MAYBE IT'S GLEE!

As we wrap up 2024, this episode is all about reflecting, surviving, and thriving through the end of the year. I’m diving into how to protect your peace during the holidays with tips on setting boundaries and navigating family drama. We’ll also revisit the cultural reset moments that defined 2024—spilling ALL the tea on the biggest trends and scandals. Plus, I’ll share my personal "Maybe It’s Me" confessions about growth and self-awareness. Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a little clarity as we close out the year! :) (Giveaway instructions posted on my instagram @MAYBEITSME.US)

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Maybe It's Me

trey 0:02

Hi guys , welcome to another episode of Maybe it's Me . I just want to say before we start things off I apologize if my mic quality or you probably hear my voice all over the place that's because I currently don't have my mic stand Just a little disclaimer , but I just want to say happy belated thanksgiving . Sorry I couldn't post this by the day , but big papa has some business to tend to . Hmm , many things have been transpiring since the last time we talked , but there is one thing in particular that I need to highlight . If you have been paying attention to my social media or even looking at the artwork , you may notice that things have changed and things are different regarding the Christmas spirit . Read it and you figure it right . I've planned my first Christmas giveaway Maybe it's Glee . The Maybe it's Glee holiday giveaway has started and will end on December 20th at 1159 Pacific Standard Time .

trey 1:26

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trey 2:15

And maybe it's me , merge , who wouldn't want to be wearing my face on their body or having my face on a sticker that you can put anywhere , like I don't know . I think it's great if you ask me . So don't miss out . Join today . Like , seriously , join today . I'm not even kidding with you . Like , as I'm saying this , you should already be opening up your phone to Instagram . Put it in my brand Instagram Maybe it's meus . Do those three simple steps and join . You could already be in before December 20th . You're getting money for free , my hard earned money for free . Who wouldn't want that ? I would want my hard earned money , so make sure you join . I just want to pat myself on the back because I'm so proud of myself and seeing the growth that started by having a vision that I truly thought was crazy for me at the time to only be real , intangible , for me to be doing this week by week . I just want to say thank you guys so much for taking the time out of your day to listen to whatever I have to say week in and week out , because I'm not gonna lie and I'm gonna be self-aware . Sometimes the stuff that I say do not make sense at the time . So I just want to say thank you guys for that .

trey 3:42

So now that we're in December with receiving gifts , I feel like as you grow older , you start to care less about receiving gifts . You put that focus not only on receiving gifts but giving gifts as well . I think that's one of the things that starts to transition as you start to being an adult , because I don't know , I've had , I just don't know Like being let me not say that because growing up , my family are Jehovah Witness , so they don't really celebrate holidays , but my parents , however they , they let me celebrate Christmas . Because what , what do I look like not celebrating Christmas or my birthday ? Like , come on , now I have to celebrate Christmas , a holiday where I'm getting gifts just for being good , that's , that's the holiday made for me . What ?

trey 4:42

So , growing up and having that idea of like the Christmas that I did have , I was always giving gifts . Even if my parents didn't necessarily have it , they made sure whatever I wanted at the time , I always got it , realizing that now that I'm older , it just makes me want to give back , that I'm older , it just makes me want to give back . So that's kind of like the joy and stress that I personally encounter , like I'm no longer selfish and being selfish is a good thing , don't get me wrong , but I kind of want to do things that make other people happy , because when you make the people that you care and love about happy , it kind of makes you happy at the same time . I don't know what type of science it is behind it , but I like doing it . Don't get me wrong , though . Don't get me wrong . Though I am getting myself some gifts , don't get me wrong . That's never not going to be a thing . But it's less of that focus , if you get what I'm saying Like I'm not 100 percent into just giving myself gifts and making my own day , and that's it Like that's just not me . That's it Like that's just not me .

trey 6:10

So , yeah , especially regarding this year , now that I'm single and I don't have to think about getting a significant other a give and , oh my God , thinking like OK , what is , what is he going to give me ? I have to match that . And what if I just want to give him whatever he wants and I don't care what he gives me ? I'm so glad I don't have to think about that this year because , oh wee , that was stressful . So anybody that's in a relationship dealing with that , I pray for you guys . I pray that you guys are in a healthy , loving relationship , because if it's not , they don't deserve a Christmas gift . They truly don't . I'm so sorry if your relationship is toxic and you've been arguing from January all the way to now and y'all think that man thinks , oh , let me be nice for these 25 days so I can get something good . No , you better not . You better not give that man or that woman anything .

trey 6:56

This can apply to both genders Like , no , if y'all been arguing for 12 months , or even seven out of the 12 months , no , go ahead , skip Christmas . Let's think of New Year . Even seven out of the 12 months , no , go ahead and skip Christmas . Let's think of New Year's and think of the resolution . Let's think of the resolutions that we have planning for this upcoming year 2025 , because , yeah , you guys do not deserve anything , if anything , if anything , you guys deserve coal . Give that man some coal . Give that man some coal and some stockings . And if he scrunches his face and look at you weird , he should know he should already know he shouldn't be even looking at you weird , because he should already know .

trey 7:34

Yeah , also another thing , sorry for the tension , another thing that , regarding the holidays , something that is so important , setting boundaries , oh , we like growing up and being an adult . I now have the privilege to say no to anything that I don't want to do and I pray for times like this . Like I pray for times like this , this , like I pray for times like this , I truly did Because , growing up as a people pleaser , I would do anything to not only rock the boat , but I would do anything . If I'm , if I know people want to see me or people want me to be there , I would put over my own knees , ditch them to the side and go because I know that they would want to see me . So this year and particularly , I was invited to go to Thanksgiving with my family , but the way my bed was feeling , the way I was feeling that day , like I truly felt that peace , knowing that I was gonna get a plate of food , of ham , mac and cheese , chicken , the whole nine yards , like I didn't have to get out the house for that and not deal with family , oh my gosh . So this year I had to pass like I'm truly sorry . I'm so sorry . Why am I saying sorry ? I truly didn't feel sorry , but it just felt good saying no and not feeling bad about saying no because I truly didn't want to go . It felt good about that so , especially compared to last year .

trey 9:16

Last year I was with my boyfriend . I was with my ex's family and that was kooky in itself . Like my ex's family didn't even know my ex is bisexual at the time . They probably don't even know that I'm dating this man . They probably do know . But you can't really . It was just awkward and I didn't want to be around that family , knowing that me and him are not officially out to his family . That was just awkward to me and I'm already an anxious person . So those thoughts that are coming to my mind like it's like I can't even truly be myself because it's like what if I just started shaking ass in the middle of the living room , then what then ? Truly what ? Like what would everybody do ? What would the whole family do ? Would they just be like , okay , type shit , type shit , no . So , yeah , no . Like I was nervous and anxious , like I did not want to step outside of my ex's room because what do I look like engaging with family that truly don't know what the fuck is going on .

Coping With Loneliness During Holidays

trey 10:14

So this year I just wanted to reflect and give back to myself and prioritize mental health , because , truly , people think you have to deal with family , especially during the holidays , because that's your family . But I'm here to say , if you feel like your mental is going to be all over the place and it's not going to be in a good state dealing with family and , trust me , we all know how we especially if you're black , black you know how family gatherings get it can either go right or it could go real up . So , yeah , and also I'm sorry , I'm just , I'm just paying attention to my nose and it's just funny we also have to talk about managing family dynamics , like we , we kiki about it on twitter , about like the different aunties and uncles , cousins , the whole time . But I just know like , oh , I pray for the conversations that y'all have had on that thursday because , with the politics going around , let me find out that any one of my family voted trump , I always giving me ptsd , like I can't , I can't , I would . I would immediately start arguing with my family because why the fuck would you vote for trump ? So that's , that's probably another good reason why I said yeah , no , because , let me find out , an uncle or auntie of mine voted for Trump , talking about the economy and then also like , for my LGBTQ plus people . Oh yeah , it's , that's awkward . Like that is awkward .

trey 12:01

Dealing with the whole family , and if you have a family that is accepting of you and don't make any one-sided comment or don't look at you funny , you are truly blessed . Like , make sure you pray day in and day out , because there's people out there that don't have that at all , people out there that would rather feel comfortable hiding who they are for 40 years , 30 years years , decades in and out , because their family , they fear that their family won't accept them . So , uh , yeah , I just have to say , like , if you did go through that and if you are going through it and you know I'm a little too late , I apologize again , but just make sure you have to stay calm , like , and if you better talk to a confided family member talk to , talk to your like , listen , when I be around my family , I have my FaceTime on standby . I do not care , I FaceTime a friend because , yeah , no like , either I talk to to a friend or I talk to a cousin , either one of them . You know , you have that one cousin , that one cousin you can talk to and talk about the rest of the family with . Make sure you find that one cousin . And if you don't have that one cousin , I bet you have your mom , I bet you have that one parent , that one parent that you talk to . Or maybe that one parent that you talk to are maybe an auntie , maybe an auntie . Trust me , it's somebody else in that family that know the weird shit that the family go through . Once you found that one family member , you you got it . Just talk to them . Worry about the bigger worry , about the big thing that you have in front of you and that's that motherfucking food like . Zone the family out and worry about the bigger picture and that's the food . When that food comes , nothing else mattered , eat your food , take that to go play and go right back home to where the fuck you belong . And to those that don't have family because , trust me , I empathize with you and trust I can relate to some degree . And it's OK to feel lonely during the holidays is , trust me , it's OK . One thing that you have an advantage of , however , you can do self-care activities .

trey 14:19

So what I did Thursday , what did I do yesterday ? Oh , I laid in the fucking bed . I lay in the bed , watch TV , I played the game , I went out , I worked out . I ate some good food . I just I didn't even bother picking up my phone . I didn't bother texting nobody back this week , didn't even bother picking up my phone , I didn't bother texting nobody back this week .

trey 14:48

And part of me feels bad . But another part of me feels like , wow , it feels good not being able to text anybody back and not feel bad about like it's a difference between being obligated to text somebody back . Like I understand , if you're in a relationship or a family member or a job , okay , you're obligated . Well , you're not obligated to test a boyfriend back , but it's , it's some sort of obligation , if you get what I'm saying . But me , I'm single and my friends are my friends and I talk to my friends whenever I talk to my friends . So it's kind of comforting knowing that if I want that chance to not be able to talk to a single soul , I don't have to . And Thursday , I truly did not want to hear a voice , besides anybody who don't live in my house . If you don't live in my house , I did want to hear your voice . If it didn't come from the TV screen , yeah no , I don't want to hear your voice . So that's one of the things that I've done to have self-care .

trey 15:44

Regarding Thanksgiving Moisturize , put on a what is it called ? Damn a face mask . Put on a face mask . Listen to some music , meditate , do other forms of meditation . If you get what I'm saying , like those are things that you can do to feel at peace with yourself during the holidays . Shoot , even talk to a friend .

trey 16:11

Trust me , you're not the only person going through loneliness during the holidays , like as when you talk to somebody and you talk to a trusted person that you feel that you can be able to share with what you're going through , and they share their experiences , you'll feel better , trust me . Oh , also , make sure you take a break from social media , like Bitches oh , I'm so sorry . Let me not say that People feel like they have to compete , like . I'm not saying that's everybody , but there are some people out there who feel like they have to compete with others , whether it's a holiday or a birthday , in just general , like it's , social media is the worst place To when you're feeling alone , or when you're feeling alone or when you're feeling inadequate , whatever the case may be .

trey 17:01

And just looking on social media and seeing other people , you know they have their marble counter decked out with dishes and you see them with the family on tent , like family on deck . They got family on top of family . They got the 106 year old grandma sitting comfortable . They making their rounds every year and that can make you feel like , damn , my grandma don't even fuck with me , my grandma don't . Even my grandma hates my guts and that could put you in some sort of misery . And , trust me , the camera can only depict so much . That's all there is to it . Like you may think people have their life together on Instagram , but , like Selena Gomez said , everything is not what it seems and I promise you on that one . You may think people have their life together and they have the whole nine yards and they're going . Today , the grandpa who done retired and making 60K just sitting down on his ass because he a veteran , you probably think they all got their life together , but trust me , there's some shit going on in that family dynamic . I tell you that right now .

trey 18:13

So , yeah , just make sure you always take social media breaks , because when you take breaks from social media , it not only gains your perspective of reality , because at the end of the day , social media is not reality . There are two different things . But once you take that break , you start to realize what you have around you instead of that goddamn phone . You know , like what black parents say , it's always that goddamn phone . But once you put that phone down , you start to bask in the greatness of everything around you and how things came to light . Like , don't get me started . I'm not don't get me started .

2024 Cultural Reset Moments

trey 18:53

But all in all , do what makes you happy regarding this holiday season . Whatever comes up across your mind . You don't need to talk about it with anybody but yourself . If it truly feels in your gut that you got to do this certain thing to make you feel happy , do it . Do it . But also just make sure you share your tips , because I don't have it all and maybe you can share with me and share with others what you do to have a sort of survival guide regarding the holidays , as we sort of conclude the year 2024 , I just want to talk about my top three cultural reset moments of 2024 .

trey 19:49

Because this year really went by fast . Like I say that I've been saying that a lot this year , but this year went by fucking fast . Like I was just in fucking March celebrating my birthday and now we're celebrating Christmas and we're about to deal with a new president . Like it's just too much going on . Like I'm getting overstimulated , thinking about all the things and all the months that transpired and flew by over our heads . It's just unbelievable to me . So I just want to talk about my top three moments and , trust me , these are some moments Like . These are some moments , moments that I can't even believe that happened .

trey 20:34

If you would have asked me in 2023 of these things happening , I would have . I would have thought you were shitting . Well , let me look . Okay , two , three out of four things , three out of four things . I would have been like you're shitting me , but the first one I'm gonna have to say to say I predicted I would have felt like it would have kicked off , maybe not this year , or maybe the next year at the latest , but I knew this shit was going to fire up and my first moment would have to be Nicki Minaj versus Megan Thee Stallion .

trey 21:10

Whew , when I tell you that was a moment and that shit happened in January , I recall . Did it happen ? Let me search one second . Oh no , it happened in February . Yeah , that was a moment like when you seen when his release boy , boy boy it was . It was a bad time being a Nicki fan . It was a bad time . It was something shifted , like something I don't know which moment took me by surprise more Lotto and Nicki or Megan and Nicki well , never mind , I take that back . Lotto and Nicki and Nikki , or Megan and Nikki well , never mind , I take that back . Lotto and Nikki , lotto , lotto , she , she ate that one . Like I'm so sorry . Like she didn't eat in the grand scheme of things , but in the moment , if you have a moment , make sure you take that moment . That's exactly what she did . So that moment definitely took me by surprise , calling her super freaky grandma , like I'm sorry , that was a key , that was truly a key .

trey 22:27

But this moment here , nikki and Megan , it's like , you know , when your two homegirls are fighting and you mess with them heavy . It's sort of like that , like you may have not liked the other one as much as you like the the other homegirl , but still like you don't want the homegirls to be fighting . And that's really how I felt . It's like no . Like what happened to hot girl summer ? What happened to unity and you know women who write their raps sticking together ? What happened to that ? What ? What happened to UNITY ?

trey 23:02

But that went out the window January 26th when she said these H's don't be mad at Megan , these H's mad at Megan's law . That shocked the wave . And what made it worse was Nicki going on . Live Like that live is still funny to me . I'm so sorry Like I'm not laughing at Megan being shot , but it's the way she immediately , like she immediately went on . You could tell . You could just tell she was frustrated . I don't know if she knew that was going to happen , but you could just tell she was frustrated and disbelieved that it happened in this way . I can just hear her voice now in my head . Bullet Fragment , bitch . Bullet Fragment . Bullet Fragment . Bullet Fragment . Oh , and then the Bigfoot single . I just remember listening to that at 12 on a diet in the car . That was a fun time . That was a good time .

trey 24:17

This personally impacted me because it's just everything shifted after that . Like you , it was no more unity , like it was never unity , but you could tell things changed after that . You got drake future the weekend , kendrick , metro , lond , it's , I don't know it , just it made everybody oh my god . I'm just thinking about Cardi saying she was gonna release her album this year and postpone it again for another year , for the seventh time , I think . Let me , let me , let me anyways .

trey 25:01

Moment two . Moment two Diddy ass . Diddy definitely surprised me . Like I knew that there was some shit that we did not know regarding him , but I didn't know that a whole case would be built upon this man , and not only that . I didn't think Cassie would be the first one to put a case on him . And then not only that , the case being fouled and then being settled immediately , immediately after , for an undisclosed amount . After him saying that , he , after him saying I'm sorry , it's not funny . After him saying that he didn't do none of the things that the lawsuit encounters . How the okay , but that was crazy . To me , that was a crazy moment .

trey 25:51

And then not only that , shortly after , seeing a video of an event that the lawsuit entails to the t like I mean to the t it . It tells the date , the year , what hotel they were at , the whole nine yards and what was going on in that hotel room . And seeing that video and her like running out , like imagine seeing a lady running out of a hotel room like frantically pushing the elevator button , like trying to get away , and then you just see Diddy Combs , mr Combs , p-daddy , puff , love , whatever he want to go by , running out in a damn towel , probably slinging musty dick full of baby oil and God knows what else , catching her down by her damn hair , dragging her down and dragging her back into the room , like I don't know , that's crazy to me . That is crazy to me and that was one of the top moments of 2024 , because I just could not believe that crazy shit happening . Not only that , I could believe that happens , but seeing it in 4k , like us as regular civilians , being able to see it on our phones , computer , what have you what ? And then knowing that he paid the security a lump sum of money for that footage to not be shown or to keep that footage , like it , just , it just blows my mind and thinking about when they seized his house and all the footage that they have got out of this man and then , oh my god , him having a underground tunnel . What the fuck ? Why do you have an underground tunnel in your house ? People worrying about the damn baby oil underground tunnel , what , what the fuck are you doing ? And it just makes me think of all the people who could be tied to this . And , as much as this is a serious case , I really couldn't , cannot , wait till he goes on trial and we see and hopefully they make this a public case where we can see all the things that they have built up on this man , because , whoa , that's something that you , you , you can't witness in no lifetime . So I'm truly grateful to be living in these times so that I can see what the fuck is going on with these celebrities like we . It hasn't been something this crazy since fucking R Kelly and we seen how the fuck that shit happened . That man would have been free if it wasn't so many damn girls that came up and like , oh my god , I'm so sorry . It just , it just blows my mind . It truly blows my mind of all this .

Unexpected Yearly Highlights and Realizations

trey 28:46

Anywho , on to another fucking moment , a good moment at hand , and that's yeah , this is probably the only white lady I will commend this year and that's Sabrina Carpenter . Sabrina Carpenter showed up and showed out this year . I have to bow down to her because if you would have told me that last year , when I seen her at the Jingle Ball Fest , nobody cared for her Like I'm over here recording , I only knew because I , like the boy in Nonsense and Feather and I'm looking around seeing if anybody else gonna sing along , nobody's singing along , it's only a few people singing along . So if you was to tell me that from that moment to now that she would have a sold out tour and bitches is over here reselling her ticket for $2,000 for nosebleed tickets , I would have told you you're shitting me . I would have told you that you were lying . But seeing that in real view , in real time , I have to give her a tens . I really do .

trey 29:50

She showed up and showed out , not only with the tour but for the album as well , that short and sweet album . I still listen to that . I still Like she . She ate . The short and sweet era was definitely short and sweet . So Listen here , little white girl , keep doing it , keep keep going at it , because I'm just amazed . I never will give a white woman their props . But that's one white woman there .

trey 30:24

She did her thing on that , she did her due diligence and I will give her her praise for this year and this year , specifically the bonus moment that I have and it's just added for me and it's this fucking election and it just added for me and it's this fucking election . This election definitely describes this fucking year . Because what the fuck , seriously , what the fuck ? What the fuck , what the fuck , what the fuck , what the fuck , what the fuck . Like , everything about this election piss me the fuck off from joe biden ass over here cough coughing and at the last minute , want to drop out and you got Harris having to pick up that slack and fucking how many days she had , how many days she had . I don't even know how many days she had , but I know that shit was limited . I know it was limited and that pisses me off . Oh my god . Like she had only a short amount of time to go after .

trey 31:17

Fucking Donald Trump , donald J Trump , the man who knows how to finesse and dwindle his way through whatever he chooses like . Oh , it pisses me off . Like I just had faith in that lady . I really did like , but knowing the world that I'm well not world , knowing the country that I'm living in . They would , they will . They would first they would die before they see a woman being the president . But they would die , roll over , come back to life and die again before a black woman . A black woman become president oh hell , no , that was that would have started fucking the civil war . That would have the Like a black woman telling white men what to do , girl , yeah .

trey 32:09

But all in all , these fucking moments made me realize I really have to get my shit together , because shit can happen , shit can hit the fan , whether you like it or not , and when it happens , it happens and you're gonna have to think on your feet on what to do . So these , these specific moments right here taught me that anything and everything can go opposite of what you think it could go . That what this year taught me if you have , if you think like , oh , this can't go wrong , trust me , life has a funny way of telling you that specific thing can go extremely wrong and even worse than you even imagine . So this year taught me that always make sure you have your ducks in a row , and then the eggs behind them as well . That's what they taught me , but I truly want to know what you guys feel like , is your top moments that define this year .

Reflections on Personal Growth and Self-Improvement

trey 33:03

Tell me , what I am looking for in regards to 2025 is some sort of peace , some sort of good music . That's really all I want Peace , good music , elevation , positivity . Like I'm so tired of chaos . Like you know , we had a year of chaos . Let's get the year of peace . How about that 2025 , peace , I don't know .

trey 33:31

Okay , aside from that , you know , in classic MIM nature , I just want to reflect and talk about the time that I realized that I was the problem , reflect and talk about the time that I realized that I was the problem . So , in the past two weeks it's not , it's not funny something , something crazy happened , like only Coco know and I . I was debating on telling what happened and who is involved in the story , but I let go and let God . So , with that being said , I just I find peace with the situation because it could have went a totally different way and to that I thank God . I thank God because only God knows if it would have went the way the other way it would have went , I wouldn't't be smiling , giggling on this damn podcast . I would be going the fuck in , trust me , names would have been thrown , social medias would have been blown up and plastered . I would have went in a funny way of how can I say this ?

trey 34:41

God has a funny way of putting certain situations that you are familiar with and he's going to put it in the air . He's going to put it in reality , but it's up to you to show and demonstrate that you've grown from it , because if not , you're going to be stuck repeating the same old thing and maybe that's your hell . You know people say hell is , you know , an underground and once you die you're gonna burn up and you're gonna meet satan and all the people like r kelly , diddy , uh , fucking , like all of them , all of those people who are cruel and sick and evil . You're going to be meeting them there . But I also feel like hell is different for everybody , like your fear and what's holding you back is your hell . My hell is going to be people that are sent to me to continue Like they're going to . They're going to be sent in the same format , but maybe in like a different . Ok , the same format , but a different , like I don't fucking know . But you get what I'm saying . Like I don't know Like they come . You're going to keep repeating lessons until you learn from them . God damn it . Like that's what I'm trying to say and that's what you're . That's what hell is to me . Everybody has a certain thing that they're holding on to , and in order for them to grow and be the best version of themselves , they have to let that go , and that's different towards every single person . So hell , yeah , for me . Hell is different for everybody , like my hell is different from another person's hell , and , trust me , I don't want any other person's hell except for myself , for my own . And once I deal with my hell , oh , thank god . So , yeah , so this situation here , I just really , I'm really grateful , I'm , I , I want to thank God , like I thank God that it it happened in a way that benefits me , because boy boy , boy boy that's that's all I can say on that one . I don't even want to speak into the details of it , but just I'm just so thankful that I have chances . I have chances to not only make mistakes but make mistakes and learn from them , so I'm so thankful on that .

trey 37:16

Another maybe it's me moment that I have had specifically during the holiday , is just spending so much damn money , like I spend . One thing about me . I can spend money to the point that I don't even know what the fuck I spend money on . That's the crazy thing about it . You would think I spend money on clothes , phone , electronics , whatever the case may be on clothes , phone , electronics , whatever the case may be , but I spend money on any and everything Like I just don't know , like anything that I can spend money on I'm gonna spend money on . So that's me , and I have to learn how to budget my money , because that's not cute , you know , I'm only 22 and I have to pick up on these habits now because , god forbids , I'm 35 , 40 , I'm still over here spending money all willy-nilly and it hits me in the ass .

trey 38:10

So for the moment , now that I have leisure to do whatever I want to do , I have to make sure that I learn what's the word balance . Not only balance , but be in moderation with anything , any and everything that I learn what's the word balance ? Not only balance , but be in moderation with anything , any and everything that I do , because if you over indulge in things , it's , it's going to be bad . So , keeping a balance , moderation of the things that I do intend to indulge in . Yeah , that's . That's very good for me . So if you guys have any maybe it confessions make sure you guys send them in , because I know I've been talking for a while so I decided to postpone them and put them in for a future episode , because I just have so much stuff to talk about . My God , my mouth is getting dry from talking this day and all this day alone .

trey 39:06

But , all in all , just make sure you guys self-reflect and pay attention to the things that you put your energy and time into . You know , because I don't care what nobody says . Your energy and time is important . So make sure you pay attention to what you decide to waste your time with , because one thing about time you can . You can spend it on whatever you want to waste your time with . Because one thing about time you can spend it on whatever

Value of Time

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you want to .

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But once it's gone , you cannot get that time back , and I think it's better for everyone , including me , to do what you want to do and really make sure you pay attention and think and reflect on that before you actually give out your time , because the worst thing to do is be resentful and have bitterness and hate in your heart for things that you cannot change . So yeah , all in all guys , thank you so much for listening again . The maybe it's glee holiday giveaway is out now , so make sure you check my instagram my personal and brand instagram maybe it's meus on how you can join again . It's three simple steps . Once you do those three simple steps , you are in to win free money and merch . Who doesn't like merch and who doesn't like money ? Thank you guys so much and I'll see you guys again for another week .