SHE BREAKS THE RULES

EP #53: Harmful Wellness Language: How It’s Keeping You Stuck in Avoidance

Faye Sheridan & Tarryn Williams Season 1 Episode 52

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“I’m just not ready.”
“I’m honouring my nervous system.”
“I’m listening to my body.”

But what if the language that sounds like healing… is actually keeping you stuck?

In this episode, we’re calling out how “wellness talk” can become a subtle form of avoidance... keeping you in your comfort zone instead of moving you forward.

Because awareness alone isn’t enough.

🔥 What We Cover

  • Awareness vs action (and where most people get stuck)
  • How wellness language can mask avoidance
  • The truth about your nervous system
  • Why discomfort is required for growth
  • Radical honesty vs self-criticism

💥 Key Takeaways

  • Awareness without action keeps you stuck
  • Not all “self-care” is actually helping you grow
  • Avoidance often sounds logical and justified
  • Your nervous system is adaptable — not fragile
  • You can be honest with yourself and compassionate

🧠 A Question for You

Where are you using “healing” or “self-care” language…
when it’s actually avoidance?

⚡ Your Challenge

Catch your language this week.

When you say:
“I’m too busy”
“I’m not ready”
“I’m protecting my energy”

👉 Ask yourself:
Is this true… or am I avoiding something uncomfortable?

Then take one small step forward.

💜 She Breaks the Rules

This is what breaking the rules looks like.

Questioning even the “wellness” narratives that keep you stuck.

Because real change comes from action, not just awareness.

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