The DOM Life
Prepare for a fusion of knowledge and exhilaration, where education and excitement collide. Taking you on an adventure that expands your mind and speaks to your spirit. Follow along the journey of Master Nick and Lady Dee as we talk about our life and experiences in the BDSM community.
Episodes
99 episodes
99: Continued Growth as a Dom Part 2
Lady Dee and Master Nick start the episode talking about communication needed between a Dom and submissive while navigating changes to a D/s dynamic to include poly relationships, adding new aspects to the D/s dynamic and working with a new sub...
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Season 2
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Episode 99
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35:12
98: Continued Growth as a Dom
Lady Dee starts with a quick update on her health and treatment. Then Master Nick dives into a listener’s requested topic on how to be a better DOM using recent discussions with friends to guide the episode. The discussion is how to be a good D...
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Season 2
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Episode 98
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43:17
97: Kinktasia 2025 Interviews
The DOM Life sets up at Kinktasia 2025 to talk to people in attendance, and they did not disappoint! Master Nick and Lady Dee were very happy to meet everyone and learn more about them. Poor Lady Dee had to leave early due to her injuries, but ...
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Season 2
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Episode 97
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49:36
96: The DOM Life Attends Kinktasia 2025 Part 2
In the second part of Kinktasia 2025, Master Nick leads the discussion on all things Day 2 at the event. He revisits Day 1 to explain how Eve Riot did an amazing but cringe-worthy performance using legos as a base for many of their intera...
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Season 2
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Episode 96
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36:36
95: The DOM Life Attends Kinktasia 2025 Part 1
In the beginning of this episode, Lady Dee gives an update on her health before Master Nick takes a moment to wish all the listeners a Happy Thanksgiving. This is the long awaited Kinktasia 2025 breakdown of events. Master Nick mentions the res...
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Season 2
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Episode 95
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34:45
94: BDSM-The Obscure & Unusual Part 2
Master Nick and Lady Dee continue to discuss some unusual and obscure fetishes and practices recognizing they are barely scratching the surface of this topic. Master Nick clarifies at the beginning of this episode that he had all the vari...
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Season 2
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Episode 94
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43:04
93: BDSM-The Obscure & Unusual Part 1
Master Nick & Lady Dee express their condolences to those impacted by the UPS tragedy which occurred in their community. Lady Dee provides a quick update on her health and healing. Then they remind listeners to come to Kinktasia and visit t...
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Season 2
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Episode 93
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41:24
92: Why Submissives Submit Part 2
Master Nick and Lady Dee continue their discussion on why submissive submit. Part II focuses on structure, tasks and rejecting tasks from a submissives perspective. Then looks at topping from the bottom, why it may be necessary, how Master Nick...
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Season 2
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Episode 92
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33:11
91: Why Submissives Submit Part 1
In this episode Lady Dee and Master Nick explore the reasons submissives submit or, in some cases, choose not to submit. What both situations can tell you about the submissive and why Dom’s should pay attention when a task is not completed as i...
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Season 2
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Episode 91
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33:42
90: The DOM Life Attends Indiana Kink & Leather
Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss their attendance at the Indiana Leather and Kink weekend in Indianapolis. Covering information on what Leather Clubs are, what classes and education they attended during the weekend, the vendors and produc...
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Season 2
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Episode 90
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59:28
89: When Outside Forces Impacts D/s Dynamics
Master Nick and Lady Dee had a very traumatic three weeks following an automobile wreck that injured Lady Dee with a variety of fractured bones (ribs, knee, pelvis, and vertebrae). Taking this opportunity, they recorded an episode on when outsi...
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Season 2
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Episode 89
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1:00:46
88: Get Ready for Kinktasia 2025
Get Ready for Kinktasia 2025 - Master Nick takes complete control over The DOM Life as Lady Dee was in time out due to health issues during the time sensitive interview with Sparkle Moonbeam, aka Shannon, from LiNK, Inc. discussing Kinktasia 20...
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Season 2
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Episode 88
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38:13
87: Surprise Guest Erratic Eros Part 2
Master Nick and Lady Dee take the final part of the interview with Sir Dancealot and Erratic Eros to a new level, digging deep into their kinky lives which include Shibari, open and poly relationships, performances, exhibitionism, voyeurism, bi...
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Season 2
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Episode 87
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33:43
86: Surprise Guest Erratic Eros Part 1
Master Nick and Lady Dee are so excited to have the second performer from the Kinktasia 2024 Burlesque performance, Erratic Eros on the show. We take a step back in time to episode 16 where Master Nick and Lady Dee talk about the amazing perfor...
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Season 2
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Episode 86
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32:55
85: The Long-Awaited Sir Dancealot
Master Nick is excited for this long-awaited episode where he and Lady Dee get to introduce Sir Dancealot, Dan, who performed at Kinktasia 2024. Lady Dee selected his burlesque performance as her favorite. In this episode of The Dom Life, Dan w...
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Season 2
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Episode 85
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51:21
84: Introduction to Spankos with KentuckyGirl Part 2
In Part 2, Master Nick and Lady Dee hear details on some of the national Spankos events including educational classes which have included soaping, strapping 101, negotiations, role playing and even rope. KentuckyGirl talks about an event called...
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Season 2
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Episode 84
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44:26
83: Introduction to Spankos with KentuckyGirl Part 1
In this Episode Master Nick and Lady Dee receive an education on Spankos. KentuckyGirl tells The DOM Life about some of the standard tools used as a Spanker to include hair brushes, spoons, belts, paddles, and don’t forget the ever-favori...
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Season 2
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Episode 83
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43:00
82: What is a Slosh???
Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss a common meeting set up by local kink and BDSM communities which are called a slosh or munch. Slosh is when alcohol is involved and it is typically at a bar, while a munch is at restaurants. This is an opportuni...
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Season 2
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Episode 82
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36:49
81: AFK 3 Day Self-Tying Summit Part 2
As a result of the joke regarding Master Nick napping, he retaliates in this episode by leaving in Lady Dee’s moment of forgetfulness to show all listeners what it’s really like living with her. Still discussing Day 1 from the A Frayed Knot 3-d...
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Season 2
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Episode 81
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32:59
80: AFK 3 Day Self-Tying Summit Part 1
Master Nick wakes up from his nap and engages with Lilith, Mika and Lady Dee who finish the introduction of the Share Bears including how daddy issues, family issues and other trauma brought them into the kink world before moving onto the topic...
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Season 2
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Episode 80
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46:25
79: Meet Lilith & Mika-The Share Bears
This episode of The Dom Life is almost a Lady Dee take over with Mika & Lilith as guests, while Master Nick is caught sleeping on the job. Lilith & Mika are queer platonic partners, who live life strongly in the kink and BDSM world. Lil...
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Season 2
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Episode 79
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41:24
78: Dominant Discussions with Master Nick & Sir Dante Part 2
After leaving you hanging last week from Master Nick's question, Sir Dante explains his reasoning for not using his dominance to end a relationship disagreement. Together they discuss what they feel are the best ways to solve miscommunication a...
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Season 2
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Episode 78
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36:56
77: Dominant Discussions with Master Nick & Sir Dante Part 1
Do you ever wonder what Dom’s discuss when they get together? It’s usually a wide range of topics with the hopes of expanding personal knowledge and understand different perspectives. A good Dom should always ask questions, gathering as much in...
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Season 2
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Episode 77
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36:17
76: Attending Performances at AFK Self-Tying 3-Day Summit
Master Nick and Lady Dee take a moment to discuss their new Social Media/Marketing Manager Jess, and improvements to The DOM Life podcast which include finding content, camera upgrades, and event attendance. They discuss the A Frayed Knot...
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Season 2
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Episode 76
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53:12
75: Submissive Stories with Lady Dee and Zorra Part 2
In Part 2, Lady Dee and Zorra spend a hot minute during The DOM Life podcast getting into their past BDSM relationships and the differences between each. They discuss how being in a 24/7 dynamic while in a relationship versus a purely D/S dynam...
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Season 2
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Episode 75
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46:02