Practically Awake
Welcome! I’m Jaclyn Proper, a Jungian Depth Coach, Educator, Explorer, Underworld Doula, Artist & human doing my best on Earth. This channel is about what it means to be an explorer of shadow and self. We dive into shadow work, eroticism, spiritual psychology, kink, neurodivergence, sexuality, travel, and authentic living through the lens of my personal journey and Jungian psychology. If you’re an unconventional soul, queer, kinky, neurospicy, or simply shadow-curious, you’ll find lighthearted yet no-nonsense conversations here to help you embrace your edges, and uncover the truth of who you are.
Practically Awake
Dark Sexual Fantasies Explained | Trauma, Shadow Work, and Kink
Dark, taboo, and even violent sexual fantasies are way more common than people admit—and no, they don’t make you a monster. In this episode, I dive into the psychological, symbolic, and energetic reasons behind these fantasies and how they relate to your personal shadow, trauma, and even your spiritual path.
As a sexual shadow work coach (and former pro dominatrix), I’ve seen it all. Whether your fantasies scare you, confuse you, or just feel like your only way to get off—this video will help you understand what’s really going on in the psyche beneath the surface.
⚡We’ll talk about:
Why taboo = turn-on
Fantasies rooted in trauma (and how to work with them)
The symbolic/archetypal nature of fantasy
When psychic downloads show up as sexual visions
The difference between kink and abuse
How to safely explore your erotic shadow without shame
This is NOT your average sex-ed conversation. It’s raw, real, and shadowy AF. If you’re doing inner work around sexuality, kink, or trauma—this is a must-watch.
✨ Let’s smash sexual shame and reclaim our erotic truth.
#SexualShadowWork #DarkFantasies #BDSM #KinkHealing #TraumaHealing #JungianPsychology #EroticShadow #SexualSovereignty #REBORN #ShadowWork #SpiritualityAndSex #KinkEducator
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About Jaclyn Proper: Jaclyn is a Jungian Coach dedicated to helping you explore the depths of your psyche, embrace your true desires, and transform your life through conscious exploration and self-awareness. Join her as she breaks down barriers and opens up conversations about sexuality, creativity, and the journey towards wholeness.
