#26 Reprogram Your Money Mindset: Embrace Abundance and Opportunity with Laura Lee Kenny

In this enlightening episode of the House of Fulfillment Podcast, Lis Karin invites money mindset mentor Laura Lee Kenny from New Brunswick, Canada, to share her wisdom and experiences. Laura Lee opens up about her journey from growing up on a rural hobby farm to becoming a financial planner and money mindset coach. She candidly discusses how childhood beliefs about money shaped her life and reveals how overcoming limiting beliefs about asking for money was a turning point.

Laura Lee’s story is a compelling mix of entrepreneurial spirit, hard work, and learning to receive abundance with an open heart. She emphasizes the importance of finding mentors, embracing self-belief, and trusting the universe’s flow. Laura Lee shares her tips on setting goals, reprogramming self-image, and adopting practical financial strategies for prosperity. This episode is rich with stories, practical advice, and timeless wisdom for those seeking to unlock their potential, redefine their relationship with money, and live a life of abundance.

Listeners are encouraged to embrace self-image work, pursue growth, and stay open to new opportunities. Laura Lee’s inspiring insights and Lis Karin’s affirming questions create a heartfelt conversation that leaves listeners empowered to take the next step in their journey.

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Lis Karin: You are listening to House of Fulfillment Podcast, with me, Liz Corinne.

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Lis Karin: And today I am so honored and blessed to have Laura Lee Kenney from New Brunswick, Canada, with me in the studio.

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Lis Karin: Laura Lee is a money mindset

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Lis Karin: mentor, and I'm so curious to hear about her work with her clients and and

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Lis Karin: a lot of stuff around that. So a warm welcome, Laura Lee.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Thank you so much.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Well, you know they say you teach what you need to learn yourself

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Laura Lee Kenny: now, a little back history.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I'm a baby boomer.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and so growing up 60 some years ago, because I'm officially 65 now, life was quite different in rural New Brunswick than it would than it is now.

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Laura Lee Kenny: but I'm 1 of the oldest

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Laura Lee Kenny: of 12 children.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and we we lived a pioneer life for many, many years, because there were so many children, and of course it was Mom having so many children there.

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Laura Lee Kenny: There was the odd time that she did work outside of the home, but mainly it was my father that was working.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and we had a little hobby farm.

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Laura Lee Kenny: To survive.

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Laura Lee Kenny: You certainly needed to, and his his parents had a hobby farm, so, you know it was very natural for that.

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Laura Lee Kenny: But I grew up with my mom, saying all the time, money doesn't grow on trees.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Do you see a money tree outside. We don't have the money.

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Laura Lee Kenny: but it was so interesting. You did not hear that out of my father.

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Laura Lee Kenny: who later in life went from.

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Laura Lee Kenny: He had an entrepreneurial spirit, and I didn't even think about it. But my girlfriends tell me all the time that's just that Williston Gene in you, that all of your family, all of the Willistons all have a business. And I was like.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I had to stop and think about it. It's like, Yeah, that's true. I I had not thought of it, you know. Sometimes people looking in

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Laura Lee Kenny: on your life

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Laura Lee Kenny: see? See things quite differently.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I just knew it was a way to survive, you know. That's that's how we survived. And and I grew up very young.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I remember picking berries, and this one neighbor. Oh, my God, she was such a sweetheart! I would take these little tiny berries strawberries to her

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Laura Lee Kenny: to sell, and they'd be a pain in the butt to clean, because they're just tiny little wild berries right? But she would always buy them from me, or blueberries or raspberries, whatever I could find in the field

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Laura Lee Kenny: like. I was started off at 6 years of age, and she would give me a few pennies. Well, might have gave me a dime or something, and I thought it was rich. You know I could go buy candy because there was no such thing as candy in the house, or something like that.

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Laura Lee Kenny: but I can remember it at age 12.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Back. Then the responsibility was very.

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Laura Lee Kenny: You had a lot of responsibilities compared to what kids have now.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and my mom sent me to work for her cousin. Her cousin had 4 children, and he was trying to work, and unfortunately there was a the mom had left. There was 4 children under the age of 6

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Laura Lee Kenny: I was. I was sent there to look after those 4 children

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Laura Lee Kenny: from Monday to Saturday.

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Laura Lee Kenny: The only thing I did not do for those children was go to the grocery store and buy their food.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Everything else that anybody would have to do in the house

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Laura Lee Kenny: was done by me.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Laura Lee Kenny: You would never expect that of a 12 year old today. Not at all. So

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Laura Lee Kenny: long. Story short,

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Laura Lee Kenny: I was used to hard work.

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Laura Lee Kenny: It was expected of everybody.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I didn't know that you didn't have to work so hard for money.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and as I evolved at 15 I was one of the

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Laura Lee Kenny: oh, I know I was the youngest, because they didn't know I was 15, the youngest skincare cosmetic representative

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Laura Lee Kenny: for a cosmetic company.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and

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Laura Lee Kenny: I didn't have the typical

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Laura Lee Kenny: teenage skin that had a bunch of pimples on it. I had very dry skin because we used Sunlight soap.

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Laura Lee Kenny: which was a strong lyso. You could just sit and flake

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Laura Lee Kenny: a flake. The the dead skin off me because of that type of soap.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Anyway, so long story short.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I did extremely well, and, in fact, I stayed there, in and on and off well, almost on the whole time, for 25 years.

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Lis Karin: Okay, okay, that's quite a long time.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Yeah. And when I tell you, then I went into financial planning for 25 years. So I look darn good for 95. Right?

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Laura Lee Kenny: I stole that line from so many years ago.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Lis Karin: so you have always had had

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Lis Karin: how should I say? A little bit entrepreneurial heart in you from start.

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Laura Lee Kenny: But guess what? What? I did not know until the last

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Laura Lee Kenny: I don't know. 5 years, 7 years

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Laura Lee Kenny: was that I, even though I was great at doing. It wasn't until I got into financial planning where I didn't have to ask the people for money, because the insurance companies, the Mutual fund companies

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Laura Lee Kenny: paid me

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Laura Lee Kenny: I didn't know.

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Laura Lee Kenny: but even though I had great sales.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I was afraid to ask for the money, I would do everything up until asking for the sale, because I was like, Oh, I know I can benefit them, but maybe they don't really have the money for this, and I would prejudge.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Yeah, I don't know why I did. Well, I know now why I did it, but I was afraid to ask for the money.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I had

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Laura Lee Kenny: limiting beliefs that

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Laura Lee Kenny: were ingrained in me, in my subconscious that held me back. Even though I had accomplished some great things in my life, I could have soared, all kinds of people would say, I can't believe you're not this, this, this this.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and I'm like

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Laura Lee Kenny: what's wrong with what I've done.

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Laura Lee Kenny: But I didn't see that I was holding myself back.

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Laura Lee Kenny: So I my goal.

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Laura Lee Kenny: But 3 years ago I had this download download.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and it was said, you need to teach financial literacy to young people

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Laura Lee Kenny: and mindset. And I was like, really.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I don't know how to do that. Covid had set in. Everything was an online business. I didn't have a presence online.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I didn't know what to do or where to go. So my evolution in this last 3 years has

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Laura Lee Kenny: hugely changed.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Lis Karin: so in what way have it changed?

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Laura Lee Kenny: Well, now, I run an online business. I don't do financial planning anymore for corporate. And in that I specialized in retirement planning.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And I was kind of unique, because most of my clients were males.

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Laura Lee Kenny: When we're female, I was told you will have female clients give or take 5 years of your age.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and I was like.

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Laura Lee Kenny: lovely. I'm starting at 38. Most people don't have hardly any money at 38 of the people I knew.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and 50% are divorced. So they're starting over. I was like, Oh, my goodness gracious! I don't know how this is going to work. Well, anyway, I

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Laura Lee Kenny: ask some people

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Laura Lee Kenny: I got brave enough to ask, because I felt I could help them.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and lo and behold! A bunch of men that were 20 to 30 years older than me, said yes to me

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Laura Lee Kenny: now most of them treated me like I was their daughter or granddaughter. It was too funny, but they they did believe that I knew what I was talking about, even though they questioned me

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Laura Lee Kenny: considerably. But that was very that was not common in the industry, because in financial planning in Canada.

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Laura Lee Kenny: when I would go into a room when I 1st started, if there was a hundred people in the room.

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Laura Lee Kenny: you were lucky if there was 5 women

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Laura Lee Kenny: very male dominated industry.

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Laura Lee Kenny: anything to do with money at that time.

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Lis Karin: Hmm!

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Lis Karin: So what do you?

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Lis Karin: You have had a lot of

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Lis Karin: people in your way during the last years. What is the biggest? How do you say? Paradigm around money?

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Lis Karin: The the limiting belief around money.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Oh, my goodness! Well, Marissa, Pierre taught us for for most things

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Laura Lee Kenny: that we don't think we're enough. We're not good enough. We don't deserve it. It's okay for everybody else.

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Laura Lee Kenny: But we need to get heal that area so that we can improve ourselves. So we learn to be open.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Now this was pointed out to me, and I was flabbergasted when I list. When I heard this.

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Laura Lee Kenny: when someone would give me a compliment, I would say, instead of saying, Oh, thank you.

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Laura Lee Kenny: If it was about clothing I love that, too. That's why I bought it. I would. I would say this old thing seriously. I've had it for 10 years, and that was a lot of truth to it, because I buy very basic clothing.

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Laura Lee Kenny: That would last me a long time, and I love them, and I took care of them, and people didn't know that they were. You know that they weren't the latest fashion

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Laura Lee Kenny: and as people were pointing out, Lordy, if you can't accept a compliment.

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Laura Lee Kenny: how are you going to accept abundance?

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Laura Lee Kenny: Yeah, I was great at giving.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I was not great at receiving

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Laura Lee Kenny: like I should have been.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and I had such a hard time to ask for the sale

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Laura Lee Kenny: that my 1st podcast was called ask for the money.

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Lis Karin: Hmm, yeah.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Yeah, I just I was like, Oh, that's really interesting

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Laura Lee Kenny: that I you know I feel I've done so much. But yet

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Laura Lee Kenny: I may. I'm working against like swimming upstream

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Laura Lee Kenny: instead of flowing downstream.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Lis Karin: yeah, that's so true. And I had that thought today. Actually, it's so, even if I am a mindset coach, I know my mindset, and I know

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Lis Karin: I know the limiting things that we shouldn't have. It came a thought in my mind about this thing, about the special

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Lis Karin: specific person I had spoken to.

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Lis Karin: and I was thinking that

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Lis Karin: it's a pity that that person doesn't have. The money doesn't, can't pay, or, you know, like that in my mind.

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Lis Karin: and, as you say, we we prejudge people, I mean, I didn't have the money when I started my journey in this. I was a client 1st in a 6 month program that I myself work in today and.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Hello!

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Lis Karin: I didn't have the money when I said Yes, I just. I just know that I have to go through this. I have to do it, and when I had made my committed decision to do it, I found a way. I found a way, and that my 1st mentor, Bob Proctor.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I know I knew it.

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Lis Karin: That you don't have the resources before you made a committee decision. You don't need them. You don't need them before, but afterwards

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Lis Karin: you will find a way, you will find them, and that's true. I have done it so many times during these last years. So I know that's that's how it works.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Oh, I love Bob Proctor, and I got some courses with him, but I was mentored by Peggy Mccall, who, if you know Bob, you knew Peggy.

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Lis Karin: Absolutely.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And and she she was my

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Laura Lee Kenny: be my 1st

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Laura Lee Kenny: huge

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Laura Lee Kenny: financial commitment to being a coach.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And I'm part of her Destiny Key program. So I get to do her presentations. And then I get to add what I want to it because most of the money courses out there they don't actually give you practical ideas suggestions of what to do with your money. It's all just mindset, and we know absolutely mindset needs to be the 1st part of it.

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Laura Lee Kenny: But then sometimes we need some practical

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Laura Lee Kenny: steps to guide us to keep us on track.

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Laura Lee Kenny: because, just think.

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Laura Lee Kenny: we all understand, with tides.

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Laura Lee Kenny: with waves coming in and waves going out, and life is very much like that. We don't have a steady. As a rule, there usually is not a steady

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Laura Lee Kenny: incline all the time.

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Laura Lee Kenny: If you looked at people's roadmaps, of how they got here.

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Laura Lee Kenny: there is lots of twists and turns right? So we have to same with money.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Oh, sometimes money comes in and money goes out like there's a flow. There's an energy flow, and actually

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Laura Lee Kenny: ken Honda who he does. Happy money! I love him. I think he's just so. Oh, I love his teaching, and I and I've got to be in a program with him also, and he said, I asked him the other day I said, What is one thing you would like to give me

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Laura Lee Kenny: a word of advice

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Laura Lee Kenny: for my listeners, and he said.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Well, money is neutral.

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Laura Lee Kenny: If you decide it's good, it's good. If you decide it's bad. It's bad if you focus on debt.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and I can't afford it all the time. That's what you'll keep getting.

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Laura Lee Kenny: So why not have happy money

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Laura Lee Kenny: and think, oh, what great things I can do with it!

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Laura Lee Kenny: Because when I did retirement planning, my goal was to give people

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Laura Lee Kenny: show them how the average person and I do mean average. They weren't high income

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Laura Lee Kenny: clients@firstst They were coal miners, actually, most of them.

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Laura Lee Kenny: How I could show them so that they could have a nest egg.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And then I started getting some business people

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Laura Lee Kenny: and their corporation

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Laura Lee Kenny: small small business owners, and I was able to take them and show them how to redirect how they pay, use their money.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and they became millionaires

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Laura Lee Kenny: because of just redirecting what they did with their money.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And I was just like, Oh, man, it so a lot of it had to do with mindset people that would write a goal down, telling me their goals.

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Laura Lee Kenny: some of them then most of them never wrote a goal before they met me, but I got them thinking of the future.

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Laura Lee Kenny: preferably that you know it's not somebody, you know, like to say. I admire Bob Proctor or Tony Robinson. Somebody like that, or Napoleon Yale

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Laura Lee Kenny: Now scratch their name out of it, and put your name there, because you can't see anything in somebody else that isn't already in you.

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Laura Lee Kenny: So that's a little hint for your listeners to do that for for somebody else and and share. Go, take that next step, and and let people know what you think of them.

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Lis Karin: Be grateful for who you are, and tell yourself how much you love yourself, and how beautiful you are, and how perfect you are, and see yourself in the eyes when you do it.

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Laura Lee Kenny: the feeling you have when you look into your own eyes. You're absolutely right, and you say such nice things when you do. That connection is wonderful. But one of my mentors taught me to write, and it was so funny I made it.

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Laura Lee Kenny: because they don't. They don't quite get the concept, but so I now write. You are enough.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and then I do the hopo ono where I am committed to you. I love you, I thank you, I forgive you.

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Lis Karin: I I used to say that every morning I go up very early every morning, and I direct my focus to the right things, my mind to the right things before I go out in the day, and everything comes over us, you know, to to start to with gratitude whatever it looks like in my surroundings, whatever it has been like the day before. What I am standing in, I give gratitude.

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Laura Lee Kenny: growing up. That meant you were bad. You did stuff bad that you weren't. That was not good, so I didn't. I didn't quite get the concept to say I'm a badass, and that was a good thing.

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Laura Lee Kenny: get the children who are ripened in prime, and when they're so young and they get into school. Most of them is the can do attitude, I mean

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Laura Lee Kenny: they had to stumble and fall so many times before they learned how to do it. It really is amazing when you look at some, you know, watch children do that.

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Laura Lee Kenny: They just like they know that that's part of what they're meant to do is to get up and walk, and so they're determined to do that. But as we age, and they tell us by the age of grade 5 most of the girls pull back.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I said, then, quit

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Laura Lee Kenny: now. I was early twenties, you know. I don't know. Maybe 2325, and I said, then quit, and he looked at me. What do you mean? Quit!

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Laura Lee Kenny: It's my job, I said. I am not going to listen to this all our life.

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Laura Lee Kenny: If you hate your job. That bad

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Laura Lee Kenny: just quit, he said. Well, look! What

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Laura Lee Kenny: what can I do? We have a car payment. We've got rent. We've got 2 children.

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Laura Lee Kenny: How how can we survive? I said. I don't know, but I know I'm not living like this.

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Laura Lee Kenny: He looked at me, I said, and then I re pointed out to a lot of people would love to have a job

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Laura Lee Kenny: that paid what he got paid.

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Laura Lee Kenny: He could be like the coal miners down, digging in the in the ground underground, digging out coal. Would he rather have a job like that.

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Laura Lee Kenny: He just looked at me

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Laura Lee Kenny: and say anything.

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Laura Lee Kenny: You stop stop complaining.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and it was like a light bulb switched for him.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and when he talked at his retirement after 38, and a 3rd years, I think he told me 3 quarters of a year.

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Laura Lee Kenny: He said he loved his job every day. Oh, I remember when you didn't.

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Lis Karin: But he wasn't he. He stayed in that job.

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Laura Lee Kenny: He stayed there. Yeah. And he got paid like for for the average workers in the community. He got paid well compared to a lot of people compared to minimum wage type, thing.

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Laura Lee Kenny: He was able to to really excel and do things. But it was so interesting he doesn't remember that switch that he did.

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Lis Karin: No, it's.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Was. It was like he was a different person.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And it was lovely that he wasn't complain. Like everybody for certain jobs. There's always some things that don't go right, and you're disappointed. And you know we're human, and we complain. But he was doing it all the time, and I was just like this is not a way to live, and I had no education in, in self development, self-improvement whatsoever. I just knew that was not

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Laura Lee Kenny: like this was not good, because that was not the man I married I would never have married a man that complained all the time.

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Lis Karin: No.

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Lis Karin: but it's it's it's quite easy. If we make a committed decision. It's easy to change our way of thinking.

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Lis Karin: And use our perception to see things from another

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Lis Karin: point of view, and it becomes totally different. But if we are stuck and we are just complaining and standing and looking, and from the same

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Lis Karin: point of view

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Lis Karin: it's a choice. There are freedom for everyone, but we have to choose it. We have to choose it otherwise we are standing where we are, isn't it.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Yeah.

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Lis Karin: Alrighty!

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Laura Lee Kenny: Okay.

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Lis Karin: We all have to go through the same processes.

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Lis Karin: to do the best, or to do the thing, to step into the life we are meant to have because we are

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Lis Karin: created for a purpose. Each one of us have a different purpose. We have not the same purpose as anyone else.

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Lis Karin: but it's up to us

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Lis Karin: to choose to go that way.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Yeah.

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Laura Lee Kenny: you know, it's it's so interesting. One of my!

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Laura Lee Kenny: I called her my mentor

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Laura Lee Kenny: to somebody else. Sorry. Just a second, Edith

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Laura Lee Kenny: talking so much. Here.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Was my grandmother, who had

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Laura Lee Kenny: oh, my goodness! She didn't even have

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Laura Lee Kenny: her mom died when she was 6, so she probably only had a couple of years of education in the school system, and it would have been a 1 room schoolhouse

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Laura Lee Kenny: along with it.

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Laura Lee Kenny: But she was so

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Laura Lee Kenny: determined to do the best she could.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and it just it always

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Laura Lee Kenny: surprised me that she was so

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Laura Lee Kenny: thankful and happy

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Laura Lee Kenny: for everything that she had, and she worked hard. Oh, my goodness! On a little hobby farm that lady worked hard, but she didn't complain.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Laura Lee Kenny: She did what she needed to do, or she felt that she needed to do.

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Lis Karin: Hmm.

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Laura Lee Kenny: There's a lot of times what was expected of her.

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Laura Lee Kenny: but she had such a wonderful attitude.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Lis Karin: it's the attitude. It's it's everything. Actually.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Yeah.

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Lis Karin: You know I read one period in my life I to find my identity, and to find the belonging. I jumped wholeheartedly into the Christian church, I mean the formal church, you know the organized church. I was not brought up, grown up in any.

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Lis Karin: and it.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Organize.

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Lis Karin: Anything near. No, not at all. But when I was 26, newly married it was I jumped in to. I met a woman, you know, that took me with her to the church, and I I just I was so hungry for belonging to some.

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Lis Karin: Something in this world. So I

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Lis Karin: just went in there, and I read the Bible from from start to finish many times, you know, from the 1st book of Moses to the Book of Revelation.

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Lis Karin: and people said, You don't. You should not read the Bible in that way. It's not the right way to read the Bible.

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Laura Lee Kenny: True. Yeah, I didn't know that to later. But there is a sequence that makes more sense.

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Lis Karin: Yes, it is, and it's the New Testament that they speak so. But now I see the Bible in another way, because the Bible speaks about or not the Bible, but people to say,

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Lis Karin: read the Bible, the Christian Church read the Bible as God is something outside of us.

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Lis Karin: we I can't explain it in English, but but

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Lis Karin: we God is inside of us. We are created in the image of God. The Spirit is the Creator. It's God, and if you read it as Thomas Trowart is one of my favorites, and every God that another author.

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Lis Karin: I mean they have it. They explain the Bible, and many others too, in another way. And so for me, I'm so happy and grateful that I know my Bible because there are coming up quotes from the Bible all the time in different situations, and one affirmation I have every morning, or it's the psalm psalm 23. That King David wrote.

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Lis Karin: the Lord is my shepherd. I shall not want he, he! Take me to green Pasteurs, where I find peace.

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Lis Karin: and that is enough information I have, and I believe in it wholeheartedly. I will never! I never want I never! I am never in need. I have everything I need always.

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Lis Karin: The Bible.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Beautiful.

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Lis Karin: The the one that are grateful will never have any needs.

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Lis Karin: And

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Lis Karin: if you read the Bible at Christian Science, though, like it's, it gives such a clarity. And and

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Lis Karin: I mean, it's it's amazing. So so it's.

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Lis Karin: you know what we believe we will achieve. And if if we if we believe and in.

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Lis Karin: if we work with the laws, the laws are the way that the universe is uphold with. We have to.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Shit.

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Lis Karin: Work with the laws, otherwise it's not good. But if we do, and we believe, and where we believe some it it it it's the way

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Lis Karin: we get our life actually.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Oh, it is so! I had to laugh about the laws of the universe.

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Laura Lee Kenny: You won't go to jail if you break those laws. But you won't grow and do fulfillment if you don't follow those laws.

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Lis Karin: Exactly exactly. It's so true. And the more we study this literally, the deeper these truths become. I mean, because it's limitless. It's limitless. And we can't always explain everything with our words, because it's so much bigger than our words. It's something we have to experience.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Oh, absolutely! It's something you brought up about the Bible. I didn't realize this. Oh, my goodness! A couple of quick stories to tell you about the Bible.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I grew up with my, and I stayed a lot with my grandparents because my mom was going in the hospital having children and back. Then they

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Laura Lee Kenny: And I believe she had.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I believe she went to the hospital to have all the children, but it was around that time a lot of children were born at home, but Mom didn't have the luxury of her mother and father helping her out with the children.

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Laura Lee Kenny: But my Dad's mom was there to help out, so they would. We would get shipped off to different relatives when Mom would go in the hospital to have a new baby and

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Laura Lee Kenny: Anyway. Long story short, I stayed there a lot, and anytime in the summertime and stuff, but I remember at 5 my grammy coming home, and she loved her Bible.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and she was telling me

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Laura Lee Kenny: that it's easier. She's learning.

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Laura Lee Kenny: She she loved me, and I loved her, and she did not realize the limiting belief she was telling me. But it was about the camel going through the eye of a needle, and I pictured at 5 years of age, the sewing needle, because that's all I knew.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I did not know that there was an arch

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Laura Lee Kenny: for it to go into a castle, or whatever that was called the eye of a needle, and a camel would have to crunch that it was a smaller door for the camel to go through. So I you know there's like it's easier for for a camel to walk through the eye of a needle than a rich man to get into heaven. I'm like

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Laura Lee Kenny: you'll never get into habit.

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Laura Lee Kenny: The camel can't go through the eye of a needle, so those silly little things in the back of your mind, and I can remember her telling me that if she only had turned the page it showed me what the eye of a needle was, and the camel going through it.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I would have had a different point of view on that.

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Laura Lee Kenny: for sure.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and also

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Laura Lee Kenny: different religions and

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Laura Lee Kenny: the difference

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Laura Lee Kenny: certain parts of the Bible were wrote at a certain time. Then it depends. As an example, King James. Different rulers had different chapters written, or their Bible written for how they felt.

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Laura Lee Kenny: So that's why we got we get all of these different versions of variants of the Bible itself.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Because we all, I honestly, I cannot believe that there can be hundreds of different religions, and everybody thinking that their God is the only God.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And I guess, like, how can

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Laura Lee Kenny: that happened like there's no way that can happen. So I don't have a problem. I could go to almost anybody's church

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Laura Lee Kenny: there, and I say, almost anybody

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Laura Lee Kenny: depending on. If the if there were, if there were

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Laura Lee Kenny: doing their profession to to God, to the universe, you know.

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Laura Lee Kenny: But some people also have a sadistic

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Laura Lee Kenny: religion. I could not. I don't want to see any part of that, but I can appreciate that. Each of them feel that their God is the supreme ruler.

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Laura Lee Kenny: But so much of it was is just like you had said that their God is up here.

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Laura Lee Kenny: not in us.

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Lis Karin: Hmm.

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Lis Karin: yeah, yeah.

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Lis Karin: And I think it's very

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Lis Karin: the the ego way

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Lis Karin: for human to we have. There are different gods.

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Lis Karin: Some people have money as their god, we should not have money should should not be our ruler. You know money should be. It's an energy, and we should have a lot of money, because that's in this

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Lis Karin: society. We need money to change.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Yeah, to do the exchange to live. That's how we. That's how we live these days. It's not a barter system anymore.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Laura Lee Kenny: You're absolutely right.

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Lis Karin: Yeah. So nothing should be our ruler.

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Lis Karin: because nothing can be if we don't allow it to be

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Lis Karin: so.

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Lis Karin: That's true happiness. I wake up happy every morning because I have happiness inside of me. I know why I'm here. I know where I am going to, and

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Lis Karin: people that's

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Lis Karin: that hook up their happiness on other people, or on money, or on success in the business, or whatever it is outside of us.

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Lis Karin: There can't be real happiness, because we are always afraid to lose it.

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Lis Karin: but the thing we have inside we never. We can't lose it, and

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Lis Karin: then I can enjoy all the the richest, the prosperity I have in this life, because I'm not afraid of losing it.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Yeah, yeah. And I have to admit, there's probably not much anybody could tell me

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Laura Lee Kenny: or say to me that I have not done or heard.

Lee Kenny: and most of the choices I have made in my past.

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Laura Lee Kenny: I could have been a millionaire, a very young age if I had had some guidance

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Laura Lee Kenny: some education on some things, but I've made a lot of choices that if I had to do it over again

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Laura Lee Kenny: oh, I hope that I would have learned from some of those choices. And yes, they've got me to where I am now.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And that's how I think I can relate to people about their choices like I didn't know that I had money wounds.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and that they can be healed

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Laura Lee Kenny: just like any other wounds can be healed.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Lis Karin: yeah, really, yeah.

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Lis Karin: time flies when when we have so much to speak about literally. Thank you so much to to sharing things with me here and with our listeners.

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Lis Karin: I'm very grateful for it. Is this something you want to end up this call with.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Oh, well, I really do suggest people find themselves a mentor to start somewhere, and if they feel that they can't even do that, go find a book. Oh, my gosh, nowadays! Go on Youtube and listen to podcasts. Listen to people, talk

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Laura Lee Kenny: about

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Laura Lee Kenny: how they've changed their lives, how they've up, leveled their lives. It really, it's so accessible all the information is out there. But if we have a guide, if we have a coach, a mentor.

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Laura Lee Kenny: somebody that will be an accountability partner to them, because left on our own. Oh, my goodness gracious! Life gets in the way.

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Lis Karin: Hmm.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And we don't get things completed. We don't do things that we want to, but if if you can find somebody that will hold you accountable, you'll make

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Laura Lee Kenny: what we call the quantum leaps so much faster.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And trust me, I was scared to death

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Laura Lee Kenny: to to invest in high end coaches for me. I was like, where am I going to get the money? I can't take that from my retirement fund. All these excuses

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Laura Lee Kenny: now, I say, when I'm presented with an opportunity.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Oh, that sounds wonderful!

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Laura Lee Kenny: Let's

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Laura Lee Kenny: universe. I welcome you to help me find out how I can do this.

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Laura Lee Kenny: And I asked, and so often there's something that'll happen and be open to receiving free money.

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Laura Lee Kenny: 3 opportunities

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Laura Lee Kenny: because they are there.

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Laura Lee Kenny: because I said something to somebody that I held in high regard. I can't believe I'm having this opportunity to do this

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Laura Lee Kenny: poorly. There's all kinds of opportunities out there. You just have to be open to receiving them, to seeing them 1st in order to receive them.

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Laura Lee Kenny: and some of the things that

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Laura Lee Kenny: have been put in front of me. I'm just like.

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Laura Lee Kenny: wow!

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Laura Lee Kenny: I think I am a badass, and I say it with fun and joy. Now.

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Lis Karin: Yeah.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Instead of what I thought of it before.

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Lis Karin: Yeah, you are a badass laurelly.

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Lis Karin: I I really love to have you with me today. Laura Lee. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much.

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Laura Lee Kenny: Oh, my pleasure. And I look forward to you having me

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Laura Lee Kenny: having you on my money mindset. Pod mentors podcast. Will be so much fun. We can continue this conversation.

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Lis Karin: Yeah, we can absolutely, absolutely and thank you so much to all of you that listen

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Lis Karin: to the podcast. I am Liz, Karen, and this is House of fulfillment Podcast.

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Lis Karin: See you soon.