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015: The Emotional Side and Toll of IVF with Vanessa Nasrallah

Cindy MacKinnon

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Have you ever wondered what it truly takes to undergo IVF, not just physically but mentally and emotionally?*


Welcome to part two of Vanessa Nasrallah's IVF journey. While Vanessa had previously shared the physical challenges of IVF in last week’s episode, this episode delves deeper into the emotional and psychological toll of the process. 


In our heartfelt conversation, Vanessa discusses the unseen and often unspoken emotional load of IVF, the differences between her two experiences, and how she and her husband, Peter, navigated through these trials.


Reflecting on her experiences, Vanessa emphasizes that her journey through IVF and early motherhood was not just about the physical aspects but also about dealing with unresolved trauma and grief. The conversation underscores the importance of recognizing and addressing mental health issues along the way.


Vanessa's story is a testament to the power of vulnerability, resilience, and seeking help. It's a reminder that while the road of IVF and parenthood can be filled with challenges, sharing our journeys can make those paths a bit easier to navigate.


We talk about:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:19 The Emotional Aftermath of IVF and Bringing Baby Home
  • 03:26 Vanessa's Personal Mental Health Journey
  • 06:21 Struggles with Postpartum Anxiety and Seeking Help
  • 12:24 The Importance of Therapy and Support
  • 18:40 Reflecting on Trauma and the Journey Ahead
  • 21:42 Seeking Therapy for Infertility
  • 23:53 Deciding to Have Another Baby
  • 25:37 Navigating the Second IVF Journey
  • 27:04 The Emotional Rollercoaster of IVF
  • 33:58 Words of Wisdom for IVF Couples


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