The Motherhood Process
Welcome to The Motherhood Process—the podcast for moms who are ready to trade stress and anxiety for peace and purpose. I’m your host, Autumn Akins, and if you're juggling the challenges of motherhood, struggling with your identity, or feeling overwhelmed by daily life, this show is for you. Each episode offers practical strategies for building intentional routines, shifting your mindset, and finding alignment in motherhood so you can thrive, not just survive. As a boy mom navigating pregnancy and the everyday chaos of parenting, I’ll share personal experiences and proven techniques that have helped me reclaim peace and productivity.
Have you ever asked yourself questions like: “How do I shift my mindset from perfectionism to progress?” “What can I do to feel more fulfilled in my role as a mother?” “How do I find my identity outside of being a mom?” or even “What strategies can I use to create intentional routines that work for my family?”
If this sounds like you, then join me on this journey to discover how you can live a full life in motherhood that you truly love. From tackling stress to building a purposeful, joy-filled life, you’ll walk away from each episode with tools to create more balance and fulfillment. Subscribe for weekly insights on motherhood, productivity, mindset, and more—and don’t forget to follow me on social media and sign up for my newsletter for even more support.
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The Motherhood Process
04: Finding Clarity as a Couple: Making Tough Decisions Together
In this episode, I’m opening up about a huge, life-changing decision my husband and I recently made. With our family preparing to move from Wyoming to Michigan, we found ourselves facing conflicting needs and challenges. This episode explores the power of open communication, identifying each other's non-negotiables, and working through the tough emotions that arise when big choices pull a couple in different directions. Join me as I share how we navigated this journey and found a way to move forward as a team, even when our paths diverged.
What You’ll Hear:
- The Reality of Big Decisions:
I share the backstory of our move, the challenges we faced, and how these impacted our relationship. - Understanding Each Other’s Needs:
How identifying each partner’s “non-negotiable” helped us communicate better and meet each other halfway. - Balancing Compromise with Clarity:
Our approach to finding a solution that allowed us to honor both financial stability and peace of mind for our family. - Navigating Separation:
The emotional challenges of temporarily living apart, preparing our kids, and finding strength together despite the distance. - Practical Advice for Couples:
Tips for staying connected during big decisions, including the importance of open dialogue, empathy, and prioritizing each other’s needs.
Key Takeaways:
- Open Communication is Key: Clear, honest conversations help couples understand each other's needs, especially during major life changes.
- Identify Your Non-Negotiables: Clarifying your priorities can guide you toward decisions that respect both partners’ perspectives.
- Remember You’re on the Same Team: When tensions rise, focus on solutions that strengthen your family and relationship.
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