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Midlife, menopause and finding meaning - a conversation with Kellie Stirling

Maude Burger-Smith Episode 22

Kellie is a somatic coach, facilitator and guide - a certified Developmental Coach and VITA™ Integrated Sexuality, Love and Relationship Coach. She holds post-graduate qualifications in Complex Change and Adult Development, has been an Executive Coach for 15 years and is also a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner as well as a mother and a cancer survivor.. 


Kellie works at the intersection of adult development, systems thinking, integrated sexuality, embodiment work, somatic experiencing, leadership and business to support people through big changes in their lives during parenthood, midlife and menopause, and elderhood rites of passage; and other life transitions like grief, divorce and big career changes.  You can access her free ebook here Magical Midlife and Menopause and see more about her here 


In this conversation we explore:

  • some of the meh and restlessness that often shows up in midlife
  • menopause getting “the blame” for midlife 
  • ego and meaning, emotions and societal conditioning, truth
  • the menopause “muse” and shapeshifting
  • how we could create change on a micro level and where to start
  • the radical act of listening to ourselves 
  • some reframes around supporting our health 


And so much more!


Here are some of Kellie’s favourite resources:

Should we all be on HRT - Prof. Susan Davis and Simon HIll on the The Proof podcast

Demystifying HRT - Kellie Stirling and Dr Fatima Khan, Talkin about Midlife podcast


- Hormone Repair Manual - Lara Briden

- Menopause Brain - Dr Lisa Mosconi

- Menopause the wise woman way - Susan Weed 

- The Wisdom of Menopause - Christiane Northrup 


Download these 3 resources to support you:

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