Parenting Shrink Wrapped

#17: Is My Kid a Jerk? Handling Middle School Behavior & Big Emotions

Samantha Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner Season 1 Episode 17

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Middle schoolers can test every parenting instinct, especially when their behavior at school doesn’t match the values you’ve worked so hard to teach them. In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam and Melissa respond to a listener’s concern about her 13-year-old son—who is smart, confident, and well-liked, but has been acting out and getting in trouble at school.

They dive into why middle schoolers struggle with impulse control, how brain development impacts decision-making, and why peer approval often overrides parental expectations. Sam and Melissa also discuss the "You Screwed Up" conversation framework, how to approach discipline with curiosity instead of shame, and why a single bad report doesn’t mean you’re raising a toxic kid.

If you’ve ever worried about your child's behavior or found yourself over-apologizing to teachers, this episode is for you.

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