Maybe It's Me
Welcome to Maybe It's Me, the safe space where we dive deep into life's ups and downs through my lens while keeping you updated on the latest in pop culture. Join me, Tramonz, as I share real-life stories, offer heartfelt advice, and explore the cultural moments that shape our world. Whether you're seeking guidance, a fresh perspective, or a relatable conversation, Maybe It's Me is here to connect, entertain and inspire. Tune in for unfiltered discussions, honest reflections, and personal insights into pop culture. Maybe It's Me... Maybe it's not, you'll decide!
Episodes
27 episodes
me and love are still strangers
i haven't talked about love in a while, not because I found it, not because I hate it, but because i think my feelings got tired of trying to understand it. this episode is about love, betrayal, friendship, romance, mariah the scientist, and re...
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HOMOSOCIAL: why men need men
hi guys! let's not act like this is something new with me being away. ANYWAYS! in this episode, i’m talking about men, brotherhood, and the weird fear that shows up the moment male closeness looks a little too… close. from game chats to coming ...
Baddies or Modern Minstrels?
what if the stuff we call “entertainment” is really just modern-day performance?in this episode, i talk about Baddies, reality TV culture, and how Black pain, chaos, and humiliation keep getting packaged, sold, and consumed for pro...
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dear santa,
i know, i know, i've been doing a real bad job with this relationship we have... i feel like an avoidant boyfriend (not like i don't have any experience with one haha.....) anyways, hopefully this is a good summary of everything that you've mis...
it's giving coke!
i don't know who's out of their minds at this point... me, you bitches or B.O.B? oh well, i guess we'll find out soon enough. sorry for the vulgar language but sometimes it's necessary.
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blade bird
a candid dive into my mind of push-and-pull with intimacy, control, and the art of letting go. from craving solitude to longing for a love that keeps its distance, in this episode i explore what it means to hold on, set free, and wonder if the ...
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Business is Business
Young Thug titled his album Business Is Business, and I recently encountered a conundrum with the phrase.What does it really mean? Is it survival… or selfishness? In this episode, I discuss how this mindset manifests in real life, from f...
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horny & homeless: the dating scene in 2025
in this episode, i’m talking about how lust became the main character in today’s dating scene. i'm not condemning, we’re human — but let’s be real: standards are disappearing, mystery is dead, and it feels like love is on back order. is this ju...
1 YEAR POST-OP
it’s been a year since i cut out something that was rotting me from the inside. the healing hasn’t been pretty—no clean stitches, no fast recovery. but i made it to the other side!this episode is me taking the bandages off. still bruised, b...
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sex, status & loneliness: the gay experience
hey mim members! (idk) in today’s episode, we’re getting real about something that’s been bothering me for a minute—the way the gay community has become so shallow and surface-level. from hookup apps ruining real connections to onlyFans culture...
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we did it joe!
wow, i can't believe i hit 1,000 downloads. here's my personal thanks to each and every one of you, i hope you all are enjoying this little project i decided to start myself... hopefully it grows even more than i imagine. thank you, thank you, ...
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and i was like, "why you so obsessed with me?"
some people support, and some just watch—but in the words of mariah...why you so obsessed with me? 🥲 in this episode, i dive into the weird energy of people who lurk but never engage, "friends" who lowkey compete, and how even family<...
no contact for years... until now! (ex best-friend drama)
so proud to announce that we are now on YOUTUBE! ahhh *screams* thank you guys so much for supporting me and making me feel a little important, make sure you check it out and tell me what you think! :) more videos are coming soon!...
authenticity is DEAD!
well, well, well, i'm back again. on a roll now huh? 😂 in this episode, i’m talking about the fear of judgment, cancel culture as the new-age stoning, and why we’re all so scared to admit our shit stinks. I share my own struggles with social me...
being seen or being accepted?
in this episode of Maybe It’s Me, i unpack the difference between being seen and truly being accepted. from societal expectations to challenges within the queer community, i explore how these dynamics shape our sense of self and relati...
MAYBE IT'S GLEE!
As we wrap up 2024, this episode is all about reflecting, surviving, and thriving through the end of the year. I’m diving into how to protect your peace during the holidays with tips on setting boundaries and navigating family drama. We’ll also...
LET'S UNPACK!
well, well, well... as soon as I think I'm coming back like Jordan in his flu game, life always wants to show me that an ass-whooping has no name on it, especially regarding me. come listen to my hectic life update with the addition of a new se...
short n' sweet
let's save the theatrics for the next episode, it's time for business. thank you for waiting but i am OFFICIALLY back! *rubs hands like birdman*
S/O 2 YOU
there's no introduction, no description, let's just get into it. special shoutout to you, you know who you are.. hope you enjoy! (:
wtf happened to music?
in this episode, I deep dive into the evolution of music and explore how it transformed from the golden eras to today's hit-or-miss landscape. from the impact of streaming and social media to the role of technology and changing listener habits,...
love course 101
hey! i just want to send my condolences for being so nasty and so rude last week, y'all didn't deserve that. because of that, i decided to let you guys in on what makes a REAL LOVER cave in! (even though there's way more that i left out) ...
is there an actual death note?
it's mercury retrograde so i have nothing to say. this week's episode is yap-filled on who's going to hell in my eyes, hope you enjoy! :)
