Chainbreaker
The podcast dedicated to helping men to work through their sex, porn, and masturbation addictions.
Episodes
37 episodes
E37: Weening Yourself Off Of Sexual Addiction
Sexual addiction recovery is not a one-time event that occurs and you're done with it. It is a process that unfolds over time - through discipline, awareness, and consistent behavioral change. In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast
E36: Mythbuster! Sexual Addictions Are Not About Orgasms Or Power (w/ "Chuck")
On this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, Mistress Alisa sits down with special guest "Chuck" to dismantle one of the most persistent myths surrounding sexual addictions. Many people assume that sexual addictions are about orgasms a...
E35: I'm Trying To Get Help (Why Won't You Let Me Manipulate You?)
In this Chainbreaker episode, we confront a pattern that is far more common than most men want to admit they engage in on their sexual addiction recovery journey. It is the act of approaching mentors, coaches, partners, and support spaces under...
E34: You Can't Heal What You Refuse To Acknowledge
In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we take a hard, honest look at why so many men stay stuck in their sexual addiction cycles even while appearing to “do the work.” Too many men show up, participate in groups, talk a good gam...
E33: Doing the Work in Sexual Addiction Recovery
In this episode of Chainbreaker, we go beyond surface-level recovery to uncover the deeper truth: real healing doesn’t come from denying your sexual urges or running from temptation — it comes from transforming desire itself. Many men ...
E32: The Sexual Addiction Pipeline (From Adolescence to Adulthood)
In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we confront one of the most dangerous and overlooked realities of modern society — the system that has been intentionally designed to shape men into sexual addicts and women into sexual obje...
E31: The Importance Of Going Step-By-Step In Sexual Addiction Recovery
In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we break down why taking recovery one step at a time isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. Too many men try to skip ahead in their sexual recovery work, only to find themselves stumbling and fa...
E30: When & How To Do Sexual Addiction Recovery Work Independently
In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we dive into how men can tackle sexual addiction recovery on their own, even if they can't access one-on-one coaching. Learn how, when, and why to confront the deeper, scarier parts o...
E29: Dealing With the Guilt of "Failure" In Sexual Addiction Recovery
In this episode of Chainbreaker, Mistress Alisa tackles one of the hardest realities men face in sexual addiction recovery: the crushing guilt that comes with “failing” and slipping back into old patterns of sex, porn, or masturbation....
E28: Why Are Men So Dependent On Sexual Pleasure? (Pt. 1)
In this unapologetically honest episode, we pull back the curtain on a silent epidemic—men’s emotional dependence on sexual pleasure. This isn’t about shame or blame. It’s about revealing how boys are conditioned to bury emotion, celebrate numb...
E27: Sexual Addicts Crave Love (The Cautionary Tale of a Man Named Sid)
In this raw and unflinching episode, we dig beneath the surface of sexual addiction to uncover the deeper ache driving the cycle: the longing to be loved - and the tragic ways addicts sabotage that love before they ever get the chance to receiv...
E26: You Can't Heal With The Same Mind That Broke You
In this transformative episode, we dive into one of the most important truths in sex addiction recovery: Mindset. Far too often, men attempt to break free from porn, sex, and masturbation addictions while clinging to the same beliefs, ...
E25: Transitioning From Sexual Addict To Lover
In this raw and transformative episode, we dive deep into the journey from compulsion to connection. "Transitioning From Sexual Addict to Lover" explores what it means to move beyond the empty highs of addiction and step into the vulnerability,...
E24: Do Sexual Addicts Have To Give Up Their Kinks & Fetishes?
In this empowering episode, we tackle a question many men silently fear: Will recovery mean the end of my sexuality? The answer is a resounding no.You'll learn why healing from sex addiction doesn’t mean giving up desire,...
E23: Why Sexual Addicts Fail At Relationships
In this episode of Chainbreaker, we dive deep into the harsh reality of why sexual addicts struggle to build and maintain healthy relationships. Many believe that love and commitment can override addiction, but the truth is far more co...
E22: The Games That Sexual Addicts Play
Not everyone who seeks help for sexual (sex/porn/masturbation) addiction is truly looking for recovery. Some are just looking for another way to feed their addiction - using therapy, accountability groups, and even their partners as tools to ma...
E21: Sexual Addiction Recovery & Will Power
In this episode of The Chainbreaker Podcast, we dive into the misunderstood concept of willpower in sexual addiction recovery. Many men only start to consider self-control when their addiction has already wreaked havoc on their lives -...
E20: Sex Is Not Love
In this thought-provoking episode, we dive into a critical distinction that many men struggling with sex, porn, and masturbation addiction often blur: the difference between sex and love. While society frequently glorifies physical intimacy as ...
E19: Relationship Challenges For Sexual Addicts
In this raw and eye-opening episode, we confront the harsh realities of how sexual addiction wreaks havoc on relationships. This isn’t about sugarcoating or sidestepping the truth. It’s a call for men to wake up and face the behaviors that dama...
E18: Avoiding False Starts In Sexual Addiction Recovery
Embarking on the road to recovery from sex, porn, and masturbation addictions can feel overwhelming, especially when false starts threaten progress. In this episode, we dive deep into the common pitfalls that derail men at the beginning of thei...
E17: Trapped In The Loop Of Sexual Addiction
In this episode, we dive into the concept of the "default mode" of sexual addiction—those automatic patterns and behaviors that take over during idle moments, emotional vulnerability, or specific triggers. We discuss how to identify these habit...
E16: Keep Your Tank Full
In this episode of Chainbreaker, we explore how acknowledging and prioritizing your mental and emotional needs can be a game-changer in learning to work through sex, porn, and masturbation addictions. Addiction often thrives in emptine...
E15: Doing The Work
In this episode of Chainbreaker, titled "Doing the Work," we dive deep into the vital importance of consistent, intentional action in breaking free from sexual addiction. True recovery isn’t something that happens by accident or simply...
E14: Post-Orgasm Depression
In this episode of Chainbreaker, we dive deep into the experience of Post-Orgasm Depression, a state many men find themselves in after engaging in sexual activities. Often, men are filled with overwhelming feelings of shame, guilt, embarrassmen...
E13: Identifying Your Sexual Addiction Triggers
In this episode, I guide men through the critical process of identifying their sexual addiction triggers. We'll explore how to recognize the moments that lead to unhealthy behaviors and dig deeper into what you're truly seeking in those situati...