Reflections and Revelations: The Secret to Letting Go

Join Frances in this episode of a 'Fearless Short' as she revisits the highlights and learnings from 2024, reflecting on season three's remarkable journey and her own personal growth. Frances also dives into the fascinating world of medical astrology with her guest Kira Sutherland and discusses the profound impact of human design on her life. From career and relationships to astrological insights, this episode is packed with transformative reflections and inspiring advice for listeners navigating their own paths in 2025 and beyond!

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:34 Reflecting on Past Seasons

01:57 Highlighting Popular Episodes

02:24 Medical Astrology with Kira Sutherland

03:53 Personal Reflections and Growth

08:53 Astrological Insights for 2025

15:24 Human Design and Personal Development

20:07 Conclusion and Contact Information

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Transcript

Frances 0:08

Hey friends, we are fearless. Welcome to the podcast. My name is Frances Young and we are here on a Fearless Short, and this is actually a redo of Fearless Shorts. From summer of 2024. This one, three generator with sacral authority is back. We're in season four, and this episode is a reflection, like the one I had a couple weeks ago about this time last year, but just realizing what I created in my first three seasons. Funny enough, something that is so interesting to me. That last episode of season three is the second highest downloaded episode of my tiny little podcast, which is all of, I think it's only, it's under a hundred downloads right now. Still of that particular episode and something we're gonna get into something personal with that episode, but that just boggles my mind, is that that episode I actually disliked. It felt all over the place. It felt like I didn't really know what I was saying. I don't listen actually to the full recording sometimes of the podcast itself once it's uploaded, even though I love the sound of my own voice. It was a recap of all of season three. I was saying thank you to all of my guests, and then I went personal on, just life that happened to me from about August to December of 2024. Just being really thankful for last year. Where I'm gonna go now with this is that my second highest downloaded episode is with someone who I am gonna bring back in season four. It's a medical astrologer and her name is Kira Sutherland. She's Australian. Our astrology matches in such a lovely way to excite each other. She is an Ego Projector. Heart authority. If she wants something, she's gonna go get it. I was speaking to someone the other day and they have a love for astrology and they didn't know that medical astrology existed. So medical astrology exists, understanding our physical body through the stars and certain aspects that we understand certain zodiac signs, their relations to the body. Herbalism is a natural health understanding that we feel in 2025 is gonna have a pretty prevalent, resurge in being an important facet of understanding our physical wellbeing. Now, it's not gonna replace modern medicine, but it definitely needs to help it along the way as it is one of the most ancient ways of looking at the physical, mental, and spiritual bodies that we have as a human. If you haven't listened to that episode, I highly encourage you to go back into the middle of season three and go listen to my episode with Kira Sutherland. We even go off topic of the questions that I asked her about her design and just wherever we went. We talked about female hormones, we talked about the understanding of where certain planets are with regards to our female cycle. Also, if you're a female listening to this, go listen to that episode'cause it was super fun. We're gonna get back to reminiscing and thinking about this last episode that I had at the end of 2024. And. This episode even relates to my first Fearless Short in this season. Even if you are not a believer of human design, and even if you feel you're more of a scientific, logical person and not sure if you fully believe in any amount of spiritualism, any amount of something outside of yourself helping your life trudge along. Most people on the planet resonate with the saying,'You're right where you're meant to be'. I have resonated with that for a long time. I bring that up today with this episode because 2024, I was told some things about my life. I felt some things about my life. I was like, this is it. This is where the world, what feels like the world or something greater than myself, starts to see me for who I am with health, fitness, and human design. I was so like, ah, pushy and everybody needs to know my name. This is my energy and my body as to how it felt like. To me, success with human design at this point has always been equated with the views I have on Instagram or the dollars in my bank account that are directly from being hired as a human design coach. This is a very old paradigm way of thinking, but this is where I'm still at in my existence of, 31, turning 32 in 2024, a little fucking baby that I am. I say that in loving sense to myself because the thirties are where it gets good people. If you're not in your thirties yet, or you're about to hit your Saturn return, this episode is for you, because I can't wait until I'm 40. Anyways, back on topic. So I was pushing and shoving last year, but I knew, I was like, yeah, and we were single and we were dating. We were having a fun ass time. Huh? A Leo, when she's single, at least me, at least this Leo with a cancer rising, but Aries Moon is like, oh. And just so everyone knows, my Mars is in Gemini, and if anybody listening to this understands what that means, I wanna talk to everybody, but then I'm gonna talk to one person and be engrossed with that person. But it's okay if I move on to the next person, the next day kind of mindset around dating. Specifically dating. I'm a very different person once I get into a relationship. That's for another episode. But we were dating, we were pushing hard because I felt like, yes, I'm about to meet my person and by the end of 2024, I'd started working at a Stretch Lab. I'd created a lot of new business for myself. We had created momentum with human design, but I still felt like I was pushing hard. It was like, why is nothing coming to me? I'm trying to find ways to create better packages online, promote myself as selling really fucking high ticket programming status online that wasn't flowing. That was actually the first time I tried that. And I was in a relationship and I was very vocal about this thankfulness, even though I still felt pushy at the end of 2024. And I was so in that episode, if you go listen to it, I was so like, this is right. This is where I'm meant to be because it was. I deeply, deeply believe that that's where I was supposed to be at the end of 2024, that the things I was saying, the things I was feeling in my business, in a relationship with these beautiful different humans in my life that I didn't expect to have by the end of 2024, but felt and knew that this was the experience I was supposed to have by the end of 2024. That was the people, this is the way, this is the way that, the next chapter of my life was gonna go. But here we are, a very different day in May of 2025, and we're not really pushing in the same way that I was with regards to human design and health. And trying to find the right event to speak at or create my own event. We're just responding. We're just saying to people, Hey, at this event, at this meetup, let's do this next. And then it's happening. The responding people are excited back with me as opposed to me feeling like I'm pushing and pulling. Now, we're gonna keep the personal life separate, but I will just say we're single. We're ready to mingle. But I'm actually. I like put up a stank, a stank face if anybody's watching this of, we've finally reached a moment, folks in 32 years of life, where I'm always the person that wants to have somebody to text, whether it's the partner that I'm with or if it's a new potential dating connection. I don't wanna fucking talk to anybody until it's my husband. Yeah. We've been told some things about my life. We've been feeling some things about my life, and honey Jupiter is about to move into Cancer. Woo. Oh my God, I'm so excited. Ugh. Any astrologer listening to this and knows where Cancer is in their chart is also fucking. Woo. Going to town on the excitement about what that means. Also for the collective. On a side rant here, we'll go on some astrology and what the energy is gonna feel like in the later half of May, and for the next whole year for where, in an astrological explanation, the sign of Cancer. Is the Zodiac sign and anyone born between the end of June and the middle of July. Cancer is the sign of the mother, and cancer is the sign of honey, let me do that for you because I just, I actually get fulfillment from doing this for you, so just give it to me the way, the way that your mom is like, honey, just, just let me fold this because it'll be better for you, or just let me make your sandwich today while you go do this. Cancer is the sign of family, Cancer is the sign of the caretaker, and this is the way I show up to the world. This is my actual identity, and I feel as I am saying this real time, as it's being recorded, as I talk about myself as a Cancer rising, I am glowing. More than being a Leo sun. Anyways, the planet Jupiter is associated with Sagittarius. It's associated with the explorer, it's associated with the abundance mindset. So Jupiter, this planet, bringing abundance to mothers, bringing abundance to the area of your life that is your family. For me, it is going to bring abundance to my identity because of where, what's going on in my personal birth chart. Now, for you, it will be a completely potential different experience, but if you're a Cancer rising, get ready to be famous in your world, in your family, in the way that you show up. Now, famous has a very interesting connotation. Yes, you could go viral on social media. This is maybe what we're hoping for. I don't know if that's what I need. Who knows? We're being very open-minded about, I don't know what my business needs anymore, as opposed to pushing and prodding and thinking that I know the way that it's gonna go. What this means is, yes, I've been told I'm gonna meet my husband this year and this will go live. Don't care.'cause that's just cool. I'll say it to the world. Yes, I have been told roughly when. Yes, I fully believe it. Who knows? I am really trying hard not to control that because I know I can't. And honey, when you listen to this, this is gonna be really funny and you're gonna laugh at me with the utmost joy. To come back to full reflection on the last episode that I put in season three of this Fearless Life Podcast; allowing ourselves to be fully ourselves, means pulling back all of these layers, being fully wholeheartedly in your life when you are there in the moment, and that being true to you for that experience of that time of your life. Fully being in love with this person and then realizing, wow, I fully learned from this scenario, and it's okay that I chose to move on because I needed that love. Something taught me something there. I had to go through that. It. It was amazing. I would never take it back in a heartbeat. I just had a moment where I needed to like pause, got a little emotional to myself. Maybe that was a clearing. I'm so proud of myself that the most downloaded episode was a reflection of a year that felt like I was still pushing and shoving and not really sure where I was going, but the whole pushing and shoving concept was a big deal and being super self-conscious about an episode that I thought was, shit, eh, cool. People like it. People are downloading it amazing. You never know what people are gonna like. You just don't. And that the second most downloaded podcast was with a medical astrologer who I've never met in person. So cool. What are we gonna, I'm gonna pull up my notebook for people,'cause I wrote notes about this. The cool thing about human design. That when we know our design, we sometimes don't realize that as we can get intellectual about our health, thinking that we are the most healthy person on the planet because we have smoothies, grass-fed beef, I follow this workout routine, da da. The way that you think you're gonna get fit might not be the way that you think you're supposed to get fit. I am so thankful. I am rere realizing every single day that as much as I know how my body is designed to operate, that I'm still gonna learn from my life like every other human who may not even know their design yet. That the way I show up, the way I communicate to whoever I'm communicating that day is super fucking important.'cause I'm gonna learn and transform myself to be more of my authentic self. Every single day, and it's okay if you fall down this one three trial and try again, Generator. Woo. Let me tell you, it bruises the ego sometimes, but we're getting, a little more humbling, again, about the not pushing and prodding type of energy. You will literally see your life transform before you. If you also know your design and put it to the side. Pardon me?'cause your life is what's gonna teach you. Your body is teaching you every moment what you are meant to respond to. Next rest, speak your mind. Manifestor, man gens just. You really don't know what every day's gonna show up for you, what you need to do, what it's gonna excite you. Projectors. Just go sit down for a second, please go sit down and Reflectors, just contact somebody new or be real open to that moment of surprise'cause you don't know where it's gonna come from next. I've described some energies of human design here too. We're really not gonna know who's right for us, what business is right for us until the moment it shows up in front of our face. I have so much respect for 2024 and what it taught me. I have so much love for 2024 and everyone that I met and the experiences I had. The beginning of 2025, everybody knew it was a dumpster fire. LA was on fire, like wow. And the dumpster fire is still going, but we know everything around the dumpster fire is also still going on fire. To wrap it up in a moment, in a sum of I'm right where I'm supposed to be right now. You are too listening to this podcast. Is it in the show notes? If you don't know your human design yet, I'm gonna put all the information there and we can chat about it. You can find some stuff, you can Google some stuff, do you honey? And then I'll be here when you need me. Is it keep playing with your life. Keep playing with how much energy you have in your body on one given day. One of the most important things about your body is today, what I'll say is your authority. It's your intuition. It's this you knowing that you are where you're meant to be right now, no one else can tell you what's right for you, ever. For also having an Aries moon, I'm going to stick myself up in the air and be like. Toot your fucking horn when you need to toot your fucking horn and say no, but just keep looking back and re realizing that you are more yourself than you've ever been in this moment. And you don't have to give yourself a hard time when what felt true and whole in real. If that thing, if that person. If that moment in your life no longer exists where you are right now. I wanna thank you for listening to this episode of this Fearless Life Podcast. In the show notes below, you're gonna find everything you need to know with regards to getting in contact with me. If this has inspired you to book a reading with me to learn your human design book, a personal training session or stretch therapy session. We can also talk about human design during those sessions. However you wanna work with me, I'm here. All the information, again, is in the show notes. If this episode has a guest, all of their information is also in the show notes. Now, I never like. A podcast that has an intro that's like, these are my ads and this is the thing, and this is a, and now I did that for my first three seasons and now we're putting it at the end'cause that just feels a little more me. So the last but not least of the day is I'm gonna see you soon honey. You're gonna go to my website, www.thefearlessprojectltd.com. And if you don't know your human design energy type, there's gonna be a graph on that page. You're gonna put in some information, it's some birth in from just so you know. And then you're gonna have a graph. It's gonna come up and you're gonna be like, what the hell is this? Mumbo jumbo If you've never seen it before. Don't worry, you're gonna be fine. Literally, the only thing that truly matters outta that graph is that you know, your energy type and a couple other nuances, but that's it. All the fancy stuff. At the end of the day, if you didn't know it, it would be fine. Knowing your energy type, strategy and authority off of that graph that you pull up is where you're gonna begin. I specialize in helping you understand your digestion and environment. And also how to work out, how to stretch, how to be you in this crazy life that we are living currently in 2025. So I'm gonna see you later friends, and just remember that you are fearless. I.