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Prenups for modern couples with divorce attorney Aaron Thomas / 44

Emily Batdorf & Cassidy Horton Season 1 Episode 44

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Would you sign a contract governing half your assets and your entire financial future without reading it first? Because that's exactly what happens when you get married without a prenup.

Harvard lawyer Aaron Thomas spent years watching couples drain their savings in divorce court before he realized something crucial: marriage is already a financial contract. You're just letting the state write the terms instead of writing them yourself.

In this episode, Aaron makes the case that prenups aren't about planning for divorce — they're about having the money conversations most couples avoid until it's too late.

✨ Episode Highlights ✨

  • [1:00] How one Love Is Blind moment captured the classic misconception of prenups
  • [3:00] What Aaron learned after 1,000+ divorces that completely changed his mind about prenups
  • [10:00] The #1 money issue destroying marriages — lack of transparency and what it really means
  • [17:00] Why prenups are MORE important for middle-class couples than wealthy ones
  • [21:00] How marriage has changed from garage startup to corporate merger since the 1960s
  • [28:00] What lower-earning partners should ask for in a prenup (and why it protects them)
  • [32:00] Aaron's exact script for bringing up the prenup conversation without causing drama
  • [39:00] What about postnups? Yes, you can still protect yourself if you're already married
  • [45:00] If Aaron were dictator: Why prenups should be the default for everyone


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