She's Just Not That Into You
Welcome to the She’s Just Not That Into You podcast with Jiyoon Lee and Rhian Williams, where we’re redefining female experiences. Every week, we have honest and intimate conversations that we hope will inspire and empower not only each other, but women everywhere!
Episodes
27 episodes
How to enjoy being single as a woman
Despite what all the romcoms and Disney movies lead us to believe, being single as a woman is not just an unfortunate condition to be tolerated, it's something that you can actively enjoy! Research shows that by 2030, 45% of women a...
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Episode 27
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39:56
Book Club 03: The Wedding People by Alison Espach
In this Book Club episode, we discuss The Wedding People, a popular novel by Alison Espach. We discussed what we liked about the novel, especially how it touches on important feminist themes such as how modern-day wedding culture is...
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Episode 26
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37:16
Why it’s crucial to choose the right friends
In this episode, we discuss the importance of surrounding yourself with the right friends. A study at Harvard showed that your close friends determine your life outcomes such as your physical health, lifestyle choices, career prosp...
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Episode 25
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1:14:08
Beauty standards are killing women all over the world and how we can free ourselves
In this episode, we discuss how beauty standards universally affect women in every country all over the world, and how we can free ourselves.Beauty standards are highly subjective, shaped by the cultural and historical context of each sp...
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Episode 24
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49:04
Why women should never invest in a boyfriend
In this episode, we talk about why women should never invest in a boyfriend, or a man they’re dating.What do we mean by investing in a man? We mean investing your time, energy and money into a man you are dating (and not yet married or e...
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Episode 23
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43:23
10 life lessons we learnt from our twenties
In this episode, we discussed 10 things we wish we'd known when we were 21, summarising all the life lessons that we learnt from our 20s. We discussed everything from the importance of investing in your experiences and reading more ...
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Episode 22
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43:02
Film Club 02: Netflix Original TV Series "Black Doves"
For our second film club episode, we discussed Black Doves, a Netflix Original TV series. It's set in London and centres on a strong female protagonist Helen Webb (played by Kiera Knightley) who leads a double life as an undercover spy.
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Episode 21
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35:22
Shannon Read: What tattooing women has taught me about women
In this episode, we interviewed Shannon Read, a female tattooist who specialises in tattooing women. Shannon shared her experiences working in a male-dominated tattoo industry, which lead her to create her own female-friendly tattoo...
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Episode 20
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Why wedding culture is toxic and misogynistic
In this episode, we talk about why wedding culture is toxic and misogynistic. We’re not against weddings or marriage, but the way that most wedding ceremonies are performed feels outdated and misogynistic, and we rarely think to que...
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Episode 19
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42:35
Reclaim your power: why women need to learn to say no
In this episode, we discuss why women need to learn how to say no!Despite cultural differences between different countries, it’s still especially difficult for women to say no - in any culture! We explore how women are socially condition...
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Episode 18
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51:51
Book Club 02: Against White Feminism by Rafia Zakaria
In this episode, we discuss the powerful themes explored in the book Against White Feminism by Rafia Zakaria. We reflect on what it means to confront white feminism, by discussing its definition and the cultural forces that...
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Episode 17
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36:34
Haein Shim: Why some women are boycotting men
Giving up men is becoming a trend! And it all started with the 4B movement. In Korean, 4B stands for four “no’s”: no dating men, no sex with men, no marrying men, and no having children with men. It’s a bold feminist movement created by Korean ...
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Episode 16
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54:27
Everything you need to know about periods
In this episode, we talk about everything you need to know about menstruation! We discuss the stigma around periods, discrimination against women in medical healthcare, how society would be if it were men who got periods inst...
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Episode 15
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40:42
10 non-negotiables women need for sex with men
In this episode, we share 10 non-negotiables that heterosexual women need when having sex with men! We share why it’s important for women to have higher standards for sex than men do. We encourage women to work out what their own s...
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Episode 14
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How to stick to New Year's resolutions
Happy New Year! Our first episode of 2025 is about how to stick to your New Year’s resolutions.We discuss: why New Year’s resolutions often fail, the importance of setting realistic goals and expectations for yourself, and that it’s tot...
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Episode 13
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35:53
Film Club 01: The Substance by Coralie Fargeat
Our first Film Club episode is a deep discussion of Coralie Fargeat’s provocative and visually stunning film, The Substance. The film won Best Screenplay at the Cannes Film Festival, and is a shocking exploration of the impossible beau...
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Episode 12
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40:08
Dian Zhou’s experiences appearing on reality TV show ‘The Bachelor’
In this episode, we spoke with Dian Zhou about her experiences appearing on reality TV show The Bachelor Japan Season 5. Dian gave us an exciting glimpse into the behind-the-scenes of the filming process, including the best and wor...
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Episode 11
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36:57
Everything you need to know about female masturbation
In this episode, we’re covering everything you need to know about female masturbation—a topic that’s deeply personal and important, yet often silenced and ignored.We discussed: the stigma around female masturbation, differences between ...
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Episode 10
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48:15
How to make big life decisions using intuition
No matter where we are in life, we all face moments when we need to make big decisions that shape our future—whether it’s moving to a new country, changing careers, or deciding to get married.In these moments, intuition often serves as a...
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Episode 9
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40:47
Jiyoon’s first-hand experience of martial law in South Korea
On the night of 3rd December 2024, Jiyoon was at a vintage bar in Seoul, enjoying a glass of whisky with her friends. But everything changed as soon as this one news headline appeared on her phone: “Martial law declared.” Without h...
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Episode 8
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What's wrong with Black Cat Energy?
Have you heard of Black Cat Energy? Maybe you’ve seen it on Instagram or TikTok—those catchy videos comparing “black cats” and “golden retrievers” in relationships. If you found it funny, intriguing, or maybe just a little off, the...
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Episode 7
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25:18
Book Club 01: The Vegetarian by Han Kang
For our first Book Club episode, we’re discussing The Vegetarian by Han Kang, who was the first Asian woman and first Korean writer to win the Nobel Prize in Literature. We couldn’t think of a better choice than this powerful and deeply feminis...
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Episode 6
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47:25
Sarah Abdoo: Women’s community power against gender violence in Bolivia
Can you imagine packing up your life after university and heading to South America to start a community project? That’s exactly what Sarah Abdoo did. After graduating from Oxford University, she flew to Bolivia and began building connecti...
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Episode 5
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Making friends as an adult
In this episode, we discuss why it’s so hard to make friends as an adult, cultural differences towards friendship in different countries, whether we find it easier to be friends with guys or with girls, how our parents influence our friendships...
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Episode 4
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44:19
Camila Fumarola: Feminist victory for abortion rights in Argentina
Our first guest interview episode is with Camila Fumarola, an illustrator from Buenos Aires, Argentina. Camila talks about her participation in the protests there that lead to the legalization of free, accessible abortions in Argentina.
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Episode 3
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