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Gathering Evidence for Joy: What if everything you’ve overcome is proof that what you desire is possible?

• Cori Taylor • Season 3 • Episode 33

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This week Sally and I are sitting down for another episode of our Summer Chat Girls series. 

We talked about the desires we have…the  ones that keep tugging at your hearts and how easy it is to convince ourselves they’re too far away, too unrealistic, or just “not for us.”

What if the evidence is already there?

What if you looked back and noticed all the moments you thought you weren’t going to make it… and somehow you did. All the prayers that were answered in ways you couldn’t have planned. All the little things you’ve received that you once wished for.

We talked about gratitude, trusting yourself, choosing from love instead of fear, and finding your way back to who you are underneath all the noise.

A conversation about joy, desire, trust, and remembering that life gets to feel nourishing too.

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SPEAKER_00

Hello and welcome back to Watch Sunsets with Me. I am Corey and I'm here with Sally. This is our Summer Chat Girls series.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, where we just talk about what it is like to be a woman in the world today and how to pack more joy in.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, because I think that's what we are all just wanting is real human connection, sitting down, talking to a friend. We're so tired of all the noise that we're stripping all away and we're bringing it back to just what it means to be a woman in the world today and how to find that joy and that magic in life again. Just very simple, fun, playful way. Okay, we are super excited for today's topic. Um, I guess more just today's chat, because we're just gonna chat about real life experiences from us and just connect with you guys on just that deeper level. Um, so we're going to talk today about creating evidence and looking for that evidence from past experiences that you didn't even realize once you looked back and you're like, oh my goodness, I didn't realize that that brought me here, that that helped me become who who I am. Um do you have anything to add with that, Sally?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, I think that um we hear the term manifesting gets thrown a lot around a lot, and people I think feel like it's too woo-woo or that's not something I believe in, or whatever. So it's like what you've prayed for, what you've wished for, what you've manifested. So finding evidence of things that you've already gotten that you wanted and using that to prove to yourself that the next thing you want is not out of your reach, it's meant for you to have.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, because I think we can get caught up in the well, I guess this isn't for me, like this isn't happening happening quick enough. But when we can look back and gather evidence of times where we had been in the same position, maybe and been like, this isn't for me, but we've shown up, we've shown up, we've put in the work, we kept going, and it's like, oh, but it happened, but you don't even realize it. Like you said, something you've been praying for, something you've been like hoping for. And maybe at the moment you didn't even realize that what you prayed for or wanted even like came forth because we're not even looking for the evidence because we're so focused on, you know, once again being like, Well, I don't have this and I don't have this and I don't have this, as opposed to looking for all the evidence of what you have been given. And so you can create that again.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, yes, and I think one way that we can start um noticing the evidence that's around us is um like a gratitude practice. Would you agree?

SPEAKER_00

Oh, definitely, definitely, and people I think brush off gratitude practices and they're like, oh my goodness, everybody talks about gratitude practices, but it's because one, they're very simple, you can do them anywhere, anytime, and two, they do actually work.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, yes, and I feel like it's one of those things that you can again, like I I don't want to be told that I'm gonna have to add a whole bunch of different things, but a gratitude practice can literally happen while you're driving to work or you know, while you're sitting in the doctor's office or you're doing the dishes, right? It doesn't have to be a formal thing, but like um go a little bit deeper than oh, I'm thankful that I have a roof over my head and I'm thankful for my family. Like really dig a little bit deeper, and then you start to notice like, wow, okay, so this is pretty cool, and and making the connection that this is something that I wanted, and maybe it didn't happen the first time I asked for it, so I kind of forgot that I wanted it, but this was something that I really wanted, and I got it.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, I I agree that we get so caught up in like the timeline or the wanting to control the outcome. Um, but I liked how you said go a little bit deeper than like just being like, okay, they said I should have a gratitude practice, so I'm thankful for my family and my house. And no, truly like go deeper into like what are you actually thankful for? Like what actually, when you truly think about it, really like brings back that fun, that magic, not just in your life, but that feeling in your body again. Cause I think we forget how that feels too, to actually feel that gratitude feeling in our body.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. And I think when you can get a little bit more specific with your gratitude, you're like, oh yeah. Like, for example, um, I could be thankful for my kids. Um, and I wanted, and I have a boy and a girl, and I wanted a boy and a girl, and I wanted two kids, and I wanted a boy and a girl. So that happened. So that's evidence. And I used to, I always say with my clients, um, have your bucket of evidence and keep adding things into your bucket. So that could be uh an item in my bucket that I have two kids, a boy and a girl. And then if I even go more specifically, when I used to play with dolls, I always wanted brown-eyed dolls because I thought brown eyes were so pretty, and I have two brown-eyed children. So there you go. There's another piece of evidence in my bucket. I think we were just talking, Corey, about um for a while I was visualizing this walking path with a bench on it in front of a lake. And I think about how nice it would be to live somewhere where there was a walking path around a lake, but thinking to myself, oh, well, I can't have that because that would be more expensive than where we live now, and we're not gonna move anytime soon. And how would that even happen? Well, you know, fast forward a year or so, and we had to move for my husband's job. We were still in the same area, but we had to move into a different county. And I was looking at all these rental houses that were really gross, and I was like, Oh gosh, I don't want to live there. And then I just happened upon this house that had a back porch looking out on a lake, and I was like, No way. And so we went to look at the house, and lo and behold, there's a bench by the walking path around the lake, and that is where we live now.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, that is definitely a add this to the bucket.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, yes, yeah, and it may not have happened, it wouldn't have happened if I planned it myself.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_01

Right. But you visualize what you want and you don't have to worry about how it's gonna happen or think, no, that's not gonna happen. You just start thinking about the things that you desire.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, and then you let it unfold organically because when we start getting in that controlling that, like, well, I gotta control this, so this will happen. It's going to feel once again, it's gonna take that like kind of like fun out of it. It's gonna feel overwhelming, and it's not going to it like that. Probably happened in a way that you like or like I couldn't even have written this better, like if I would have like wrote it myself.

SPEAKER_01

Right.

SPEAKER_00

But you basically did, but like, you know, like it was coinciding with you taking the action, you just holding the vision. And I can relate to that um because for so long I wanted like a friend that that like lived in this area that kind of had like the same values of as me, the same ideas. And so long I was like, okay, I want a friend like this, but sometimes I think what we do is we close ourselves off. I was closing myself off from friendship. I didn't feel comfortable with who I was at the time. I just wanted to like hide in my house. But how can I go and make those connections if I don't first open the door and just step outside? And so sometimes we have to take that first step too. We can't just be like, hey, I want this and I can see it clearly, and I'm gonna offer gratitude for it coming. But if we just sit there with all the doors closed and the windows shut, who knows if you just would have opened the door and stepped outside and a random person walks by, you say hi, you start chatting, and you form a friendship. And that's kind of how like my friendship formed that I had been like praying for for like three years of like, I want this. And I started, you know, being like, hey, I'm gonna open myself up more. I'm gonna open myself up more. And we just casually started talking. We have seen each other multiple times, but like it had to be that moment to where I was open and she was open for us to both go and then create this friendship.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, yes, and I remember learning, which I found so interesting, that the word desire means like from the king or from a father. And so what the things that you desire, those things that are deep down, you know, really guttural wanting, um, are meant for you. Yeah. For you, you were put in your soul because you were meant to have them, and all we have to do is trust fall and believe that they're there.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, which I think that's the hardest step of making all this happen, like to stepping forward, not making it happen, but just trusting that okay, when I step and I don't even know what the outcome's going to be because we don't have to worry about that, as long as we're holding the vision and we're stepping forward, it's going to come. If you desire it, it's meant to be.

SPEAKER_01

Right. So I think um what's been helpful for me, um I've had gone through a windy road with my career and my work and um just life in the last few years. And I feel like right now I'm in a space where I'm remembering all the things that have happened that I've wanted and leaning on that to go from here to where I want to go. Yes. Um just just taking those little baby steps um that are leading me into a place of more joy and just assuming that it's leading me to the place that I need to go for my work and for my life and for more joy.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, I like that. That's what's been very um good for me too, is looking back at all the times when I thought, you know, maybe like this isn't gonna work out, or I'm not gonna be able to do this, or how is this going to happen? And you look back and you're you're like, oh my goodness, it did. And more magical, more beautiful than I could even imagine. And who I became and remembered who I was along the way is part of the medicine and actually what we're craving. We don't just want the outcome, we want who we get to become on the journey to the outcome and on the journey of receiving because then it feels that much more good. If we were just like, I want this and it fell into our laps, boring.

SPEAKER_02

Right.

SPEAKER_00

We crave the journey, we crave the like stepping into the unknown and letting it unfold in this beautiful magical way that yes, sometimes the journey is hard, but we want that. We want the yumminess of this life.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, it's like the push and pull, right? Like um they say two of the six basic human needs are certainty and uncertainty. Yes, right. So we we get into that mode where we're trying to control, we we decide what we want, and then we try to control everything externally to make it happen, and it doesn't happen, and we wonder why it's not happening because we need to relax and let it happen. Yes, take steps toward it, but don't worry about how it's gonna happen because it's gonna happen better than you thought it could. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

And I think it's looking back at that evidence of actually how powerful you are, that in moments that probably you're like, this is breaking me, this is breaking me, but here you are on the other side, like you are very powerful to take the step and be able to you have it within you to know how to adjust and to know how to like this isn't like just because you took the step doesn't mean it's set in stone either. But you can be like, oh, this actually isn't feeling like I thought. Guess what? You can choose again and you can like make adjustments, but we forget that we're actually like powerful and we have made it through so many things up to this point, and so you will get there, and you get to choose toward a path of joy, yeah, right?

SPEAKER_01

Yes, you don't have to choose what we feel like we should do, we get to choose what feels like it's on the way to happiness because that's where we're supposed to go.

SPEAKER_00

Exactly. Yeah, it's not we don't have to be like, okay, I guess I have to just keep choosing survival mode, I just have to keep feeling miserable. You can start with these little things that go that are going to allow you to feel that joy again.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, yeah. So I think um for me in the space where I am right now, I'm in a a job that I would like to exit. And so I'm manifesting the ways that I'm I'm noticing, right? Like we've talked about before, I'm noticing what feels good and what doesn't feel good, and I'm deciding what I want more of and what I want less of. And I'm moving toward, I'm doing things such as this podcast, um, such as my workouts right now, such as the the book that I'm in. I'm doing things moving toward the feeling that I want. And I'm assuming that that's going to lead me to the path that I need to be on.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, I think that you just hit it like right the now, right there, because that's it. It's are we choosing things and doing things that are gonna nourish us to get us to where we want to go? Or are we still like, well, no, I'll just keep doing this, but I want this, but I'm gonna keep doing this.

SPEAKER_01

Right.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. Because it's the whole thing, like, you can't get the ball rolling unless you start pushing the ball. Like it will literally just sit there. You have to go and start taking steps forward, or you're just going to stay where you're at, and it's going to start feeling more and more overwhelming because, like you talked about with desire, it's calling to us for a reason. And the more we try and like push that down, down and numb it, it's going to start screaming, and it's going to be this battle almost of like two identities of like, well, I feel like this is my soul, my desire. And but you're like, but I'm just going to keep operating here.

SPEAKER_01

Right. This is this is the safe choice, or this is what everything everyone thinks I should do. So I should just stay here when your soul is screaming for you to do something differently. So then I think that's where that anxiety and the, like we talked about, the the fear, the fearful, the choices from fear versus the choices from love, right? So the choices from love are um what feels nourishing and the choices from fear, well, this is what I should do, or this is what everyone tells me to do, or um, I can't really listen to that call that I feel because I won't make any money, or I, you know, my family might think I'm weird, or my friends won't accept it, or whatever that, whatever that fear is. Um, if we're moving toward the fearful choice, we're always moving away from our soul.

SPEAKER_00

Exactly. I think a beautiful question is kind of like where are you blindly accepting beliefs? Like, where are you just like, I'll just accept this? Like, where am I just like closing myself off and just accepting this? And what would actually happen when you choose like a different, we've talked about this in our past two episodes, a different thought and then a different response, a different meaning, a different action. Your life gets to become like this laboratory, this like fun little thing of like, ooh, this doesn't feel good. Oh, how is oh, okay, this is where this is where I'm supposed to be headed. It doesn't have to be this so rigid, controlled thing. It gets to be this playful fun of like, oh, this is nourishing. Now I know what nourishment feels like. And I can how much can you remember that feeling in your body of what nourishment feels like? So you know when, oh, this is not nourishing and I'm gonna start looping here. So how can I come back to the nourishment?

SPEAKER_01

Right. And I think we've both felt that way in um our business ventures too, right? Like I I'm making these choices because I feel like this is what um people want me to say, or this is what this coach is telling me to say versus what I actually want to say, and then you're overthinking it, so you're all up in your head and you're not really listening to what what you want, what your desire is, right? So you're you're operating again out of fear instead of love, and then that just makes everything feel hard and obligatory and gross, yeah, versus fun. And then, like, what am I what do I have a business for if I'm not having any fun with it? Like, what is the point of that, right?

SPEAKER_00

Exactly. And I think that goes too with like we both have been in like the fitness wellness community of what is the point of going and trying to control your body and force it into this way if it's not fun and actually feels nourishing. And the whole like observing creates that space. We've we talked about this, you know, with noticing and observing, it creates space, and inside that space lives your freedom to choose.

SPEAKER_01

Yes.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. I've I think a big one I think a lot of women can relate to is like, you know, your your body image and your like, well, I want to look this way, and I'm gonna try and hate myself this way and control myself this way, and micromanage everything, and I feel crappier than when I was just like living my life. So what's going on? Because I thought that this was supposed to feel different. And it's that whole, like, we're doing this out of that fear versus love. We're not nourishing ourselves in this way that we were actually wanting. We were like, okay, I gotta just control and micromanage and fear and hate my body and punish her more. And it's like, no, there can be space to breathe and to find joy in the movement, in the workout, in in all of that.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. And like you were talking about before, like you maybe you need to step out of your comfort zone. Like maybe you are saying, Well, I don't like, I hate exercising. That's cool. You don't have to exercise the way you see other people exercising. But you may have to step a little bit out of your comfort zone and like you know, decide that you're gonna start doing some some sort of movement. Yeah. Or you're you're going to decide that you're gonna step out of your comfort zone with your what you're consuming. And and that could be your food, that could be your content that you're watching. Yeah, you know, if you're watching a lot of content that makes you hate your body, like maybe you reconsider what you're consuming from social media and from TV and all of those things, too.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, I agree totally. Of what we are taking in is going to affect how we're seeing ourselves, like social media. What are you viewing? What's the first thing you're doing in the morning and viewing, and how are you like viewing your body? And then I love how you said you are you are gonna have to get out of your comfort zone. And I think sometimes we can revert to, well, I just hate that because it's scary and new, as opposed to okay, do I actually hate this, or is it scary and new? But it's easier for me to be like, I hate that and I can never do that, as opposed to like we talked about, try it. You can always adjust, you're like, oh, this form of movement actually is not for me, but I found that I love this form of movement.

SPEAKER_01

Right.

SPEAKER_00

And so this is how I'm gonna nourish my body through movement. Like it doesn't have to be this or this. It literally can be this and this. Like you can blend it, yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Right, right. You can make it your own, right? Because what is meant for you is what you desire. So, like what You get to decide what feels good and what doesn't feel good and decide what you want more of and move in that direction.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, exactly. We don't have to just be like, okay, I guess I said this, so I'm I guess I'll just go here and I'm hating it and I'm hating it, I'm hating it. No, you get to tune into what you're desiring and look back at your evidence of every time you're like, I desire this, and how I don't even know how this is gonna happen. And it happened, you we we all have evidence. And I like we talked, we started this podcast with how long has it been since you truly sat down, looked back at all the things of the goodness, the evidence of everything you've gone through and you made it, and the gratitude on that, and then just the gratitude, just like we said, in your everyday. Like, how long has that been since you truly are like, wow, I'm thankful that like I get my daughter, she says she wakes up every day and she's like, I'm so thankful that I get to be in this body and I get to breathe the air and I get to experience life in it. Like that's something that's where it's like when you really bring it down to like, oh wow, I'm experiencing life in this body that I have been given. What a gift! How beautiful is it that I get to go feel the air in my skin and the warmth of the sun and hear my kids laugh. It's like dang, it's all around.

SPEAKER_01

Right, right. Yeah, and and like we talked about, it doesn't have to be like you don't have to journal about it for an hour. No, just notice it. Notice what's what's good and right with your life and what you would like more of, and just make a a conscious effort to take a step in that direction.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, no, I love that. Notice what's good, what feels right, what feels nourishing. That's all about coming back in tune with who you are, remembering who you are, yes, underneath all the noise, and then just it doesn't have to be this huge step. Like we said, right? Literally, you could be sitting outside and come back for a moment into your body and into the moment, be like, I'm very present in here and I'm thankful for this moment.

SPEAKER_02

Yes.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, just try how that feels, even just like right now, of like you probably have a lot of noise going on, taking like a deep breath, like, and just be like, okay, what can I notice right here in this moment that I'm actually thankful for? It doesn't have to be anything big, it literally could be I can feel my heart beating. Yeah, I can hear my kids laughing. My favorite songs, did you even notice maybe your favorite songs playing in the background? You know, right? Just like that. I got to see my mom today, just little things that we don't even realize that are building evidence of the goodness all around, and that our desires are meant for us, right?

SPEAKER_01

And and notice making that connection between what we're grateful for is what we wanted that we got, and how how can we get more of what makes us feel this grateful?

SPEAKER_00

Yes, yeah, I think it's switching out of that autopilot, yeah, and into this actually noticing your life, like our very first summer series episode. Are you noticing and tracking what's going on? Do you even have awareness of that? And then once you do, where are you living in that fear, the same worries, the same fears, the same emotional patterns day after day, year after year, and wondering why nothing has changed? And where can you start truly getting honest with what you desire? I think honesty is the hardest part. Truly honest with what you desire and start taking just that little step of I desire this, so I'm gonna take this little step towards it and just trust.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Like we talked about, we need that new evidence. We have that past evidence, but we want to start gathering new evidence too of new experiences, new conversations, new environments, new choices, new stories. Of oh my goodness, I didn't even know that this was possible. But you can't when you locked yourself away and you close everything off, and you're just like, okay, I hope it gets better.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah. So I think it would be really cool to hear from any of our listeners like, what is some of the evidence in your bucket of things that have gone right? And what do you want more of?

SPEAKER_00

Yeah. And don't be afraid to call say what you want more of. I think, yeah, especially as women, it's like, well, if I say this, I sound like I'm like too like needy and I'm selfish, and like I should just be pouring into everybody else. But when we we've talked about this, when we're pouring from depletion, and when we're trying to like help every, we actually are doing a disservice. This is my view, to those that we love when we keep walking around in depletion because they're not getting the fullest, most alive, most energetic version of us. And it's not saying that it has to look every day you have to be like, hey, I'm 100%, but it's every day are you just showing up fully in who you are? I think that's what it is. Not just like everybody has to be like, oh my gosh, oh my gosh, oh my gosh, life's amazing. It's am I fully showing up in the embodiment of who I actually am? And do I know her?

SPEAKER_01

Yes, yes, yeah.

SPEAKER_00

So I think that would be no, go ahead.

SPEAKER_01

I I was just gonna say that's it. That's like if we're it's all everything that we're saying is on the same path. If we're making decisions from love, we're moving closer to who we are. If we're um making decisions to move toward our desire, we're moving closer to who we are. If we're um fully present with our people, we're moving closer to who we are. And and that constant journey toward who we actually are just makes the joy multiply.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, yes, because I do not believe we were down here to stay looping and suffering. We're meant to experiencing things that help us build trust and remember who we are. And we're not saying this journey is easy. We're gonna share our stories, some parts of our stories on some upcoming episodes of our journey to where we have gone to this point, because it hasn't been easy. We're not here sitting here being like, it's easy and just do it. Like, come on, guys. No, it does take a lot of truly noticing yourself, truly taking these steps, even when everything in you is like, I can't. But like we just talked about, you have evidence of when you did. Yes, yeah, and so it's it's that whole noticing, like we talked about, noticing, tracking what was I feeling, what do I want to start feeling, what do what am I actually desiring? Get really real and honest. It it doesn't matter if it's like this sounds so silly. I desire more play in my life, I want to have more play. So, what am I doing? I'm gonna play in the mud with my four-year-old. Am I 41 and I'm playing in the mud with my four-year-old and I'm covered in mud? I don't care. It's fun and it's playful, and that's what I desire.

SPEAKER_01

Right. Because that's what makes you who you are.

SPEAKER_00

Exactly. Where are you pinching yourself off from who you actually are? Right. Because you think it'd be more pleasing to everybody else, right?

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, or more acceptable, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, this is some yumminess. Yes, definitely what my heart needed.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, and I think it's a good reminder for all of us, no matter where you are on your journey, to just notice the journey and and you know, you have the choice of which direction you want to go.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, and I think sometimes that's the hardest pill to swallow is wait, I have a choice here. And what have I been choosing?

SPEAKER_01

Right, right.

SPEAKER_00

Because I think more than anything, what we want to kind of like help you guys create is more presence and more play in the journey of remembering who you are, and a life that you don't feel like you constantly have to like keep escaping from.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, yeah, a life that you're excited to live.

SPEAKER_00

Yeah, a life that you're like, oh my goodness, even though this moment is ripping me apart, what a beautiful journey this is. Yeah, yeah. All right, Sally, do you have anything else that you want to add or you want to say to all the beautiful women that we get to connect with through this?

SPEAKER_01

I would just love to hear um what's what evidence is in your bucket and what you want more of. I'm I'm really interested because I would be willing to bet there are a lot of parallels, uh similarities.

SPEAKER_00

I agree a thousand percent. I think when we can start actually sharing what's on our hearts and not sharing from this fear of this performance, we'll realize oh my goodness, look how like connected we actually are. Look, yeah, look at this like beautiful connection and this like woman's circle that we're like building. And we're more connected than we think. And I would also love to hear those. So please come share them with us. Um, let us know what you thought about this episode. And we would love to actually just like maybe even share some of them on next week's podcast. Um, if you guys are like cool with that, just like here's like some of the evidence and here's some of the things that women have like noticed and what they desire, and even share them on like our social media pages just so we could actually start supporting each other in a way that I feel like we truly need.

SPEAKER_01

Yeah, start building that community. Yes, and thank you for listening.

SPEAKER_00

Yes, thank you, thank you always for listening. We really appreciate you guys. We might not know each other physically, but I feel like we're energetically connected and that we truly see you all as our friends.

SPEAKER_01

Yes, yeah.

SPEAKER_00

Okay, does that sound does that does this feel complete?

SPEAKER_01

Yes, same. I feel complete.

SPEAKER_00

Same. This was a beautiful, beautiful episode. All right, thank you so much for listening. Um, we love you guys. You guys are love beyond words. Um, go. Um, my Instagram is Cory.taylor, and I also have Watch Sunsets with me, the podcast Instagram. And then what's yours, Sally?

SPEAKER_01

Mine is happy ripples coaching.

SPEAKER_00

Perfect. So you guys can find us on there. Please come connect with us, message us. Um, but yeah, thank you for listening and you guys are love beyond words and have a beautiful, beautiful day.