Menopause, Melanin & Aging Like A Queen

Episode 97 - The Universe Is Testing You — What I Learned When Everything Was Going Right (And Then It Wasn't)

Samantha Montpetit-Huynh

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You know that feeling when everything is finally clicking? The work is landing, the opportunities are flowing, and for the first time in a long time you think — okay, this is it. And then something hits you sideways and your brain goes straight to: I knew it was too good to be true.

Yeah. That happened to me.

In this episode, I'm getting personal about a really good stretch, professionally — six new clients, a major brand pitch, a feature on Chatelaine Magazine's podcast, and a sold-out Panama retreat in seventy-two hours — and the moment a piece of unexpected news sent me straight into panic, self-doubt, and full-on fix-it mode before I even had the full picture.

I'm also sharing a story from one of my clients that mirrors the exact same cycle — because this isn't just a business lesson. It's a pattern that so many of us live in without even realizing it. The go-go-go and collapse. The spiral. The shame. The "what is wrong with me?"

And then — the light bulb.

In this episode we talk about:

  • Why our brains go straight to worst-case scenario (and why that's not a character flaw)
  • The fix-it reflex — and what it's actually costing you
  • Why rest is productive even when it feels like falling behind
  • What the universe is really doing when it throws you a curveball
  • How to break the cycle — and what it looks like to actually trust the process

This one is personal, honest, and one I think a lot of you are going to hear yourselves in. Whether you're navigating perimenopause, building something new, or just trying to find your footing in a season that feels bigger than you expected — this episode is for you.

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