniques for creating a personal erotic archetype through visualization and identifying meaningful qualities

[17:30-19:00] How you can play with archetypes like the lover, witch, crone, wise woman, wild woman, queen, and warrior to expand your sexual expression

[17:30-20:00] Specific questions to ask to discover your erotic identity, including:

How does your empowered erotic self dress?
How does she move?
How does she interact with her partner?
What are her values around sexuality?
How does she navigate challenges?

[20:00-25:00] How erotic identities evolve through different life stages and personal growth

[25:00-end] Ways an authentic sexual identity can transform your confidence and relationships

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