Hey Tabi!
Welcome to "Hey Tabi!" the podcast where we talk about the hard things out loud, with our actual lips. We'll cover all kinds of topics across the mental health spectrum, including how it intersects with the Christian faith. Nothing is off limits here & we are not "take-two-verses-and-call-me-in-the-morning."
I'm Tabitha Westbrook & I'm a licensed trauma therapist (but I'm not your trauma therapist). I'm an expert in domestic abuse & coercive control & how complex trauma impacts our health & well-being. Our focus here is knowledge & healing - trauma doesn't have to eat your lunch forever. There is hope! Now, let's get going!
How to connect:
https://www.tabithawestbrook.com/
Therapy Website: (We are able to see clients in NC & TX)
https://thejourneyandtheprocess.com/
Instagram:
@tabithathecounselor
@_tjatp
Disclaimer: This podcast is not therapy & is for informational purposes only. If you need therapy I encourage you to find an awesome therapist licensed where you are that can help you out!!
Hey Tabi!
Latest Episodes
Sex Addiction & Betrayal Trauma: What Partners Need to Know
What happens when sexual betrayal shatters your sense of safety and why were betrayed partners once labeled “co-addicts”?Tabitha sits down with Dr. Barbara Steffens, a pioneer in the field of betrayal trauma whose groundbreaking research...
Hyper-Independence Isn’t Freedom: Why You Struggle to Ask for Help
Hyper-independence can look like strength from the outside. You handle the crisis, solve the problem, take care of everyone else, and rarely ask for help. But what happens when “I’ve got it” stops being a choice and becomes the only option that...
Deciding Without Certainty: Moving Forward When Afraid
What if you have to make a life-changing decision—but you’re terrified that whatever you choose will make things worse?For survivors of coercive control, decision-making can feel almost impossible. After years of being punished, criticiz...
Why Men Men Need the Lover—and Women Need the Warrior
What if men and women were never meant to choose between being a warrior and being a lover?In this episode of Hey Tabi, Tabitha welcomes back trauma therapist and author Sam Jolman for a powerful conversation about masculinity, femininit...
The PTSD Symptoms Nobody Talks About
PTSD symptoms don’t always look like flashbacks—these overlooked trauma responses can affect nearly every part of life.What if some of the things you criticize yourself for are actually trauma responses that once helped you survive?<...