In Her Prime

The Power of Being Unliked: Turning Rejection Into Redirection

• House of Movement • Season 1 • Episode 30

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In this episode, we talk about the freedom that comes from not being everyone’s cup of tea. From fear-based decisions to moments of rejection that felt personal — we’re getting real about the times we tried to fit in, please everyone, or play it safe, and how those moments always led us further away from who we actually are.

We share personal stories of times we said “yes” out of fear, chased validation, or felt rejected — and how every redirection ended up leading us exactly where we were meant to be. If you’ve ever felt like you’re too much, not enough, or just not someone’s “type,” this one’s for you.

SPEAKER_00:

Hi guys, welcome back to Inner Prime. I'm Elise. And I'm Dom. This week we are really gonna hone in on how I feel like as not only just like young women and like young founders, but just as like people, we are so ingrained to make fear-based decisions on such a regular basis. And I don't know, I was listening to a podcast recently and I they were talking about it.

SPEAKER_01:

Was it the one that you sent me? The Dairy With the CEO.

SPEAKER_00:

I love Dairy CEO. And they were just talking about how I feel like sometimes we let fear like rule our life and like dictate our decisions. And it made me like tune into myself and realize that even personally, like I do this day to day. So I'm excited to talk about it.

SPEAKER_01:

We start off every episode with Peek and Pitt. So highlighting something that's going really well and something that just absolutely sucks. I guess I can start with myself. I'll do something really good that's been happening lately. I recently just got a raise, which I'm very excited about. But with an added raise, obviously comes added responsibility. And I was, I like called the lease today in the morning. And I think when it hit me on Friday when I got the email being like, hey, we read over your proposal, like we'll accept your new raise. I was like, oh my God, this is great. Like I'm making more money. And then today I was like, holy fuck. Like, I actually got to work. Like we get more work. Like I have to, like I have to do more. And it hit me today and it actually gave me so much anxiety. And all day I felt so stressed out. Not because it's I didn't propose work, obviously, that I couldn't handle. It was just now the fact that I'm like, okay, like I really need to be so much smarter with my time. Yeah. And I actually went on Amazon on Friday as soon as they accepted the break. And I got one of those planners that has it's like timed by the hour. So today I literally wrote down by the hour like what I'm doing. And there was a podcast that I was listening to, and it's actually like a study where it says if you allot yourself a certain amount of time to complete a task, that's actually how long it's gonna take you.

SPEAKER_00:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

So like I sometimes think things are gonna take me so much longer. And I'm like, oh, it's gonna take me two hours. And I literally time blocked it say in 30 minutes. I was like, you must do this for 30 minutes and then move on to the next. And I was like, oh, I actually got it done. Especially if you like don't go on your phone and stuff.

SPEAKER_00:

Like I was actually, I work or I like kind of edit and stuff for Phoebe Gates, and she time blocks to a tea. Like it's like two-minute tea break.

SPEAKER_01:

No, but there was a this girl that I was listening to on TikTok. She has this uh journal, and it's like a half manifestation journal, half uh like hourly planner. And she was like, I literally time, I give myself time to doom scroll. And she's like, I literally give myself time in the morning and time at night and like 20 minutes during the day to just actually sit on my phone and do what I want. And that's like that reset that I need in between tasks. So I'm obviously like not timing time blocking down to like the very minute, but I was thinking that this would be a really good course of action for me to do, especially with like balancing my corporate, balancing a freelance, and balancing um house of movement. But I will say putting things down on paper actually makes me realize it's not that much. Like I think you get so like I was so wrapped up today. Like I woke up at seven and I was like, oh my God. I'm like, I have 500 things to do. But then I like actually sat it down and then I prioritized it. I'm like, okay, this can actually wait till like Wednesday. Like I don't need to get it done. And then I just like categorized it and it actually made me feel so much better. So that was that that's a peak. Like I'm really happy.

SPEAKER_00:

I try and do that every Sunday is like make a big task list of everything I have to do for like client, house and movement, in life, personal. Yeah. And I like sort of filter that throughout the week, and you sort of realize that saying you don't have time for stuff is just an excuse.

SPEAKER_01:

Cause like you it also just makes you realize though, like things are so attainable. If you really just sit and like categorize it by like, there was another, another thing I saw on TikTok, but there was this girl who just she is like a Stanford medical student, and she's like, I've been implementing this in my life since I was in high school. And basically you categorize things, and if you can get it done in under five minutes, under 30 minutes, and over 30 minutes. And she's like, I put it in three different sections. So she was like, emails will like, I'll do it in five minutes. And then she was like, it actually lets you know how much time things actually take instead of being like, oh, this will take me two hours or like three hours, or like I need an entire afternoon. And she's like, that's how like I study and I do papers and I like just break down everything in my life. So today, like you realize you're like, oh, I have 20 things that I need to get done this week, but then you're like, okay, but like half of them will take me 20 minutes.

SPEAKER_00:

I think sometimes like it just feels like overwhelming when it's all in your head and like I'm such a writer, like I have to like write it down.

SPEAKER_01:

Like I obviously have it in my notes app on my phone and stuff, but I think there's a difference between like a writer, but I've been doing it and like just the physical task of checking things off make me feel really good.

SPEAKER_00:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

So I would say that's my peak pit. Okay, I feel like my pit is like consistent when I talk about House of Movement, and it's just I want a mentor. Like I'm just gonna I'm just gonna like flat out say it. I think I think starting something, there's so many people that glamorize it, and it's so cool to have something under your name, but at the same time, it's like you're literally putting your name and your brand and your energy out on the internet for like scrutiny, for like judgment, for people to just talk about it. And I think it become become can become so overwhelming.

SPEAKER_00:

And I think I think like the obviously starting a business is so hard, and there's so much about it that you know, me two years ago would never even know. Like, I think it's like life experience, and even I was talking to my boyfriend last night, and he was like, I have stepped back on helping you the past like eight months because like you need to make your own mistakes, just like I made my own mistakes. Yeah, and like that has made even just me as like a person learn and grow so much to the point where like I can offer other people advice.

SPEAKER_01:

I'm getting comfy.

unknown:

Yep.

SPEAKER_00:

Um, and I think I have always worked freelance, so I have always been doing house movement like in the back of my head, just because I think which you've probably now come to realize working freelance is it's you're working for yourself. Yeah. And I think in a lot of ways, working freelance and building a company really do go hand in hand because it teaches you a lot about time management, it teaches you a lot that like quick return is. You have to be like very self-sufficient, you have to be very self-sufficient. And I think maybe you two years ago were not in a place to mentally or whatever it was to be able to take on a freelance client, but now, like, even the past like six months, like I have seen you grow so much as like a person personally, work-wise, like just as a whole. And I think we've really recently realized that this is not a hobby.

SPEAKER_01:

This is like no, like we want at least and I like talk about this all the time. I want House of Movement, the brand itself, to be our full-time job. But I think we've gotten to the point where we need we just need external help. We need guidance. We need guidance. And I think there's so many, there's so many things and there's so many topics and there's so many questions that we just don't know. And it's really hard when we can't just like quit our full-time jobs to like start something that absolutely gives us no money. And I don't think that, and I think that that's a really big reality for people that start brand, like anything that you're starting off, like I see so many videos online of people like you're doing the same thing. You're like, Yeah, I'm getting comfy. I see so many people online being like, Yeah, I had a full-time corporate job for the first like three years of running my of starting a business because like you need something on the side. But I just like I'm really happy that we have your boyfriend. We have like my dad is a great soundboard for the two of us, and we actually met with him today. We have like another person that is hopefully turning into a mentor, but I just wish like I wish we could have someone in-house that I think over time that will come. Like, I know and I know I know it will come, and I think we've finally like I would say even the past like week and a half, we've made strides. We've made like really big strides of like where we see ourselves in the next year, and like how are we actually gonna scale this into something that has longevity that can be profitable, that can grow and scale, and that people can look in or people can look in from the outside and be like, oh, okay, like these girls are actually doing something, and they're not just silly little event planners from Toronto, like throwing things together.

SPEAKER_00:

I think like this ties into my pit a little bit because not that money has been a large stressor in my life, like I'm fortunate, I feel like, to have sort of a mindset that like money comes and goes, which I know is like a hard mindset to come to terms with. But being transparent, I currently am probably making the lowest income that I have made in a while. And it is with like the purpose of my time and energy is like being consumed into something that like I picture as long-term gain.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00:

And I knew what I was setting myself up for. I know that realistically, like I can make more money, I can pick up new clients, like it's not a concern. It's more so it is like sacrifice right now, and I'm willing to make that sacrifice, but that doesn't mean that sometimes it's like Yeah, it doesn't get to you.

SPEAKER_01:

No, I know.

SPEAKER_00:

It's sometimes it's tough, but at the end of the day, like I could pay my bills, and that's fine.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah. So something though I am really proud of, I think we're trying to, and that was kind of like the biggest thing that I took away from the phone call that we had today with my dad is I'm I want to figure out a way for us to like work smarter and not harder. Like we don't need to be putting in 50,000 hours a week, like if we just like pre-planned and like did all these things that we've been saying that we know. Like at least and I are like, we talk things and we're like, okay, if we go back in our conversation for the past like six months, like we said this. Yeah, it's just like actually doing it. And I think we both just want the same thing.

SPEAKER_00:

I I was just gonna say that. I think like finally we are like on the same page and we're like turning the same page at the same time. So I think it's like pros and cons. My peak your peak. Um my sister visited this past weekend, yeah, and like it's always nice to see her and her baby, and he's so cute, but he is a handful.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, I get baby fever from really, really, really far away. Like, I I see all of the just stress, I think, is like the right, I think could be the correct way to describe it. And I think moms don't get enough appreciation, especially young moms who are still working and who are still young and want to have a life and oh, like full props to Lauren.

SPEAKER_00:

Like, I don't think Lauren obviously has like a large social media following, and I don't think anybody really even knows that she had a baby because she doesn't advertise it, and like when she was pregnant, you didn't really know, and like she still works full time like dog, and it's it's insane.

SPEAKER_01:

Like, I I don't know how she does it, but like she's well, you have this like full little being who's just dependent on you, yeah. Like, I think it just lights a fire under your ass, it's unexplainable unless you have kids, like you just like have to keep going. Yeah, like it's not just a lot of people.

SPEAKER_00:

She's like, I just I gotta keep going. I slept for two hours last night, but I gotta keep it going.

SPEAKER_01:

Like, at least sleeps for seven, and she's like, Yeah, I sleep for nine, and I'm like, Like, oh my god. Okay, let's dive in to today's topic. We kind of just want to talk talk about the freedom that comes with realizing that you're not gonna be liked by everyone.

SPEAKER_00:

And I think something that I have learned over the years, but it obviously ebbs and flows, is at the end of the day, rejection is redirection, whether that is like friendships, work, relationships, whatever it is.

SPEAKER_01:

Okay, wait, sorry. Talking about that, you know what I was thinking about when you sent me this top podcast topic? Remember that job that I rejected? Barry's? Yeah. Remember when I was so so I applied to Barry's Canada to be what what was the role? Like they're uh nationwide marketing manager. So I'd be like running, anyways, they're three locations. And I remember when they turned when they said no, I was like, but her. Yeah. Like actually, I was like, like, I was like, my ego was shot. Like, I thought I killed that interview. And I remember you texted me. You're like, no, it's okay. Like it just wasn't meant to be like rejection is redirection.

SPEAKER_00:

And like looking now, like I would have never You would have never gotten the opportunity that you have now, which probably pays significantly more.

SPEAKER_01:

But I'm saying, like, I think it's just so hard in the moment when you get so down and you're like, oh, like this sucks, and everything is working against me, and nothing is aligning, and I have no opportunities, and I just I'm a failure. And like two months, three months later, you're like, oh wait, like I feel so much better.

SPEAKER_00:

I think especially when it comes to like friendships, I think obviously we run like a women's community, and our whole goal at the end of the day is to like connect you with other women and like make you feel empowered. And even from us, like sometimes people just don't want to be your friend or you don't want to be somebody else's friend, and the connection is just not there. And I think coming to a place where you feel completely fine with the fact that you know what, maybe you are not for everybody and everybody is not for you. And I think when you try and hold on to situations that are just like not meant for you, nothing good comes out of that case scenario and you end up pouring energy into something that just does not want to be there. And I think when you are able to like take that step back and realize, okay, I am like a high-powered individual, I'm confident, I'm smart, I'm all these things, you're lost. If you don't want to hire me, you're lost. If you don't want to be my friend, you're lost. If you don't want to be in a relationship with me, you're lost. Like I think once you are able to like adapt that mindset, then a lot of really great things come your way. But when you're holding on to something that is just truly not meant for you, then I think you're just like holding on to dead weight.

SPEAKER_01:

The most recent, the episode that you sent me of I don't I don't remember, I don't remember who the lady was, but it was a diary of a CEO. And one of the parts she was talking about was there are so many different actors in your life. And she was like, You need to, as an individual, come to terms with the fact that there's people that are gonna hurt you, there's people that are not gonna like you, there's people that are going to spite you, there's people that are just never going to want to be your friend. And if you can come to terms with that, that is so much self-peace that you can bring yourself with just understanding that concept in life. And people are gonna do so many things that is just gonna work very against you. And I remember like hearing that is like exactly what we're talking about today.

SPEAKER_00:

And I think like also realizing that people fit into different boxes in your life, and at the end of the day, like not everybody has to fit into like this high-level box. People come to your life for different reasons. Not everybody needs to be your best friend, like you can have people that you just text to go and work out with, or that you just text when you know you want to grab a coffee. I think we grow up in like a society with like trade school and high school and university where we're constantly surrounded by other people our age, and it's kind of like at an age where your whole day-to-day is like dedicated towards connecting with other people. And then you leave university and you realize everybody has their own lives and everybody is like living their life and working, and maybe they don't have as much time, you know, for you as they had previously. And I think that was almost like a hard reality that I also had to come to terms with is sometimes you have to book three weeks out with somebody, and that's life.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah. Whereas in university, like, hey, do you wanna it was like day of plan, and it was like, hey, what are you doing this afternoon? And it was like, these are our plans for the weekend. And I feel like your life was centralized around the fact that like you were very social and you're going out and you're making friends, and now it's like I'm gonna use a the example of I sent out save the dates for my birthday, like six weeks my like before. And I had a lot of friends who are like, sorry, like I'm busy. I already had plans and I said it to you. I'm like, that's like just the reality of growing up and having like different timelines and schedules, and people have plans, and there's so many things going on that I'm like, you're right, like your November 8th does not revolve around my birthday, and that's just like how like it's just like a realization.

SPEAKER_00:

But when you're younger, I really saw I'm gonna tell you what it was after, but you saw what? I saw somebody we both know post-I don't know if it was like a story or a TikTok or whatever recently being like um like was it like a repost? No, it was like a full post, being like my birthday is like the one day a year where like I expect full effort and stuff. And I think me a couple years ago maybe would have agreed with that.

SPEAKER_01:

Was it who I think it is?

SPEAKER_00:

Probably.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, okay.

SPEAKER_00:

And um I think me now sort of disagrees with that because I think if somebody is like showing up consistently in your life and like, you know, this one day a year happens to be birthday.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah, I think I think the notion around birthdays personally gives me so much anxiety because I will, I'll like, I'll be the first to admit, like growing up in high school and university, there was so much pressure around your birthday of how many people were gonna post you on their story, how many people were gonna come to your birthday, how many people were gonna chip for your booth? Were you was this gonna be like the best year or the best day of the year? And like now, thinking about my birthday now to the front, like to people that I've invited, I'm like, I don't want a gift, I don't want a story, I don't want anything. I'm like, I literally just want you to come to dinner and like to come and like bring whoever you want. Like I literally just want like friends and to eat and like to have fun. Like I don't care. And like if you can't come, like that's fine. Like I'm not taking it personal if like you can't make it or if you have other plans at night. Like I extended the invite to like close friends of mine, but then to people that I've met, even then past year, that I'm like, no, like I genuinely I may have not known you for that long, but you may have me. But I have fun with you and you make me feel good, and you're someone that supports me and that I can just be myself around. I'm like, I want you to come to my birthday.

SPEAKER_00:

And I just think that shows growth and that sort of ties back into the it's okay to not be everybody's cup of tea, and it's okay that you know people do things day to day that like might upset you because at the end of the day it only upset you.

SPEAKER_01:

What that podcast was about that that one portion, at least send it to me. She's like, listen to five, five to fifteen. And she was literally talking about how there's things that people are gonna do, and like you just need to come to terms with that. And I feel like I've you and I have talked about it a lot where you just have to like sit with it and it's like. Oh, I wasn't listening to that episode and I'm like, I need to send this to Dom. Yeah, but it's not that personal. Like me a year ago, if someone was like, sorry, I already have plans, I would have been like wildly offended. I'm like, how could you possibly have like, but it's like it just doesn't it's just not that deep, it's just like not that deep.

SPEAKER_00:

It's as personal as you make it, yeah. And I think this all ties into fear-based moves and fear-based decisions. Like, I think why are you getting so upset about this? Is it like you fear that like you don't have people in your corner? Is it you fear that you don't have, you know, maybe the strongest relationships that you thought you had?

SPEAKER_01:

I think I think when people react like that though, the situation triggers them. And then it not to act like a therapist in that situation, but it really you just like need to really understand like this is not on you. Yeah, like someone reacting poorly or someone not acting the way that you want. And then you also could think, be like, why am I getting so upset?

SPEAKER_00:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

Like, why am I getting so upset that this per I'm gonna use a birthday? Like, why am I getting so upset that this person's not coming to my birthday? It's like, did you even really want them there? Are they even really a good friend? Like, I don't know. That's hard though.

SPEAKER_00:

I think as humans, it's human nature to make like to think fear-based or make fear-based decisions. Like it just, it is what it is. But the problem is when you let it become your identity in a way, whether it's like the birthday situation where like you are like ending a friendship over something as minute as this, or you know, you don't quit that job that you've been wanting to quit because you know you're scared you won't find another one, or you settle in a relationship because you feel like you're getting older and you've had a hard time finding somebody, or you know, you don't let a certain friendship go because of like the fear that you know you've put so much time and energy into this person and they, you know, know so much about you, yet they're like kind of providing like a little bit of toxicity in your life, and you sort of let it slide. Like I think day to day we make so many fear-based decisions, like even in our company, like there's so many things that you know, at the end of the day, you will never be a hundred percent sure what the decisions that you make. But as long as like your gut feels like this decision is the right decision, then that's how you proceed. I think so often we rely on other people's opinions to guide our direction. But unless that person is somebody you like majorly look up to in every aspect of life, at the end of the day, like you need to guide your decisions. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

And like that's I think if I applying this to myself, I think the biggest Okay, let me reword that. I think when it came to friends, like when it comes to friendships, I think a lot of time I wouldn't end things out of fear just because I'm not gonna have more friends, or me cutting this person off, what does that then associate with my outer circle? Like I can't be friends with this person because I'm not friends with them anymore. And I think that's a very, or at least that was like a very immature way of thinking. Like I would genuinely just not end things, or I would not address things, or I would just let things slide out of the fear of retaliation or the fear of confrontation or the fear of it blowing up way bigger in my face. And I think down the line, or I think down the line, like it would be better if I just did that like right on the sp- like right the the moment it happened.

SPEAKER_00:

I mean, I think even for me, I obviously like I feel like was known at one point to do the social media for Azure, like the Activeware Company. And I had been there for a year and like I still love the company and I love all the people that work there, but I feel like I came to a point where my role wasn't really going to evolve. Like it's just it it wasn't going to based on the needs of the company. And I just felt like as a person I needed room to grow, and I knew I wasn't gonna get it there, and obviously, like that was such a scary decision for me because it was like such a safety net, and it's something I had been doing for the past year, and I felt comfortable in this position, and it was really honestly scary to like leave a position like that, and it ended up doing it, and being completely honest, like I regretted leaving for months after. And now looking back, I don't regret it at all because I think it made me grow so much as a person and it brought me to where I am now.

SPEAKER_01:

But this was like a big dilemma that you and I went back and forth and we sat with it of like what should Elise do moving forward? Like, what is the best course of action? And then we were like, okay, but what is she gonna do next? Is she gonna be able to pick up a client? What is her relationship with the brand? What does that mean now? Like, this was something that you really sat with.

SPEAKER_00:

I sat with it because I obviously like I didn't want to burn bridges either. Like, I didn't want to make it weird because I do like everybody that works there and like the owner and everything. So looking back, I know I made the right decision and I'm happy I did that. But at the time, like it was hard.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00:

And it was like a lot of like anxiety, and like for months, I was like, you know what, I shouldn't have quit. But now I'm like, no, no, I shouldn't. I did and and I should have.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah. I feel like that though with my previous relationship.

SPEAKER_00:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

Like I sat on that decision for a really long time. Like a really, really, really long time. And I think I knew for many reasons and for like many months before the breakup that this was something that needed to be done. And I would say the biggest thing that just didn't allow me to do that was fear. Yeah. Fear of how people were gonna perceive me, fear of my relationship with all of our friends, like where would that, like if that would even exist post-breakup, fear of what people would say, fear of being alone, fear of my independence, fear of like what does it mean to be single at the age of 24? And it wasn't until, I don't know, it was like, I think two things. I think it was just like A, having a nervous breakdown. And I was like, okay, no, I have to do this. Like, if I don't do this, like I'm just gonna sulk forever. And it's just crazy though, because I feel like every time like you provide an example like this, and then you're like, oh, now looking back, everything's great. And it's so hard when you're in that moment to adopt this my this mindset of like, oh, I just I know future me is gonna be okay, but like right now, like I need to just suffer.

SPEAKER_00:

And it's not always like sunshine and rainbows.

SPEAKER_01:

Like even it's not, and there's not like a timeline, like it's not like okay, I'm gonna make this decision now, and in three months I'm gonna feel better. Like it could be years or weeks, or like it doesn't, it just doesn't, you just don't know.

SPEAKER_00:

Even for my like fear-based decision, that was like an instantaneous thing. It was like a two-day thing. Like one day I was I was good, the next day I was like, you know what, no. Whereas like even with your previous relationship, like that was it was a long time.

SPEAKER_01:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00:

And I think that's often how it works with relationships is you've put so much time and energy into this person that I think it really does take a long time to come to like the final conclusion of like, okay, you know what, I'm gonna leave this. Like, I gotta go. But I think your fear of like you know, losing friends that you've built up over the years and like friend group and stuff like that did happen. Yeah, that did happen for you.

SPEAKER_01:

And it sucked, but now it sucks, but like now thinking about it, I'm like, does it really suck?

SPEAKER_00:

No, it doesn't really it doesn't suck because I think the thing is No, I know you and I can talk about this. I'm gonna say, I think I think it needed to happen for you to level up and for you to like mature and grow as a person.

SPEAKER_01:

Oh, a hundred years 50%. Like I think of myself back to even February of this year. Like who you would surround yourself with, just who I would surround myself with, not even just like my mindset. Like, I think that's the biggest thing of like how I viewed myself and how I viewed like my capabilities and my just like the things that I was willing to do for myself and like to take myself to the next level. But I think all of that stemmed from that decision. And I don't think I would ever have gotten to how how content I am right now if it wasn't for making that decision.

SPEAKER_00:

I still remember like us sitting on a boat in Miami being like, what does she do? Yeah, do you remember?

SPEAKER_01:

And I was like literally, I remember being in Miami after our second House of Movement event it was at my birthday. And it was for Elise's birthday, and we like had a lot of fun, and then we were like all sitting at the front of the boat, and I just was like, my mood went from like literally a hundred to zero. Like I was like having the time of my life, and then it all just like you're like, I have to go home. It all like sunk in. I was like, holy shit, I have to go home. And I had to like deal with what was waiting for me at home. And I was just like, guys, like what do I do? And then like I unloaded a bunch of shit on. Yeah, but I already knew. You already knew, but but your boyfriend and Nick didn't know, and I unloaded like all of this just drama, and I was like, okay, now like I'm like, that's that, but I will say like sometimes it's important to get like a male perspective, yeah.

SPEAKER_00:

And like I think their perspective like moved you to make the decision you made.

SPEAKER_01:

It's just crazy though, because I actually think about that like sporadically, and to think like being on that boat, I genuinely thought I was like, my life is over. Like I know it sounds so dramatic, but I was like, there's just like no up from here. I'm like, I'm just gonna be like fat, sad, and depressed forever.

SPEAKER_00:

God only knew what you're doing.

SPEAKER_01:

And just but like that's what I thought. I was like, this is it. Like, I'm just gonna like work my work my corporate job and like be depressed and not enjoy my summer and like sulk in my breakup. Yeah. And like I'm thriving now.

SPEAKER_00:

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01:

As I as I should be.

SPEAKER_00:

Yep. Period. Okay, thank you guys so much for listening to this week's episode. I hope that something we said was somewhat insightful. I know sometimes we ramble, but I like to think that we're wise.

SPEAKER_01:

I think wise for our age.

SPEAKER_00:

I think we're wise for our age.

SPEAKER_01:

We sorry. Please make sure that you're following us, obviously on House of Movement and both of our personals, and let us know what you want us to talk about.

SPEAKER_00:

I what guests you want.

SPEAKER_01:

Guests we we are actually, like I mentioned in this podcast, we are like really planning and really being intentional with events, podcast and newsletter, making sure that everything aligns. So we have like really good podcast guests that we want to bring on, but we're always really excited to hear your ideas. So yeah, thank you guys. Okay, see you. Bye.