The Christian Dating Coach
Most single Christian women feel quietly trapped between two unsatisfying extremes.
On one side, silence —
Pray. Wait. Don’t want it too much.
On the other, overexposure —
crude, transactional,
disconnected from God.
This podcast exists because there is a third way —
one that is intelligent, reverent, and real.
And one that actually leads to marriage.
We don’t offer scripts.
We tell the truth.
About singleness and marriage.
About covenant sex and holiness.
About what draws men and women together — spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
We also pull back the curtain on the systems shaping modern dating.
This is for women who are no longer interested in vague advice —
and are ready for wisdom, direction, and marriage.
Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating coach who works privately with women to move from singleness into marriage through high-level positioning and discernment.
If you’re ready to be seen clearly — and marry well —
you’re in the right place.
Apply for private mentorship at:
www.thechristiandatingcoach.com
Episodes
108 episodes
Ep. 108: The Man You Want Has Already Met You
Many extraordinary women quietly come to the same painful conclusion:The kind of man I want must not exist.But what if that isn’t true?What if the man you want has already crossed your path… and simply didn’...
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Ep. 107: You Can Buy Roses. You Can’t Buy This.
Real love isn’t roses. It isn’t candlelight dinners. It isn’t Instagram.It’s quieter than that.It’s someone doing the dishes. Jazz in the kitchen. Being chosen on an ordinary Tuesday night.<...
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Ep. 106: Something Has Changed
Most single Christian women feel quietly trapped between two unsatisfying extremes.On one side, church silence and simplification — Pray. Wait. Don’t think too much.On the other, secular overexposure — c...
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Ep. 105: Is Surrendering This Desire to God Keeping You Single?
Is surrender keeping you stuck? You might be surprised. If marriage is a holy desire God placed inside you, then it’s time to treat it like the calling (and priority) it is. Your husband is real. Your story is written. The only thin...
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Ep. 104: Stop Waiting to Be Chosen — Give Yourself What You Want
What if the only thing standing between you and your godly husband… is you? In this episode, Michelle delivers the truth that changes everything for single Christian women: the women who get married don’t wait to be chosen—they...
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Ep. 103: Relationship 101: Purpose — 3 Steps That Get You Engaged Faster
You don’t need a complicated plan to build a relationship that actually leads to marriage—you need purpose. In today’s finale of Relationship 101, I share the simple framework my clients use to go from “this is good” to “we’re engaged” in month...
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Ep. 102: Relationship 101: Problems – Don’t Let Them Cost You a Godly Man
Even the best, most godly men will come with problems. Not red flags… just real life, two humans learning how to love. But here’s the truth no one tells you: it’s not the problems that end most love stories — it’s the way we respond to...
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Ep. 101: Relationship 101: Pleasure — Holy Sizzle That Leads to Marriage
High-caliber, godly men are all around you. If they’re not proposing, it’s because you don’t know this secret: they want to feel pleasure — holy pleasure.Do you feel like pleasure is off-limits as a Christian wom...
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Ep. 100: The 4 Heart Postures of My Clients Who Marry High-Caliber Men
After 100 episodes, hundreds of coaching calls, and more weddings than she ever imagined, Michelle has seen the pattern — the women who get married think, believe, and show up differently.In this milestone episode, she reveals t...
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Ep. 99: Behind the Scenes: So Much Love Is in the Air. Are You Ready for It Too?
Love is in the air—holy, romantic, life-changing love. 💙In this short behind-the-scenes update, Michelle shares what’s been happening inside the Kingdom Bride Unlocked coaching program and in her own home.Clients who onc...
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Ep. 98: Mind Reading Isn’t Love — Learn to Speak His Language
If you’ve ever wished a man could just know what you need — this episode is for you.In “Mind Reading Isn’t Love — Learn to Speak His Language,” Christian dating coach Michelle Joiner reveals the secret to creating real connection...
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Ep: 97 Your Thoughts Create Your Results — and Some Thoughts Will Keep You Single
What if the biggest thing keeping you single isn’t your circumstances… but your thoughts?In this episode, Michelle breaks down the biblical and practical truth that your thoughts don’t just describe your life — they create
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Ep. 96 Crazy Things Christian Singles Hear
You know what’s crazy? The things Christian singles get told. “Just be content.” “Jesus should be enough for you.” “It’ll happen when you least expect it.”We’ve all heard them — the clichés that sound holy but secretly make ...
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Ep. 95 Shocking Words from My Dating Coach That Will Encourage and Heal You
I had to stop recording this episode three times because I couldn’t stop crying.This might be the most important message I’ve ever shared on the podcast — and yes, it’s marked explicit, because there was no other way to say it.In ...
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Ep. 94: A Kiss in Time for New Year's
Imagine walking into the holidays with more than just another lonely year behind you… imagine a man by your side, a best friend, a partner who adores you — and a kiss in time for New Year’s.This episode will show you why it hasn’t happen...
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Ep. 93: Ask the Guys Interview – “Why He Hasn’t Asked You Out”
You asked to hear from Caleb again—and this time he’s joined by two of his friends for an unfiltered, faith-filled conversation about dating and marriage. In this special extended episode, the guys share what really goes on in a man’s mind:...
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Ep.92: This is How I Created the Chemistry That Won Caleb
Last episode, you heard from Caleb, his side of our love story—how we met, what drew him in, and what made him commit. But what if I told you there’s a reason behind the chemistry he kept describing? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtai...
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Ep. 91: How We Met & Why He Chose Me: An Interview with My Husband
It's Caleb's birthday today, and in this special episode, he's joining Michelle to share his unfiltered journey—what it was like being single, using dating apps, and wondering if the right woman was even out there. He reveals what c...
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Ep. 90: Dating App Photos That Make Him Commit
Dating apps are brutally visual — and low-quality photos are the #1 reason amazing women are being overlooked online.In this episode, Michelle unpacks why photos matter more than your bio, what rules to follow if you want to attr...
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Ep. 89: The Secret to Feeling Beautiful — What Men Really Think
Every woman wonders: what do men really think about beauty? In this episode, Michelle reveals the secret to feeling beautiful—not by chasing perfection, but by aligning with God’s definition of beauty and your own. You’ll h...
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Ep. 88: The Four Truths That Will Get You Married Faster
In this powerful episode, Michelle Joiner reveals The Four Truths That Will Get You Married Faster—truths no one ever told you about why you’re still single and how to break free from the cycle of delay.With raw honesty, biblica...
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Ep. 87: How to Speak the Language of High-Value Men
The godly, marriage-minded man you’re praying for? He speaks a certain language. A King’s Language. If you don’t know how to speak it, you’ll get stuck in friend-zone conversations that go nowhere.In this episode, I’ll show you the three...
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Ep. 86: Kingdom Bride Series — Sarah: The Kingdom Marriage You’ve Longed For
It’s one thing to attract a man. It’s another to captivate him. But God’s design is bigger than attraction — His vision is Kingdom Marriage.In this final episode of the Kingdom Bride Series, we turn to Sarah, covenant partner of...
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Ep. 85: Kingdom Bride Series — Solomon’s Beloved: The Mystery of Passion + Purity
The Shulammite woman’s romance with King Solomon is one of the most passionate love stories in Scripture — filled with desire 🔥, longing, and covenant promise 🙏. Her story reveals a mystery: passion and purity aren’t opposites. They’re meant to...
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Ep. 84: Kingdom Bride Series — Esther: The Secret to Captivating a King
Esther didn’t win her crown by chance. She carried wisdom, guidance, and a secret that set her apart — a secret that captivated the most powerful man in her world.In this episode of the Kingdom Bride Series, discover Esther’s secret to f...
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