These Are The Gays Of Our Lives
Drew and Sarah are college friends who share a love of pop culture from 80s music, old Hollywood movies, iconic closeted characters, and campy TV shows. Countless LGBTQ+ stories remain hidden in history, but deserve to be in the spotlight. Drew and Sarah explore the memorable and the not-so-well-known LGBTQ+ people that influenced both their lives and society. Peppered in every story are their hot takes and sass. Listen in, learn, and laugh along as they humorously and affectionately tell the life stories of the many gays of our lives.
Episodes
50 episodes
47: FASHION DESIGNERS: Halston & Karl Lagerfeld
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the dramatic lives of fashion designers, particularly focusing on the cultural impact of the 80s and the evolution of fashion trends. They delve into the life of iconic fashion designer Halston, reflectin...
46: FASHION DESIGNERS: Orry-Kelly And Bob Mackie
Explore the fascinating history of LGBTQ+ icons, fashion designers, and hidden stories from the past, revealing how history and culture intertwine in surprising ways. Explore the fascinating life and work of Ori Kelly, Hollywood's legendary cos...
45: WRITERS: Nathaniel Hawthorne/Herman Melville & Abdellah Taïa
In this episode, we explore the fascinating lives and works of authors like Nathaniel Hawthorne, Herman Melville, and Moroccan writer Abdullah Taya. We delve into their personal stories, literary contributions, and the cultural contexts that sh...
ENCORE! Celebrate Billie Jean King And Wimbledon
A relaunch of one of our favorite episodes! Everyone should know about this woman and all she accomplished.
43: WRITERS: Sappho And Fannie Flagg
Drew and Sarah are covering more authors, so buckle up-- we know what "the creative types" are like. Sarah learned what little there is to know on Sappho and Drew discussed Fannie Flagg- watch Match Game 74 to see how awesome she is! Sour...
42: WRITERS: Rita Mae Brown And Mercedes de Acosta
This episode explores the fascinating world of LGBTQ+ writers and their unique, often eccentric personalities. From historical figures like Mercedes de Acosta, discover how her creativity and social circles shaped her life. Explore ...
41: Old Hollywood: Jean Acker And Laurence Olivier
Explore the fascinating lives of early Hollywood icons Jean Acker and Laurence Olivier, uncovering hidden histories, LGBTQ+ stories, and the evolution of Hollywood's portrayal of sexuality and identity. We are delving into their careers, person...
40: Old Hollywood: Vincent Price And William Haines
Explore the hidden histories of Hollywood's LGBTQ+ icons, their lives, and societal challenges. Discover fascinating stories of old Hollywood stars and their impact on culture and visibility. This episode explores the fascinating lives of Holly...
39: Old Hollywood: Tallulah Bankhead And Cesar Romero
Sarah and Drew return to old Hollywood, their favorite genre, to discuss two amazing actors. Tallulah Bankhead and Cesar Romero were full of personality, charm, wit and talent. They enteratined people for most of their lives, which were full of...
39: Movie Series: The Long, Long Trailer
Drew and Sarah watched the classic movie The Long, Long Trailer. The movie stars real life couple, Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz. Made during the height of I Love Lucy, it was directed by gay masterpiece Vincente Minnelli. As you know, he created...
38: Movie Series: Waiting For Guffman
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore various movies with LGBTQ+ connections, focusing on the significance of representation in media. They discuss characters like Joe Polnicek from 'Facts of Life' and Corky St. Clair from 'Waiting for Guffma...
37: Movies Series: What's Up, Doc?
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the intersection of LGBTQ history and film, focusing on the significance of the movie 'What's Up Doc.' They discuss the cultural implications of media representation, the impact of HIV criminalization law...
36: Movies Series: Christmas Special : Batman Returns
Drew and Sarah discuss the 1992 Batman sequel, Batman Returns. Michael Keaton returns as Batman, Danny DeVito is the handsome Penguin, and Michelle Pfeiffer stars as the iconic Catwoman. Drew and Sarah discuss the LGTBQ+ themes that some of the...
36: Movies Series Christmas Special: Batman Returns (1992)
Drew and Sarah watch an alternate Christmas movie Batman Returns. Michael Keaton returns as Batman, Danny DeVito plays The Penguin and Michelle Pfeiffer stars as the iconic Catwoman. LGTBQ+ themes are present in this movie and certain ...
35: Movies Series: My Favorite Wife (1940)
Drew and Sarah watch My Favorite Wife and break it down for you. It stars real life lovers Cary Grant and Randolph Scott. It's comedy, romance, farce and GAY!
34: Movies Series: Xanadu!!
Remember that movie, Xanadu? Of course you do! Drew and Sarah retell this magic tale of 80's love, singing, dancing and rollerskates. Were the writers high? Probably.
Special Crossover Episode From It's Always The Husband!
Drew filled in for Megan from "It's Always The Husband" and recorded some true crime with Sarah. From the show Deadly Women this is a story about Alice Mitchell and Freda Ward. It's love turned into obsession in a time when th...
3: Athletes: John Curry and Glenn Burke.
This conversation explores the lives of two groundbreaking LGBTQ athletes, John Curry and Glenn Burke. John Curry, a figure skater, faced the challenges of fame and identity while navigating the world of competitive skating. His innovativ...
32: Athletes: Billie Jean King
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the world of extreme athletes, focusing on LGBTQ representation in sports. They introduce a segment called 'Hey, That's Kind of Gay', where they discuss media and observations related to LGBTQ culture. Th...
31: Encore Of Cary Grant
Listen all over again to Drew and Sarah discuss legendary actor and lover Cary Grant.
30: Athletes: Leo Baker And Renee Richards
In this episode, Drew and Sarah explore the intersection of athletics and LGBTQ identity, discussing their own experiences with sports and the representation of LGBTQ individuals in media. They delve into the story of Renee Richards, a transgen...
29: Athletes: Greg Louganis And Hobey Baker
In this episode, Drew and Sarah explore the intersection of sports and LGBTQ history, focusing on notable athletes and cultural moments. .' The conversation highlights Hobey Baker, a pioneering figure in American sports, whose legacy continues ...
28: One Year Anniversary Special!
We made it one year! How time flies!In this episode, Drew and Sarah go over old episode and add any new information or information that didn't make it to the shows. We share more stories and interesting tidbits about the fascinating peop...
27: Author Series: Gertrude Stein And Michael Dillion
In this episode, Sarah and Drew explore the lives and legacies of influential LGBTQ+ writers and figures, including Audre Lorde and Gertrude Stein. They discuss media representation in films like Jaws 3D, celebrate Tom Daley's new swimwear line...
26: Author Series: Audre Lorde And Hans Christian Andersen
*Last 5 minutes, Drew's voice disappears! You will just hear Sarah's nonsense. We will fix it for next time*Join Drew and Sarah as they dive into the fascinating world of LGBTQ+ authors in their ongoing Writers Series. Th...