Compassionate Heart Parenting

The Lie We Were All Told About 'Negative' Emotions

Michelle Puster

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Do you ever feel an immediate wave of shame the moment you feel angry at your kids? In this episode, Michelle (Emotionally Focused Therapist) pulls apart the dangerous myth that "good parents" don't feel rage, resentment, or despair.

Discover why your most painful emotions are actually vital messages from your nervous system—not evidence of failure. Michelle shares her personal journey from the bathroom floor to a place of "calm and connected" using the science of mindfulness and self-compassion.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why we were taught to fear our own "negative" emotions.
  • How to use Kristen Neff’s Self-Compassion Break" in the heat of a parenting moment.
  • A step-by-step practice to interrupt the stress-yell-shame pattern.
  • How to build new neural pathways through curiosity and kindness.


Join me each week for a tail from the trenches of parenting burnout and how I (and you) can use mindfulness, mediation and self-compassion to find your inner calm and a little more sanity in your parenting.

You’ll get a story from my heart and a quick win you can use the same day.

A free gift for you: the RAGE Break, a free guided audio pause for when you are about to lose or have just lost it with your kids and you need a moment to regroup. Find the audio download in the links. I created the Rage Break because it is exactly what I needed when I was struggling with anger and yelling in parenting. 

This story was brought to you by “Yelling to Connecting.”  If you or someone you know struggles with yelling at your kids, losing it, or being constantly on edge this course will be a helpful tool. 

A reminder: This content is intended for educational purposes only and should not be used as a replacement for private psychotherapy services. Compassionate Heart Mindful Life does not provide psychotherapy services in any capacity.

I am a therapist but I am not your therapist and this is not therapy and should not be a substitute for mental health treatment. If you need mental health treatment please find a qualified professional in your area.

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