Parenting Shrink Wrapped

#43 Parenting Judgement: Why It Hurts and How to Stop It

Samantha Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner Episode 43

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In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam and Melissa unpack the sting of parenting judgment—both giving it and receiving it. Melissa shares a real-life Dunkin’ Donuts story involving a five-year-old, a pair of scissors, and an impromptu 80s rocker haircut that sparked an unhelpful comment from a stranger.

Together, Sam and Melissa explore why parents judge each other, how comparison is hardwired into our brains, and the damage it can do to our sense of community. They offer practical ways to shift from judgment to curiosity and compassion—reminding us that every parent is doing their best and that parenting was never meant to be done alone.

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