
F That: Shift Your Perspective, Elevate Your Power
F That: Shift Your Perspective, Elevate Your Power is the go-to podcast for ambitious women who are ready to disrupt their own thinking, challenge societal norms, and own their voice like never before.
Hosted by Alexis Frank — life coach, business strategist, global thought leader, and soon-to-be author — this podcast delivers unfiltered insight, bold perspective shifts, and strategic mindset coaching to help you live, lead, and build with clarity and confidence.
Whether you’re navigating entrepreneurship, leveling up in leadership, or dismantling inherited limitations, Alexis gives you the no-BS tools to drop the distractions, trust your instincts, and rise in your purpose.
From boundaries to belief systems, legacy to leadership — nothing is off limits.
F That = Freedom That. Fuel That. Forward That.
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F That: Shift Your Perspective, Elevate Your Power
The Trap of Potential: Why You Can’t Save Someone Who Won’t Grow
In this eye-opening episode of F That: Shift Your Perspective, Elevate Your Power, Alexis Frank dives into the emotional trap of seeing “potential” in others — and what happens when you attach your peace, power, or plans to someone else's timeline.
Through personal stories and hard-earned wisdom, Alexis explores the concept of alternate timelines — the infinite paths people could take — and how dangerous it can be to hold someone to a future they never asked for.
This is a powerful reminder that leadership is not control, and love is not rescue.
🔥 You’ll Learn:
- Why seeing potential isn’t always a good thing
- The resentment that builds when people don’t meet your expectations
- How emotional intelligence reframes your relationships
- The illusion of control and the freedom in letting go
- How to model leadership through self-growth — not saving
If you’ve ever been hurt trying to fix, heal, or grow someone who didn’t ask for your help — this one is for you.
Timestamps (Chapters)
- 00:00 – Introduction to Alternate Timelines
- 02:41 – Recognizing Potential in Others
- 05:35 – The Dangers of Holding Others to Potential
- 08:45 – Personal Experiences with Potential
- 11:38 – The Illusion of Control
- 14:25 – Focusing on Self-Growth
- 17:16 – True Leadership and Setting Examples
- 20:04 – Recap and Closing Thoughts
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