Are we living with the consequences of the leaders we’ve shaped—or failed to shape?Have you ever wondered why toxic conflict lingers in churches, even after a problem person is gone?Could your family background be silently shapi...

Why is transition to new elders sometimes difficult, especially when a preacher has been with a church for decades?Why is a preacher often surprised when he is suddenly dismissed and he has a contract?Here's a method I discovere...

How does a preacher decide to move to another church. How does he choose the church where he will work? What are the things he looks for to make that decision?I can't answer for other preachers, but several years ago, I made a detailed ...

Have you noticed that different families have different rules? Did your mother and father have different rules? Did you know who to ask to get what you wanted? Did you think your family had the best rules, or did you ...

What do you do when you are speechless?What do you do when someone tells you that you look weird?Do you do whatever they say to make you look unweird?Criticism Rule ...