Podcast 79: Success Took Your Love Life — Here’s How to Take It Back

You’ve built the career, the income, and the life others admire — but somewhere along the way, success quietly stole your love life. 

In this episode, I reveal the two surprising reasons high-achieving women are the least likely to get help in love… and the exact steps to take it back.

💙 Special for podcast listeners: Be one of the first 10 women to join my Kingdom Bride Unlocked course this week and you’ll get a bonus private coaching call with me to tailor everything you learn to your unique love story. 

Two spots are already gone — just eight left.

⏳ Offer ends Saturday, August 16, 2025 at midnight PT.
👉 Enroll now: Kingdom Bride Unlocked + Bonus Call

Transcript

Michelle Joiner (00:00)
Hey, hey sis, last time we talked about what success may have taken from you and how you can take it back. But there's another layer I didn't say and it's too important to leave out. For many women I coached, success doesn't just take something from you.

It distracts you from something. It becomes like a numbing agent. It's the one arena where you feel in control.

You know how to crush a deadline. You know how to land the promotion. You know how to close the deal. And after a while, you find yourself camping out in that world because it feels so good to win there. Meanwhile, your love life feels like the complete opposite. You're used to feeling powerful and capable. So walking into an arena,

where you don't feel like you are winning, where things feel unpredictable, nope, it's easier to stay where you shine. And here's the wild part. The women who are the most successful in their careers are often the least likely to get help in their love life. Not because they don't want love, not because they don't believe in mentorship, but because of two big reasons.

Number one, they've built something solid, something they don't want to risk. The thought of opening their heart potentially attaching themselves to the wrong man feels like a threat to everything they've built. Number two, they're addicted to winning. And if they don't see themselves winning in love,

they'd rather just avoid the game altogether. So they tell themselves, I'm fine, I'm content. And if that were truly the case, I'd be the first to cheer you on. But deep down, most women aren't actually content. They're just avoiding the discomfort. They're avoiding the humility it takes to admit,

I'm not as successful in love as I want to be. They're avoiding the courage it takes to say, I'm ready to learn something new. And here's what I want to say to you, sis. What if you could be amazing in all of it? Not just your career, not just your finances, not just your fitness, but in your love life too.

What if you could walk into your home, your church, your friend group, knowing you've built the full life you desire, including a marriage that lights you up? This might require laying down your armor for a minute. It might require letting yourself be guided, mentored, and taught, but I promise you it's worth it.

You can have this too, sis. And because I want you to have it, I'm doing something just for my podcast listeners this week. Right here in this space, I'm opening a door just for you. For the first 10 women who enroll in my Kingdom Bride Unlocked course, you're gonna get a private one-on-one coaching call with me.

as a bonus, just you and me, taking everything in the course and tailoring it to your life so you can create real success in love. Two women have already claimed their spots, so there are only eight bonus calls left. Now, if you've been wanting to make a change in your love life, but my full private coaching package isn't for you, maybe because you don't have time to commit,

to multiple Zoom calls each month, or you prefer to work at your own pace, this course is exactly what I designed for you. It contains the exact secrets I teach my private clients, the same ones that have helped women meet, date, and marry godly husbands, but in a self-paced format you can move through on your own time. It is built around my four Cs,

Framework, confidence, so you radiate certainty that marriage is your destiny and that you're a magnet for godly men. Connection, so you draw in high value compatible men who want to pursue and commit online, yes, and in real life off the apps. Communication, so you can express yourself and your standards with clarity, warmth.

and in a language that shows him in, you get him like no one else. Chemistry. So you know how to create that spark and electricity while honoring God. If that's what you want, confidence, connection, communication, chemistry, then you should be inside this course. And when you add the bonus coaching call, we'll take what you're learning and bring it to life.

customize your dating strategy, refine your dating app profile, your photos, your messaging, everything so that you're not just learning, you're implementing and seeing results. This course has already changed lives. Mari reached out to me this past Thanksgiving saying that she was decorating the church because she was getting married that Saturday to an amazing, godly man. She had bought the course the previous Thanksgiving.

and was now on her way to her wedding. Another client took the course, met her husband, and she got married this past February and is now pregnant with their first baby. These women didn't just hope for change, they took action. If you know that this course would serve you, bless you, and give you the tools to build the love that you've been praying for, then be one of the first

10 women to grab it this week and secure your bonus call. To get the bonus, you must enroll using the link in the show notes. If you go to my website directly, the bonus won't be attached. This link is live until Saturday, August 16th, 2025 at midnight Pacific time. And after that, it disappears. Sis, don't keep letting success in one area.

distract you from lack in another. You deserve to be fulfilled in all of it. Click the link in the show notes now and roll in Kingdom Bride Unlocked to the course and let's get you married, sis.