Adjusting Podcast
This podcast is all about the journey of healing, growth and self-discovery. It's called Adjusting, and it's going to be a space for candid conversations and inspiring affirmations to help navigate life's inevitable changes and transitions.
Whether you're recovering from trauma, redefining your purpose, managing mental health, or simply craving more authenticity - this show is for you. We'll get raw and real about confronting struggles, while motivating you to adjust your mindset every step of the way.
I'll be bringing on amazing guests to share their own stories of resilience and reinvention. You'll hear practical tools for adjusting to your most empowered self through self-love, vulnerability and courage.
This is about tuning into what your soul has been calling you towards. It's your weekly reminder that adjusting your life is possible with an open heart and mindset.
Adjusting Podcast
Adjusting to Disqualifying the Positive: Why You Reject Compliments & How to Stop
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Ever catch yourself dismissing compliments or minimizing your wins? Someone tells you that you did an amazing job, and instead of feeling proud, you immediately think, "Well, anyone could have done that" or "They're just being nice." You book the audition, land the promotion, or have a genuinely good day—and your brain finds a way to explain it away.
In this episode, we're breaking down Disqualifying the Positive—the sneaky mental pattern that makes you reject good things before they can even land.
This cognitive distortion is like having a filter that only lets negative information through while dismissing anything positive. You end up with a completely skewed view of reality where you have tons of evidence that you're "not good enough," but somehow zero evidence that you are—even though that evidence exists. You're just not letting it count.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- What Disqualifying the Positive is and how it distorts your reality
- How this pattern shows up in relationships, creative work, daily life, and self-perception
- Why your brain does this (hint: it's a protection mechanism that made sense once but doesn't serve you anymore)
- The mind-body connection: how your nervous system treats positive moments as danger
- The childhood roots—conditional love, dismissed accomplishments, and comparison culture
- Practical techniques to notice when you're doing it (the "Yeah, But" Test, the 3-Second Rule, and more)
- How to challenge the pattern and start letting good things actually land
- What to do when it feels hard or uncomfortable
- How to build long-term awareness so your future self can receive joy, love, and success
If you've ever felt like nothing good ever happens to you—not because it doesn't, but because you're not letting it register—this episode will help you start to shift that pattern.
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