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The DOM Life
Prepare for a fusion of knowledge and exhilaration, where education and excitement collide. Taking you on an adventure that expands your mind and speaks to your spirit. Follow along the journey of Master Nick and Lady Dee as we talk about our life and experiences in the BDSM community.
Episodes
113 episodes
113: Brat Tested. Dom Approved
What happens when playful defiance meets structure, trust, and just the right amount of discipline?In Part 2 of this deep-dive into bratting, Master Nick and Lady Dee return with sharper insights, real-life dynamics, and a whole lot more...
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Season 2
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Episode 113
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112: Brats, Boundaries and the Fine Line Between Play & Power
What happens when playful defiance meets real power—and where does the line between fun and disrespect actually live?In this episode, Master Nick and Lady Dee dive headfirst into the misunderstood world of brats, unpacking the tension be...
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Season 2
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Episode 112
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42:51
111: From Fire Play to Community Power
What happens when a weekend of kink education, fire, and community support all collide?In this heartfelt and electrifying episode of The Dom Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee return with stories from an unforgettable...
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Season 2
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Episode 111
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56:21
110: Praise, Degradation, and the Power of Silence
Words can command… but they can also collapse authority.In Part 2 of this conversation, Master Nick and Lady Dee continue their deep dive into the psychology of dominance—this time exploring the powerful role of praise, degradatio...
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Season 2
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Episode 110
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32:03
109: The Sound of Submission: How Tone Creates Authority
Don’t move.What if the real power in dominance isn’t volume, force, or physical control—but the steadiness in a single, certain word?In this episode of The Dom Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee dive deep into ...
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Season 2
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Episode 109
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31:22
108: Between Green and Yellow: Riding the Razor's Edge of Play
What if the smallest flinch could change the entire scene? In this episode of The DOM Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee dive deep into the art of reading micro reactions and calibrating intensity in real time. From sub...
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Season 2
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Episode 108
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50:16
107: From Therapy to Tease: Cupping for Healing and Heat
What happens when ancient healing meets modern kink?Welcome back to The Dom Life Podcast, where Master Nick and Lady Dee blend education, experience, and real-life power exchange into conversations that are honest, playful, and ...
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Season 2
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Episode 107
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38:20
106: Beyond the Fantasy: BDSM, Polyamory, and the Reality of a Third
What happens when curiosity, kink, and real-world commitment collide?Welcome back to The Dom Life Podcast, where Master Nick and Lady Dee pull back the curtain on power exchange, intimacy, and the realities of alternative relati...
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Season 2
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Episode 106
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51:05
105: Community
One night. One community. One powerful reminder of why connection matters.In this episode of The Dom Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee reflect on a milestone birthday celebration at their home club—and the moment it crystalized what...
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Season 2
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Episode 105
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44:44
104: Depression in Dynamics Part 2
What happens to a power exchange when real life hits hard?In this deeply honest and thought-provoking episode of The Dom Life, Master Nick and Lady D continue their discussion into the often-unspoken intersection of BDSM dynamics, ...
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Season 2
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Episode 104
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25:49
103: Depression in Dynamics Part 1
When strength meets vulnerability, real power is revealed. In this episode of The DOM Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee tackle a deeply real and often unspoken topic: depression within D/s and TPE dynamics. Sparked by ...
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Season 2
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Episode 103
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27:12
102: Introducing Submission Into Your Relationship Part 2
What if your deepest desires aren’t something to hide—but something worth exploring, communicating, and honoring?In this powerful episode of The DOM Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee dive deep into the realities of introducing kink,...
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Season 2
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Episode 102
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33:36
101: Introducing Submission Into Your Relationship Part 1
What happens when your desires no longer fit inside a vanilla relationship—and you don’t know how to say it out loud?In Episode 101 of The DOM Life Podcast, Master Nick and Lady Dee respond to a listener question by unp...
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Season 2
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Episode 101
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32:30
100: What the Hell, Let's Do One More!!!
The DOM Life Podcast is at 100 episodes!!! After Master Nick found a writing online that resonated with him, he decided one more episode on Being a Good Dom was needed. With the help of Lady Dee, they discussed more on this topic from a differe...
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Season 2
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Episode 100
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46:55
99: Continued Growth as a Dom Part 2
Lady Dee and Master Nick start the episode talking about communication needed between a Dom and submissive while navigating changes to a D/s dynamic to include poly relationships, adding new aspects to the D/s dynamic and working with a new sub...
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Season 2
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Episode 99
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35:12
98: Continued Growth as a Dom
Lady Dee starts with a quick update on her health and treatment. Then Master Nick dives into a listener’s requested topic on how to be a better DOM using recent discussions with friends to guide the episode. The discussion is how to be a good D...
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Season 2
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Episode 98
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43:17
97: Kinktasia 2025 Interviews
The DOM Life sets up at Kinktasia 2025 to talk to people in attendance, and they did not disappoint! Master Nick and Lady Dee were very happy to meet everyone and learn more about them. Poor Lady Dee had to leave early due to her injuries, but ...
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Season 2
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Episode 97
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49:36
96: The DOM Life Attends Kinktasia 2025 Part 2
In the second part of Kinktasia 2025, Master Nick leads the discussion on all things Day 2 at the event. He revisits Day 1 to explain how Eve Riot did an amazing but cringe-worthy performance using legos as a base for many of their intera...
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Season 2
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Episode 96
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36:36
95: The DOM Life Attends Kinktasia 2025 Part 1
In the beginning of this episode, Lady Dee gives an update on her health before Master Nick takes a moment to wish all the listeners a Happy Thanksgiving. This is the long awaited Kinktasia 2025 breakdown of events. Master Nick mentions the res...
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Season 2
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Episode 95
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34:45
94: BDSM-The Obscure & Unusual Part 2
Master Nick and Lady Dee continue to discuss some unusual and obscure fetishes and practices recognizing they are barely scratching the surface of this topic. Master Nick clarifies at the beginning of this episode that he had all the vari...
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Season 2
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Episode 94
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43:04
93: BDSM-The Obscure & Unusual Part 1
Master Nick & Lady Dee express their condolences to those impacted by the UPS tragedy which occurred in their community. Lady Dee provides a quick update on her health and healing. Then they remind listeners to come to Kinktasia and visit t...
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Season 2
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Episode 93
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41:24
92: Why Submissives Submit Part 2
Master Nick and Lady Dee continue their discussion on why submissive submit. Part II focuses on structure, tasks and rejecting tasks from a submissives perspective. Then looks at topping from the bottom, why it may be necessary, how Master Nick...
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Season 2
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Episode 92
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33:11
91: Why Submissives Submit Part 1
In this episode Lady Dee and Master Nick explore the reasons submissives submit or, in some cases, choose not to submit. What both situations can tell you about the submissive and why Dom’s should pay attention when a task is not completed as i...
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Season 2
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Episode 91
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33:42
90: The DOM Life Attends Indiana Kink & Leather
Master Nick and Lady Dee discuss their attendance at the Indiana Leather and Kink weekend in Indianapolis. Covering information on what Leather Clubs are, what classes and education they attended during the weekend, the vendors and produc...
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Season 2
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Episode 90
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59:28
89: When Outside Forces Impacts D/s Dynamics
Master Nick and Lady Dee had a very traumatic three weeks following an automobile wreck that injured Lady Dee with a variety of fractured bones (ribs, knee, pelvis, and vertebrae). Taking this opportunity, they recorded an episode on when outsi...
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Season 2
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Episode 89
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1:00:46