Parenting Shrink Wrapped

#55 Thanks, But No: Holding Boundaries With Other Parents Without Burning Bridges

Samantha Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner Episode 55

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In this episode, Sam and Melissa unpack one of the most common parenting challenges: setting boundaries with other parents. From playdates and birthday parties to sleepovers, tech rules, and teen hangouts, every stage brings new situations that test your comfort level and your values.

Sam shares personal stories and practical strategies for saying “no” kindly, navigating awkward moments, and using the word “and” to hold firm boundaries while still supporting your child’s social life. Melissa highlights how people-pleasing patterns from our own childhoods can make boundary-setting feel harder than it should.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Set clear, values-based boundaries
  • Decline invitations without guilt or over-explaining
  • Talk with your kids about limits with empathy and clarity
  • Handle tricky parent-to-parent dynamics at any age

This episode will help you approach boundaries with confidence — and model healthy decision-making for your kids.

Get expert support, fresh strategies, and a judgment-free parent community—so you can stop feeling stuck and start parenting your teen with more clarity, confidence, and connection.

You know when your kid screws up in some way, and you're sure of the lesson you want them to learn from it....but you’re not sure how to say it in a way they’ll actually hear?  

Download Sam's free video guide that walks you through a simple, step-by-step process for handling these tough conversations called the L.O.V.E.D. framework.  

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