Ep. 79 Let’s Chat: MDW & Lessons in Dating!

Let's chat about MDW, the mix of working out like crazy, errands, exploring even in the horrible rain! I managed to have the best times even in the worst weather. 

What am I watching: Farmer wants a wife, guilty pleasure its so good! The Valley, kinda boring, Below Deck, The Madison is so good, but makes me cry, restarted Yellowstone, In the City, fall/winter summer house and new friends, Ladies of London may have lost me, boring, Love Island beyond the villa lost me lol Going to watch Four Seasons

I am reading the book on audio, my friend Stephs draft of her book and The Legacy, the last book of the Off Campus Series. Then I have a full summer reading list to make sure I get through. 

Things I am listening to: Call her daddy, there has been some really good interviews and things I am inspired by. Oh course Let’s be Honest, I love my girl Kristin, Also, a book! These Summer Storms By Sarah MacLean

recorded in my own studio - connect on instagram: 
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Transcript

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Hello, hello, hello, and welcome back to She Designs Her Life. So I am going to jump right in. I have the new hair. We are no longer super dark. We are shorter. Um, that's gonna change. So I never gatekeep that I get extensions, that I I've I've always said I do not get work done. I've had lip filler twice in my life. The first time was crazy. It was in like 2018, maybe, maybe 2019. 2019. I feel like I had my house back then. Um that was a friggin' bust. They had to dissolve. Then I got my lips done again. I want to say in like 2021, maybe February-ish. I don't know. This is them since then. I have had lip blushing, which is um tattooing with uh permanent makeup. My eyebrows have permanent makeup. I have never had Botox, I have never had any of that. I don't know what that is. I just get facials once a month. Um so yeah, it's so funny. I actually forgot to turn off my ringtone. Sorry guys, and I'm gonna answer this person in a minute, but yeah, so none of that, but I will always get extensions. I don't mind it. I think having some hair, having a little bit of your uh fake hair put in, nothing wrong with it. I have not had my hair highlighted since February of 2024. No, January of 2024, maybe December of 2023. There was a bit of an issue. I've never been quiet about it. They put too much bleach or a high developer and overlapped and broke off a ton of my hair. So we didn't highlight, we just left that and let it grow, and now we were dark for so long, everything was like down here where I'm like, I need to break up some stuff. So we have a little summer movement. This piece, there's like a piece that's like super blonde. She was like, I can't believe that you actually lightened up like this. I was like, Well, I can because I haven't highlighted my hair in forever. So I was not virgin because I cover my grays, but you know, we were maybe the closest to a virgin that we'll ever be again. Haha. Anyway, I digressed that entire thing. There's gonna be long hair on me starting tomorrow evening. But this is me with a healthy haircut, some highlights, and if you don't like it, I really don't care. But I like it. So I don't know why I'm in a sassy mood. The full moon is coming. I am on a whole other sassy mood. When the full moon comes, I am like ready to I don't know, stay out of my way, whoever it is. Or is this the Lutil phase? Who knows? But I'm ready to like jump in. Let's chat Memorial Day and lessons in dating because we have been dating and we have gone on dates, and I have to talk about it. It's it's lessons that I am learning from these guys. I'm not gonna call any of them men, and their ages go up to 45. And I always say I'm never attracted to anybody who's my age or older. I think I'm gonna stick to it. I think I am, and I have sneezed like 7,000 times, so I'm lucky if my eyelashes stay on. But it's probably why I like a little cuckoo. All right, so this weather, this past Memorial Day. If you were in the Northeast or if you were anywhere near New Jersey, New York, Connecticut, Long Island, you experienced what we experienced. Monsoon. It rained all weekend long. I'm pretty sure we had like I had Friday off. So I met my friends for breakfast after I worked out, went to a cutesy little new town, part of the bucket list. Wasn't new, but it was another new place that I tried, and I shopped local. So that was part of the bucket list, and it was fabulous out. Like I'm I was amazed like how pretty it was. I was like, this is great. Then all of a sudden, Saturday, Sunday, and Monday was like shit. Well, Monday it got nice at like 3:30 at night, or 3.30 in the afternoon at night. It is nighttime, it is way past my bedtime. I so I'm gonna blow through this episode as much as I can because I wrote show notes. I got I'm itchy from my new tattoo. I was reading my friend's book and I was like doing the show notes, which yes, guys, my show notes are very thorough. I start them at the be like in advance, like with the idea that pops into my head. Like, so don't ever say I don't put love and care into this podcast because I do, and it's my own time and my own investment. So everyone's welcome. Wow, I am really sassy. Sorry to everybody. I'm gonna probably be harsh. Probably gonna be harsh on the guy that the men that I have these stories to, too. So good luck to them. Um so this weekend gave seasonal depression. I have never had seasonal depression, but this past weekend really gave it to everybody in the Northeast. I was just like, hey, what the actual fuck? Can we have just like a little bit? Um, so yeah, that was not fun. But I managed to live and still enjoy the weekend. So I accomplished four straight days spinning Friday morning, Saturday morning, Sunday morning, and Monday morning. I was dead. My legs, I have recovered. That's why I think I am so tired. I could not do another spin class, but I am doing one Friday morning at 7 a.m. 7 a.m. class. My first. And because I'm saying it, I'm gonna do it. I was oh, I can't cancel anyway. We're 12 hours over. So we're going and we're not losing our credit. And then I'm gonna do Saturday and Sunday as well. It is really hard to do these classes, they're like hit classes, but with a bike. And I just am like, wow, I was very proud of myself. Um I am getting stronger and I'm noticing it. I am not losing as much weight as I want to, but it's fine because I love my body. And there's gonna be a whole post that I make um next week in regards to this whole skinerexic trend that's going on. Um, so yeah, stay tuned for that. And then that'll be a discussion that I want to have. So I made sure to balance this weekend between being lazy and like doing spin classes, having plans with friends, and getting dates. Like, it's so funny how I did not plan to have dates with anyone, but they asked. So why not? I have a balance of seeing my friends, I have a balance of going and doing what I want to do, and it kind of worked out. But the balance of being lazy and actually like doing stuff, um, especially after like hard workouts, it's a lot. And it's like, you know, you eat, you drink, you want to make sure that you're having fun, you're sleeping enough, and you know, making it work. So, but I also did do the things that I would have to do on a normal weekend, like going grocery shopping, resetting my apartment, cleaning it up, me making sure that, you know, I get shit done, plan, you know, bake things, cook things, because I did do that. And then it's like the laundry. I do laundry during the week, so I don't have to do it on the weekends. Um, and then I I put it away. I still have a pile of clothes that are sitting on my couch from the other weekend, uh, from last weekend. Okay, okay. Normal girl. Um, and then it's like, you know, doing the things that I have to do, cleaning my sheets, making my bed, um, and then incorporating, like, you know, cleaning up my apartment, which I hate to do. So going forward, I am working into my budget a cleaning lady that my friend has referred to me. So I am going to do that. Um, and listen, maybe that's not for everybody, but I have always had a cleaning lady in any apartment I've ever had in Brooklyn, in New Jersey, in my house. Um, I prefer to utilize my time to go do things opposed to paying for, like not paying for a cleaning lady. Like on the days that I could be out and about or like coming home from work and my apartment is clean, I didn't have to do it. Do I upkeep? Yes. I vacuum my apartment every day, if not every other day. And we have a co-host. It's my little trash panda. It's Chip. Say hi, Chip. Say hi. Look at how cute he is. He's like, What the fuck? Why are you holding me like this? Well, bro, you really are kind of say hi. He says hi. Um, okay, so and I brush these guys out daily. So I vacuum all the time. I'm being attacked by his butt. Dude, down. Oh god, his tail. Okay, if you're watching this, it's a hot mess express. But when you're listening to it, it probably sounds really weird to be quite ow.

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Oh, Jesus.

SPEAKER_00 10:07

Anyway, so cleaning ladies. I'd rather hire somebody than do it myself. That sounds bougie, but guess what? My time is being utilized doing other things. There's fur now flying everywhere. Sorry. Okay, so I'm gonna be incorporating that. I'm actually gonna be meeting with her, I think, next week. Um, oh my god. And by the way, I got rid of all of my returns in my car. The day the sun came out, I got in my car on Monday and I was like, please stores be open. Return things. Kohl's old navy got things out of my car. I was like, yay! And I did not go to the mall, which I should have because I had returns that I had to do at Aerie. So I'll just have to do that this weekend.

SPEAKER_01 10:56

Yay!

SPEAKER_00 10:58

Which I am working from home going forward um every Friday. So yay. So every Friday I will be doing a 7 a.m. class and then also my other classes because we have goals, guys. We have goals, so yeah. Now, dating. How weird. I have been dating. It's not like I haven't been dating. I actually have been meeting more guys out than okay. So I have been doing research for the past two months on this new dating app that I was told about, um, and given the opportunity to test it out, um, because it is so new. It is called Doet. It's interesting, kind of, it's very new, very, very, I have hair off my face. It is very new. Um, and there's when things are new like this, they are, it's basically to me, it reminds me of Tumu, because there's like little pop-ups sometimes. And it's basically like you get people from all over the place. There, there are some gorgeous men in the Midwest, let me tell you. Not many here because they don't really know about it. So I'm at the end of the testing that out. I have gone on one date, I think, with somebody from that app, and they were from like New York or uh the city. So I went, whatever, it's fine. Obviously, nothing to really talk about because it went nowhere. Um, and I think I planned the date. We all know how much I love doing that. Yay. Uh, whatever. So, anyway, um, so now I basically have been meeting a lot more men out because if I go out, then men actually approach me. And it's very nice when they approach you. And then if they meet you on a Friday, they ask you out on a Sunday. And that's actually pretty cool. Like they want to, let's do this. It's like we love a man with initiative. So this is the first time that I've actually um met a guy that's around my age who's actually older, 45. He did not look 45, which kudos to you. Um, but he really wanted to take me out. He showed all signs of wanting to chat, and I totally get it. Holiday weekends, probably not the best time, or maybe it is the best time, but to continue conversation, the holiday weekend has ended, and to never hear from you after the great date that we had when you told me how great it was and that you can't wait to see me again, and then I speak to you very blandly on Monday, and then I never hear from you again, that's at 45. Now people would say, Oh, he's busy. Guess what? So am I. I made time. And on top of it, let's also throw out there that I've been dating probably age range between 20. I mean, in 2024, I did date a 25-year-old. That was actually go me. Um, but yeah, it was like two dates. And I will say, no matter what age they are, because in the 30s, these are all the same men. They are all cut pretty similarly, they may all come from similar families. Doesn't matter how old you are, they all act the same. They all have a male brain. They literally will like you, not and then what, because they don't sleep with you, they you don't hear from them again? I'm assuming that could be the reason. I have a strange feeling. And if that's the reason, well, you know what? Some girls like to wait till day two or three. Nothing wrong with that. And there's also nothing wrong with sleeping with somebody on the first date. I just really didn't feel like it. I was fucking tired. I was tired, it was a weird long weekend. Weird things happened. Maybe one day I'll talk about them. I don't know, but it was a weird fucking weekend. So now we no matter what, I have noticed that men tend to be a little lazy, not just with planning dates, based on your miles, how far away you are by your minutes. I'm sorry, maybe I'm just old fashioned. Maybe I also I don't know. Don't give a shit about distance because I was a Brooklyn girl living in Diker Heights or Bay Ridge going into the city on the freaking D train. And to be quite fucking honest, an hour and 25 minutes on the D train to work? That sucks. Driving in your car for 30 minutes, maybe at most, is aggressive. Or an hour, please. That is the stupidest thing I think I've ever heard. And I'm sorry to break it to everybody, but this has been a thing where people actually are bothered by how long they're in the car. I'm confused. I get it. Gas is high, but seriously, like that, like I don't know. So, in my world, I have dated long distance before. I was in Brooklyn, one of the guys I was dating was in Jersey, and the first seven years of that relationship were kind of good. It just went to shit afterwards. Okay, whatever, it happens. I've also dated on opposite sides of Brooklyn. That could be considered long distance. I have never done state to state. I'm pretty sure if they want to, they will. We have planes. I know it's a little expensive. There's buses, there's trains, there's cars. You make it work if you want to. It's really not that difficult, but apparently it is. So I don't know. Maybe it's the sass in me, maybe it's the spice in me. I think it's an excuse. I think everybody's fucking lazy, but that's just me. I'm the only one that apparently has is not lazy. So who knows? So yeah, I in my head have come to this conclusion. I don't care about distance, I don't care about age, it's the actual human that interests me. If that person has all the qualities, and they can have some of the things that are missing from my quality list, it's okay. Not everybody's gonna be perfect. I'm far from perfect. But to put effort into a person, I'm gonna give you what you give me. If you give me no effort, you're getting no effort in return. I don't give a shit. I have moved on to these points where I I I don't care. I was gonna say something really mean and I stopped myself. So um, yeah, I have come to the conclusion that I honestly do not care about certain things. I am going to be open and honest. And one of my friends actually said to me, she said, she's like, You are so because there's people that I still talk to, I have guy friends, um, ones that I've not slept with. Thank you very much. These are guy friends, I've known them. Um, and she has said to me, although I do have a friend that I have slept with present previously, like, and we are still friends, um, but there's like nothing there. So she said to me that she's like, You are so brutally honest with both of these men. That's why they like to be your friend. I can't bullshit, I cannot hold it in. And the two of them, in specifically, these two men do appreciate my bluntness, my weirdness, who I am, because I'm authentically myself with them. They even tell me one of them's like, you give unsolicited advice. But then when I think about it, it's not really unsolicited because I actually like it and I need to hear it. And I'm like, oh, I'll do my little clap, I'll do this for the people on the microphone on the video. I'll do the little finger things. I love doing that. It looks so classy. Um, so yeah. So these two guys, one of them has told me, like, I he's like, you're so weird. He's like, but it's endearing that you are this weird because he's like, one day a guy is going to appreciate how weird you are and how amazing it is. Now, mind you, both of these men do like appreciate my weirdness. They have told me. So I'm fully aware that I know that I'm freaking weird. All right, I could care less. Somebody's gonna love me for my weird. Plenty of people love me for my weird already. So it's just a matter of who the person romantically that wants to be involved with me. I digress again, just to let you know. I it's it's way past my bedtime, and I am ADDing all over the place and trying so hard to keep focus when I'm trying. I'm trying really, really hard here, guys. Um, so yeah, so that's that. But I have noticed that I have no attraction to anybody 45 and older. It's so bad. Like, people can tell me they're age appropriate, but I really don't have an attraction. Like, I don't know. I've seen the guys out, some of them are attractive, but I don't know, it just doesn't do it for me. I think I need somebody somebody in their 30s or maybe 40 and looks like they're in their 30s. Well, you know what? Guys say it about me so I can say it about them. Oh well. Like um, so yeah, that's that. And also, I can't talk to more than three men at a time. It's really freaking difficult. I've noticed this, it is difficult, it is not easy. Talking to more than one or two guys. First of all, who has the time? It's so exhausting. Maddie has made her appearance. I'm drinking water, guys. Not drinking anything alcoholic. I am working out tomorrow. Um, but yeah, I can't, I don't know. Maybe that's why I'm tired because these guys, some of these guys just talk, and I'm like, whoof, not that it's a bad thing. We love talkers, but sometimes I'm like, oh my god, I'm exhausted. So yeah, that happens. Um, but I really do want to say the major lesson of all of this is that not all guys are the same. Anybody of any age, they could be 26, they could be 27, which I found out I'm a cougar. So if I split my age in half and add two to it, that's uh split my age in half. Uh add five years and then add two to it, and then apparently I could date that age. That's 27. I don't know. I don't make the rules up for being a cougar, but apparently that's what I can do is date a 27 year old, and that'll be completely fine. Okay, I can't, I mean, I have dated a 27 year old, so yeah, I mean that's fine. Um, but yeah, I think age does not matter to me. That's my lesson. I don't care how old they are, as long as they have their shit together and they are nice humans and they are normal, we're all in. We can give a shit. I don't care. That's my lesson. And that no matter how old you are, you could still be a child and ghost somebody without giving a reason. So a 45-year-old can ghost me. A 30-something year old can ghost me. It's all the same shit. And I ghosted one guy recently. Just stopped answering him. It's just, I mean, if you tell me we have nothing in common. I like going to concerts. I like going to do this. I like going to that. And this guy tells me, Oh, I like to stay home. I just bought a house. I don't want to leave. Guess what? I broke up with that. I left that. I left that. I I disrupted my home life to get away from that. Because they started out one way. And yes, one can say this guy was honest with me and told me straight up, but guess what? I want to do stuff with my person. It's boring if I don't. Like I know I could do it with my friends. I'm doing it all with my friends now. Doing it by myself. But maybe I want my person to do it with me. Sue me. Who knows? So yeah. So I would love it if everyone tells me to stop dating someone my age. My mom included. That woman is obsessed with the word age appropriate.

SPEAKER_01 23:26

Age appropriate men. They still suck.

SPEAKER_00 23:29

And you never hear from them. So it's just like the younger guys. Can't can't win and can't lose on the younger or the older. Um, but I am doing, I'm wondering about this. So a guy, he planned a date. He's coming to me. He asked me about suggestions. I gave him two places. He said, which one do you prefer? I said, I prefer not to plan the date. He said, but you're not planning it. He's like, I'm just looking for your input. I was like, but I gave you the location. So it's like you could just literally pick one of the two. I gave them to you. So like I obviously don't mind between the two. And I'm learning the lesson that maybe it's not bad to suggest places and maybe plan the date, although I hate doing it, but it's like maybe it's not that bad to do it because then I'm going to a place that I like, but maybe I want to try something new. So I don't know. I'm literally in this little conundrum of like, am I too harsh with saying it sucks to plan a date? Yeah, I know it sucks to plan a date. That's why I don't want to do it. Rather have them do it. Maybe I'm just like I plan other things in my life. Can somebody else just take the reins and they do it? Like, I don't want to think all the time. Oh my god, what movie is that from? Maybe I don't want to think all the time. Maybe I just want them to do it. It's from a movie. I'll think about it at some point. But oh my god, there's some times I just want to turn my brain off. And maybe a guy telling me, meet me at this time, this time, and at this place. This is what you can wear. Oh my god, thank you so much. I love that for me. I don't have to fucking think. Ah, I'm losing my voice. Anyway, it's freaking probably from the wild weekend. But yeah, other than that, and the weather change. My God, I sneezed like eight times. I don't think I should sleep with the window open. I'm gonna wake up swollen. So yeah, and by the way, another lesson. Having two dates in one day, maybe a coffee date and a lunch date or a lunch date and then drinks date, I think that's a great idea. You're maximizing your time, and also you're not utilizing all the days of the weekend to go on dates. Like, I'm sorry. I find that to be amazing. I may or may not be doing that soon. If you see me, you don't see me. Maybe you see me. I don't know. Oh my god, this episode is turning into being a clusterfuck. Okay, it's really long, and I'm gonna try to wrap this up as soon as possible. Okay, so I don't know. My brain is broken, guys. But I spoke about the bucket list. All right, now we're talking about summer house. Okay, my thoughts. I don't love what Sierra is doing to um Amanda. I understand if she's coming from a place that her friend hurt her, totally. That's the fucked up part. And just like Kyle, she'd be mad at Wes because Wes screwed over him and their friends. Totally get it. But this thing, and I listen, Wes is a little fuckboy, made out with Sierra last summer. They were they had a sleepover, sex was not really discussed. So I think they just have sleepovers and they don't have sex. Okay, what are we in junior high school? I mean, cool. Um, but yeah, so I just find it very weird that she kept going back to the like this is the guy that I was with. It's like, but he was never your boyfriend. From what I understand, you guys have only like casually hooked up, and it was like two years ago. So pick Elaine, be mad at your friend, be mad at the situation and how it was handled, and how you were not apologized to with the shitty Instagram story post. Um, I just made a face like who really gives a shit. Um, but kind of like feel the pain and then kind of move on. I initially was like shocked by all of this, but now I'm kind of like the bandwagon and the tar and feather to Amanda, it's a little much. I have an answer on my back. Um, it's a little much. I think we're a little, I think we're a little dramatic about it. I think we're a little taking it too far. And I don't think we should be going for Amanda calling her all types of things and like saying things about her in a way where it's like breaking her down and beating her down. I think there's a way to come across your feelings are hurt without you having to tear people down. That's just me. I've done it before, not innocent. Totally have torn people down, but you learn, you grow. Uh-oh.

SPEAKER_01 28:17

There's gonna be a cat fight. Guys, hey, we really gotta wrap this up. There's gonna be a fight.

SPEAKER_00 28:25

So yeah, it was just a little rough to watch, and like the whole nasty comments, it was just unnecessary. Come here.

SPEAKER_01 28:35

Daddy's gonna start a fight.

SPEAKER_00 28:36

Okay, so to wrap this up, what am I watching? What am I uh reading, and what am I listening to? Have not changed the what am I listening to? Still the exact same things, which if you have not heard, it is call her daddy. Um, let's be honest, who had Chelsea Handler on, by the way, and I want to do a whole recap of three podcast episodes that have stood out to me. So stay tuned for that because there are some things and some like very intelligent things that were mentioned on these three episodes, and specifically Chelsea Handler talking about guys that she's dated and how she handles dating. I found it fucking fascinating. So that's that. Um, and then uh also I said let's be honest with Kristen, the book uh These Summer Storms by Sarah McLean. I'm listening to it on my way to work. What I am watching, Farmer Wants a Wife. I can't help it. It's such a good guilty pleasure. It is so good. One of the guys looks, he resembles this guy that I used to date. So I will never, it's this one guy that's been around for like a year and a half now. Um I'm not dating him. No, no, no, they said that wrong. Um, friend. He's a friend, but I've known him for about a year and a half. I should have said, sorry, don't get the wrong idea, and nobody come for me. Um, but if you know me, know me, you know exactly who I'm talking about. Um he basically, there's one of the farmers that looks like him, and I've sent him a picture and he goes, Stop it, I'm not ugly. I went, no, not uh I said similar looking. It's the eyes and the nose. I said, but it's the mannerisms, it's so weird. Um, so yeah, that was that. And then the valley, kind of boring, trying to push through, a little too much baby talk. I'm not a mom. I get it. Postpartum sucks. I've been around a lot of my friends and my sister who have had it. I totally get it. But this is supposed to be enjoyment TV. It's not enjoyment. Okay. The Madison Paramount Plus, I believe. It is really good. Just be prepared to cry with Michelle Pfeiffer and Kurt Russell. Really good. Just be prepared to try to cry, and I want to move to wherever the hell they are. Looks lovely. I restarted Yellowstone because I never really got to watch it because I want to watch all of the things. So this is my summer to do is to finish Yellowstone. Okay. I know I'm late. In the city, great show. Like Summer House, just they all live in the city and they all live in separate houses. Fall and summer, fall and winter, I think it was. Um, and uh, ladies of London, they lost me. I'm so bored, gone. Love Island, Beyond the Villa, lost me. So boring. Um, but I do have to watch four seasons on Netflix that just came out, second season. So yeah, and off campus, I watched it for a second time. That's gonna be a part of the notes for the dating podcast that I'm going to discuss because I need to watch a couple of the interviews that these uh actors have done. And books, same reading my friend Stephanie's book. I'm actually going to try to finish it by the second week of June. So I might have to put Legacy Aside, which is the last book of off campus, and I have such a summer reading list, like, oh my god, can't even. And I just got through the show notes. So thank you so much for being here. Um, if anybody wants some dating advice to give or set me up, nobody has set me up. This has been an interesting thing. Somebody keeps saying, I can't believe you were not with anybody, or nobody set you up. Yeah, nobody has set me up. And I'm okay with that uh because I am a little picky, but I've actually been pretty good, which by the way, I forgot to mention the 45-year-old was maybe 5'9. Maybe that's a strong maybe because I wore three-inch heels and I felt like his eyes were just like we were like this. Like I so let's all be proud. My 1% of six foot and above is on pause, but there may or may not be a date with somebody who is in that one percent this weekend, so we shall see. But thank you for the lessons that I'm learning all these times. Because without lessons, to be quite honest, where the hell would we be? Like, I take everything as a lesson, I take everything as a grain of salt, I take everything in, I absorb it, and in complete honesty, the right person will be appreciative of the type of person I am to date me and be in my life. I know I can date someone, I know I have extravagant thoughts, I know I want to travel, I know I want to do all the things, but I want that person to want to do it with me. I know I could go do it with my friends and by myself, but what's the point of being with someone if they don't want to do it with you? Like, and if they don't want to, then they're not for you. And that's fine if they're not for you. We all move on and we all grow from it, and that's the way it is. I've made choices in my life that have led me to where I am, so I'm kind of really happy with it. And the person that finds me and wins me, remember, I am the prize. So that means I will be a prize for them. So it works out, and you're the prize for whoever, and that's what's supposed to be an amazing thing going forward. We are all presents to somebody, we're we're a gift that somebody is just waiting for. Oh, I like that. That was actually kind of cute. All right, guys. I hope you enjoyed this, and I will see you on the next. Bye.