EP19: - let us step away from using money as validation and step into divine prosperity

Hi fam!! Today is a juicy one talkin all things money, prosperity and abundance. I share my current relationship with money and some of my revelations about what true prosperity and abundance looks like. I also talk about the gene keys and how to use this tool. Take what resonates with you and leave the rest!! LFG enjoy:) 

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There is an unlimited amount of money on this planet because it is fucking made up. I really am in this time in my life where I wanna step away from using money as validation and really step into divine prosperity. so it's not about the number in your bank account, it is about your relationship. Two it and what external means you put your value in. Abundance is not a place to get to. It is the I am statement. Abundance is having it when you need it, when you put money over that innate worthiness, that is when you suffer, and that is when you are riddled with fear of losing the zeros in your bank account. So we really have to look inside and understand that prosperity, success, abundance, all these things are found in how we serve the whole, how we use our innate gifts to serve humanity. Hello friends, and welcome back to The Fluidity Podcast, episode number 19. All right, guys, we got a juicy one. I wanna give y'all some context to the podcast. I always like to let my intuition guide where the podcast goes, so I don't like to put logic into it or try to really manipulate what I talk about. I like it to be very organic. So the other day I, or last week, I. I was in a meditation and I just asked, what is my next podcast? Like, what wants to be birthed from this place? What is my next podcast? And the answer that came through was about abundance, money, prosperity, that whole realm. And when that first came through, I was very hesitant to brush it off and say. No, that's not right. And I'm glad I didn't let my, insecurities take over. The reason why I felt doubt about this concept is because my first thought was why would the fuck would I talk about abundance and money and prosperity if, well, I'm really not really the one to talk about it because of my situation. Which I'll get into, but I also had this whisper that was very, very quiet, but it was basically like, that's why you're the perfect person to talk about it. I think where I'm at in my life right now and where I'm at with money is definitely something I wanna share, but the surface level fear is that. You have to have money to talk about it, or you have to be like a millionaire to know or have to have millions in the bank to be like, oh, I mastered money. But the more I dug into this concept and the more that I opened myself up to money and talking about this, I have realized so many things and I am just really excited to talk about it actually, which I didn't think I was gonna get to this place, but here we are. I also wanna mention that. I'm in a mastermind right now and the concept, last week was money mindset. So I was thinking about it. But doing the podcast on this topic really allowed me to go way deep into what money is, what abundance is, and what prosperity is.'cause I feel that we are bombarded with these terms and. It's really time to flame these words for our own and make our own meaning out of them. And, that's what I'm doing today just to share my perspective, you know, take what resonates, leave what doesn't. And, yeah, let's just get right into it, y'all. All right. So like I said, I'm going to give, some perspective shifts that I've made. This podcast today is going to be just flowing. All right? I wrote some down, some notes like I always do for the, outline, but it's just gonna flow for me. So I really have no idea where it's gonna go. So yeah, just strap in, get a coffee, a cacao, a matcha, go on a walk, you know, take that nice drive. Okay, so starting out I wanted to talk about what is money, right? Money is just a representation of value, right? Money is value, and we are in a world where we have to work and prove our value in a system that. Really doesn't want us to truly value ourselves. They wanna make us believe that we need X, Y, and Z to be important, to be valued. You know, consumerism now is the idea that people are somehow better. Than others based on how many things they have based on the name brand clothes they're wearing, based on the makeup that I'm talking from a woman here. based on their style and just what they look like and their rings and all the other things, the cars that they drive. There is an unlimited amount of money on this planet because it is fucking made up. That right there sums up this conversation. Okay. Not really, but sums up this part on money because money is neutral until we put our subjective view on it. Right? And. I really am in this time in my life where I wanna step away from using money as validation and really step into divine prosperity. So one, what do I mean by stepping away from using money as validation? I personally, Realized that I was using money to validate myself or not validate myself. So because I'm at the stage in my life right now where my business is brand new, I, just started it. I don't have millions in my bank account. I. Felt like I was doing something wrong, which I feel like a lot of us feel that way. And I felt like I didn't have a voice because I had no money, or I felt like I had no way to impact because the lacking zeros in my bank account. And money is fucking made up. When we search for something outside of us to validate us or to make us feel valued, that is when we give away our freedom. Because once we put something outside of us as something we need to accumulate, to feel valuable or that we're able to make an impact. And I think we're fed this lie that you must have all these zeros in your bank account, And if you don't, you're not successful or you're not doing good things of the world, or you. Are somehow lacking. It's like this, the rat race of trying to accumulate as much as possible. Having as much as possible in savings in our bank account. And if we don't have this magic number, which by the way doesn't exist because no matter how much you have in your bank account, if you're in that lack mindset, if you're associated with money, if you're associated with the zeros in your bank account. Then you're always gonna be in fear of losing that because you've put your identity and your safety in a made up thing, right? Money is, if money didn't have the. Collective energy that it, it meant something of value. We wouldn't use it. I mean, it's, it's paper basically. You know what I mean? So it's just crazy that we, I mean, even think about crypto, like it's, it's made up, right? It, so it's not about the number in your bank account, it is about your relationship. Two it and what external means you put your value in. So again, anything you put your value in that's outside of yourself, You give your value away to something that could easily be taken away from you. And that is why we suffer and that is why we feel this like on safety and just like. This scarcity mindset that we're afraid at every moment we're afraid to spend money on groceries, we're afraid to spend money on our rent, on the things we need, because we're scared that at any moment all of that money could be taken away. And I'm gonna get more into this topic a little bit later in the podcast. so keep your interest in that topic. next I wanna touch on abundance. Now abundance is thrown around a lot, a lot, a lot. It's like, oh, in mantras, it's, I'm abundant. And honestly, for the longest time, I didn't know what that meant. Truly. I consciously read the words and I understood it, but I didn't feel it. It wasn't a felt sense, which abundance. Is the feeling or the reality of overflowing supply. And this can be tangible or intangible, but honestly, in my opinion, it's intangible. Abundance is not a place to get to. It is the I am statement. It is how you give and receive. And this is a big piece as well because giving is also receiving. Receiving is also giving. If you listen to my last podcast about paradox, about the paradoxical nature of the universe, this is a paradox, right, to give us to receive, to receive us to give. Now, I think a lot of us forget that to be able to receive, we have to let ourself receive. Now, I wanna give a little example on this in my own life. I came to realize that I wasn't even allowing myself to receive it almost felt icky to receive. a lot of us feel that way. if you don't feel worthy, you're not gonna be open to receiving I felt like I needed to have more value to be able to receive. I had to be overgiving to be able to receive, and this showed up over the weekend. my friend did something very, very generous for me. Like very generous. I was in shock and I, my first reaction was like frozen. I felt kind of shameful, like she knows that I am starting my own business. She knows that I'm putting all my money and all my time into this business, which means I don't have a lot of money in my bank account. There's nothing wrong with that. It's just the truth right now, and it's just where I'm at. she did something very generous from like, and you can tell it was from the bottom of her heart and she wanted to do this. It was just a surprise. I almost felt like I said shame because I was like, what am I doing? How like my poor friend has to do all these things for me because I'm not making money and I don't have money in the main account, And I realized, Hannah. This is a gift. She is your friend and she's not doing it to make you feel bad about yourself. She's doing this because she truly wants to and she truly loves you. And in that moment, I really understood what it meant to receive because I saw the gift that she was giving me. I saw the purity and the, excitement that she had about giving this to me. And it wasn't, you know, here's this, I expect something. Here's this because, it really showed me that I wasn't allowing myself to receive. And so abundance is not only giving, it's giving and receiving, it's, they're one loop. They're one in the same. true altruism is giving from a place of also receiving. Like when you give, you're also getting something. my heart's so open and so full That the only thing you can do is give it, and that feels even sometimes selfish because you're getting so much in return. You're like, what is happening? But again, it's not coming from I'm giving to get something, it's, I'm giving because it's the only thing that I can do right now. It's the only thing that feels good is giving it. And again, abundance is not. The money in your bank account. I'm gonna tell you guys something that changed my fucking life because I was obsessed with having the zeros in my bank account. I worked a job that I hated because I thought if I had more zeros in my bank account, I would finally be happy and I could do the things I wanted to do that would make me happy. And what I've learned this last couple weeks, because I was still kind of in that pattern of. Getting down on myself for putting my business first, for putting myself fucking first and putting my mission and my purpose first, and putting this podcast and doing the things that truly make me happy because they make me happy, not because I'll get happiness in the future. So what I realize is abundance is not how much you have in your bank account. It is having it when you need it. That is what I've realized in the last couple weeks is I was gonna wait to tell this story towards the later end of the podcast, but I feel like this is a good spot to put it. So, like I said, I am starting my own business, my own coaching business, and there's a lot more things going on, I have a lot of plans and a lot of dreams, right? And I just feel called to this work now to be able to build my business, to be able to get myself in a place where I can serve, to have all the. Knowledge and the wisdom and, you know, that takes time. that takes a lot of investment to masterminds, to coaching, to being, putting myself in places where I can learn from amazing coaches and to, at the end of the day, heal myself because. To be able to heal others, you have to be in a place in yourself where you've gone through it. And that takes time and that takes energy and that takes focus. Because of that, I've had to, I haven't had to, I've wanted to, and I've been so grateful that I could really cut back on hours at my, I'm gonna call it a bridge job. So I'm only working three days a week, and the rest of the time I'm working on my business. I'm not making any money for my business yet. So the only money and income I have right now is from my part-time job. For a long time I was always so stressed about, maybe I should just work more, get more money. Lemme just give some context. I have been like, paycheck to paycheck basically. I felt that way, but honestly, when I look back every single time, I've had enough money for everything. Yes. I haven't had an accumulation of money. There hasn't been like a nice little nesting in my bank account. It's always out and out, and it's never, you know, a huge accumulation of it. And I think we get it twisted when we think abundance is having a shit ton of money in our bank account. Abundance is having it when you need it, And honestly, I'm baffled with how I've been able to pull this off with only working three days a week and this job is not like, you know, I'm not making millions there. It's really. Beautiful for me to look back and see that I've been held every single second. it's just a universe holding me. So really taking away the shame of feeling like because I don't have millions in my bank account, that I should be working my life away. Just because the return on my investment isn't showing up right away right now doesn't mean it's not going to. And when you have so much faith in what you're doing and so much trust in. Investing in yourself. Whatever that looks like, really putting all your time into photography or into your, you know, your paintings, your whatever you love to fucking do. Put your time into that and put your time into really healing yourself and coming back home to yourself, because once you do that. You're unstoppable. And yes, it may take a couple years, and yes, it may be very uncomfortable because you're letting go of the safety blanket that is accumulation of money in your bank account. So I just want to share this because this was revolutionary in my healing with money because in my mindset I thought abundance was. A lot of money. a lot of clothes, the nice car, all these things. And just because I don't have the nicest car, I, live in a rent control apartment. I don't have all the clothes that I obviously would love to have, but. What I do have is a roof over my head, and I have the ability to record this fucking podcast right now, and I have the ability to work on my business and I literally have everything that I need. I think we get too consumed with Instagram and having it perfect, having the perfect outfit and looking the part, and it's like that's not what it's about. The abundance is about the inside passion and warmth you feel from doing your purpose, from, from living your mission, from living your purpose, from connecting with people, from deeply connecting, and not just on that surface level, but like deep soul connection and doing the things that fulfill your. Heart to no other. Sorry, I could riff on that forever. okay, next I wanna talk about prosperity. So the definition of prosperity. By the way, before this episode, I really, I've heard prosperity, didn't really know what it meant. So if you're there, I just want let you know I was there too. So this is, what I'm about to say is the definition that Google gave me, which is prosperity is the state. Of succeeding or flourishing in, it says often measurable. And now I wanna give the definition that Richard Rudd gave. Now, if you don't know who Richard Rudd is, he is the one who, channeled and created the gene Keys Side note. I do wanna do a whole episode on the Jean keys because it's insane and I've been really. loving, diving deep into them, but I'm not gonna do that today. Just know it is coming. So Richard Rudd's definition of prosperity is I'm just gonna paraphrase. I was listening to a podcast of him the other day and oh, did it hit deep? And I love the way he defines prosperity. And so he basically was saying that. We try to recreate what our mind thinks is prosperity. Again, this is what I was kind of talking about earlier. we recreate what we think it's gonna look like, so then we can go out and find it in our relationships in our business, and we go out, we find it in lots of places. But it's a mind kind of field that we've created. So it's not real, it's projected. It's a projection. So even if you fulfill all the conditions of your projection, getting the job, having the car, having the clothes, you won't truly prosper. You might make lots of money, but some other part of your life will probably pay the price. So his definition basically is prosperity flows from deep within you and it's not a projection of our mind.'cause you have a lot of money, does not take away any of your problems. If anything, it enhances them because money is an amplifier. so yeah, he's basically saying that prosperity is something that's inside of you. It's not measurable by the means of this materialistic world. This is me talking now, but when we believe that money or success will validate us in a way that we don't already have, we will endlessly be on the hamster wheel because true prosperity, abundance isn't something we gain from money or success. It is when we step out of the projection, we have been fed by consumerism and the notion that. To be happy is to have all the things, the money, all the things that basically feed your ego and not your soul. So when we get to the top with all the money, all the clothes, the job, everything looks good on paper, but the hole in your chest is so vast and so deep, no amount of money can fill that. it can distract you. Yes, for a while. Yes, it can. When we put it on a pedestal, when you put money on a pedestal over your inherent worth that is innate and cannot be taken away or added to, depending on how much money you make, when you put money over that innate worthiness, that is when you suffer, and that is when you are riddled with fear of losing the zeros in your bank account. So we really have to look inside and understand that prosperity, success, abundance, all these things are found in how we serve the whole, how we use our innate gifts to serve humanity. So I did just wanna bring in here a little bit more Jean keys'cause this really opened up my eyes to how society gives us one view and one vision of what prosperity, success, money, or even abundance looks like. You know, we see all the materialistic way of how society or consumerism makes us think prosperity looks like. It's having all the things right, and what Jean Key is really inviting us to do is what makes us prosper. And also Richard Rudd explains prospering as pros to prosper is to be fulfilled. They're one and the same. So not all of us are meant to be. A millionaire with lots of money in private jets. You know when we are fed that, that is what is gonna make us happy. We are looking in the wrong spot. We are wasting our time in the wrong alley looking for fulfillment from the way society is telling us we should. I think Jean Keys really does give a good perspective shift on how we all have different algorithms to prosper and what truly fulfills us. So just to give you a little rundown on what the Gene keys is. So Gene Keys is a living language. It's a transmission of about 64 archetypes that are deeply connected to our genetics, synthesized and downloaded by, like I said, Richard Rudd. It calls us to contemplate and live consciously what you can do and where to start with this. I'll link this in the show notes, you can start with your, hollow genetic profile. It is derived from certain astrological placements based on your birth time and about 88 degrees before them. So the 64 gene keys are also comprised of the I Ching, and if any of you guys are familiar with human design, the jean keys. In human design as the gifts. Now the gene keys go way more in depth and are honestly after studying them. Both gene keys are, are very different and, very much in depth and have just a different vibration to them. So to get to my point, your gene key profile has three sequences and one of them, one of the sequences is the prosperity sequence, also called the pearl. It's basically reveals what does your prosperity look like, truly fulfilled. Each gene key is divided into six lines, similar to the I Chang Hexagram. These lines provide additional depth and nuances to the interpretation of each key. So each key has six lines, I wanted to just quickly run through the six lines and how they're so different to what prosperity is gonna look for everyone. Now this, it's not telling you this is your job, this is how you make money. No, it's just an a frequency, it's a, launching off point and a way to comp, contemplate what truly is important to you and what truly fulfills you. And you guys are gonna see how different these are. And it really makes you understand how all of our ways of being fulfilled is so different, and to not let society tell you that there's only one way. So the first line is simplicity. So these people, I mean, you're never going to need that much. You're always going to be happy with not that much these people's prosperity is simple. You know, they are fulfilled by their garden, by their plants making herbal medicines or with their dog, with their kids. It's, their fulfillment is in the simplicity of life, and so they don't want or need a lot of money. And so you can see how it could be confusing if someone with a one line is being fed that they need to have millions in their bank account, and yet they just want a simple life. Line two is recognition. So this line is all about being fulfilled and prospering with people in your life. It's the people that you love and being fulfilled in relationships, being fulfilled by. People truly seeing you on a soul level and also seeing them on a soul level. So again, not really having to do much with money, more about your relationships. And a line three is celebration. So Richard Rudd explains this one. As these people wanna celebrate life, so they are probably gonna need quite a bit of money because they're gonna wanna share it around and like they're actually meant to. Play in the material realm and like celebrate they might be the one that had the Porsche and so the line three is a little bit more materialistic. but the underlying energy of it is to celebrate life. So they have this money to celebrate. It's not the money, but it's the way they use it in their life to celebrate Line four is charity. And this is actually Richard Rudd's, prosperity Line. And so he explains that he's very fulfilled when he can give it away and support his community and support people that he knows that will use this money he doesn't just give it to anybody. He gives it to who he feels needs it and who truly will prosper with the money So it's not just giving to a random charity, Line five is leader. So they are here to have a lot of power. And a lot of money may be available to them because they're meant to lead and help others with it in practical ways, and have an impact. Now, you can probably see the shadow side of this, of leaders maybe getting all this money, but using it for themselves. the gift of this though, is a leader that has a lot of access to money, but uses it for the good of the all. Line six is nature. Richard Rud explained. This one's kind of the odd one out because this one is actually transcending money altogether and you can't really predict what will manifest from this line. This line is really to help bring an end to money. Actually, they might have like a revolutionary idea that they want to implement to bring back this gift of economy. He also talks about nature has like a built-in mechanism. If you relax really deeply inside yourself, everything takes care of itself. If you relax, all kinds of miracles can happen around you. So this is line six. Interestingly, my prosperity line is line six, which I thought was like insane to hear. I do feel this sense of transcending money altogether to be completely honest with you. And so it made me very excited. So if you wanna see, your prosperity line, I'll link the profile in where you can find your profile in the show notes. And all you do is you put in your information and then you'll get this fear and it will show you, The different sequences and just look for the pearl sequence. It'll have, like just for example, mine's 13. Mine number's 13, but it's 13.6. So whatever, whatever number after the decimal, that is the line of it. If you have any questions, you can DM me and I can help you find it. okay, so moving on. I also wanted to bring in a little bit more about my relationship with money and just some other perspectives about money, jobs, and all that jazz. So I was listening to a podcast and I'll link that in the show notes as well. This perspective shift that Brianna Lynn shared on Deja Blue's podcast that I just, I've never heard anyone explain it like this before and it hits so deep and it, I literally had a awakening while listening to this, so I'm paraphrasing a little bit, but it's mostly a quote. She basically says. Those who are martyring their time in order to receive a paycheck. Those are the ones who feel the pain of money the most, when they spend that money, it hurts because. That's their blood, that's their time. They'll never get back. And they were behind a desk that they didn't even wanna be in in the first place. They were working with people that they never wanted to see again in their life. And so to spend that money is spending their liver, they're actually handing over their kidneys to you because their adrenals are shot because they have to show up at work at 9:00 AM and they're already on their fifth cup of coffee. so money is an amplifier. The people that have the most money are the most afraid of losing it because they're not fulfilled with the job that paid them that money. They're scared that they're gonna have to suffer to get more of that money. When we have people doing their life's mission, the thing that they would do for free, the thing that they might even pay to do. Is when money doesn't have a grip on you. So that was my realization because I can think back to the time that I was most scared of losing money and that time of my life, I had the most of it. I had the most money in my bank account. I was the most stressed about losing it because I built my identity on that money, I was fucking exhausted doing something to prove my worth by working all day. I thought would be the way I became rich and then I could relax, but I was so scared of losing that money because I was scared of having to do. A job I didn't love. I was scared of having to do more of a job that I hated to get more of that money. You guys, this was such a wake up call. And I feel that now too with my part-time job, I don't love it at all. but I also. Very grateful for it. Two things can exist at the same time because it is allowing me to work my business. But I almost feel this scarcity mindset come in because the way I'm making money now is doing something I hate. So losing that money means I have to work more in something I hate. That is my fear, and that's what I realized when listening to. Rev, Brianna Lynn, talk about this topic because when you're truly doing something that you love and you're fulfilled from within, money doesn't have a hold on you. If you're making money doing something, you love you are free. I believe there is a way to. Truly get out of lack mindset money is made up my friends. So it's all about the energy you hold and do you feel valued, do you feel valuable? And if you don't inherently by yourself without any money, there's some work to do there. I mean, I still have work, of course I have fucking work to do, but I feel like I, I. I've chipped away a little bit at the fear about money, around money. Everything is okay as it is, and so is your desire for more. I don't have a lot of zeros in my bank account right now, but I am at peace with it and. It's okay that I want more in my bank account. It's okay that I desire more. Holding that paradox is the key. It opens up the ability to learn, to be in the present moment, to be authentic and be in tune with life, but also see a brighter future. And know that you are valuable and you are worthy of having that. Once I followed that paradox, once I settled into everything's okay as it is, I am where I am because I know life is gonna carry me and I just have to trust that and it's okay to desire more. So, continuing on with the theme of the paradox, it's just never gonna leave my friends. So I'm gonna end on money is energy and it flows. It doesn't need to accumulate. The energy of flow over accumulation is how to break free because. If you believe you don't have enough and you keep striving to get more it, it doesn't matter how much you get. You could have 10 million and it could still feel like nothing. So to come into peace with yourself and know that you're your value, not some made up paper, that is how we bring the power back. It's simple, but it's not easy. It's simple to grasp, but it's not easy to execute and we gotta fricking learn how to do it and have fun while doing it. So I also wanna open you up to let in the magic of. When you are in the frequency of passionate about what you do, loving life, guess what flows to you? Money and not even money. Just can I just give an example of the things in my life that has come from following my path and planting a seed. When you plant a seed, you get a tree. Investing in myself and my vision is the abundance. My time is invaluable. So to waste away time working a job, that's a means to an end, just to get more money, to feel a false sense of safety. That's not my life work, that's not my vibe, and it has taught me that valuing myself and investing in myself is. The number one way to be and truly have abundance in your life. And lemme just tell you what has come in the last couple weeks of me truly surrendering to what my life is right now and where I'm at with money is the abundance that I've had in my life as far as soul connections that I never thought I would have to people in my life that I truly feel like. Beyond grateful to have and truly feel seen by them. That is abundance. To have opportunities come in my life that I never thought would come. That's abundance. To have things being just worked out for me without having to pay or having to stress about it. That's abundance. having more days that I am in the present moment and I'm enjoying life and enjoying nature. That's abundance. So I invite you everything in your life is abundant and it doesn't have to look like someone else's definition of abundance. Okay, this was a little bit of a longer podcast, I ain't gonna lie. but I thought this was very important because this was a big revelation for me, and I honestly always felt so annoyed by the talks on abundance. It's like, just be abundant and you will be. And it's like, what the fuck does that mean? So I hope this opened up the door for you to really look at your life and ask, what fulfills me? What is abundance to me? And start there. That's all you gotta do. And Jean Keys has definitely helped me with uncovering some of that, inner fulfillment that I didn't know was there, or maybe I knew was there, but I didn't trust it. I actually really loved this podcast. If you like this podcast, if you have any questions about Jean Keys or anything I talked about today, please reach out to me. I would love nothing else then to hear from you. 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