Drama Free Teams | Trauma-Informed Leadership for High-Performing Teams
Your team's smart. But managing the personalities, politics, and pressure of leadership? That’s a whole other story.
If you’re constantly putting out fires, struggling to get buy-in, or avoiding difficult conversations to keep the peace, Drama Free Teams is your new secret weapon.
Hosted by trauma-informed executive coach Dr. Annie Campanile, PhD, this podcast helps emotionally intelligent leaders stop second-guessing what to say, and start leading conversations that create clarity, accountability, and connection.
Dr. Annie has helped hundreds of leaders build high-performing teams and step into the C-suite without people-pleasing, second-guessing themselves, or getting derailed by drama at work, and in every episode, she’s handing you psychology-backed insights and straightforward tools you can put to work right away to become the kind of leader people authentically trust, respect, and want to follow.
Ready to become a great leader, known for clear, confident, and compassionate leadership—at work, at home, and in every area of your life? Hit PLAY and let’s begin.
Drama Free Teams | Trauma-Informed Leadership for High-Performing Teams
24. Compassionate Leadership Without the Burnout: Be a Bowl, Not a Sponge
Trying to support your team without burning out? You might be missing one key trauma-informed leadership skill.
You care about your people. You want them to feel safe coming to you with their concerns. But every time someone shares their stress, anger, or worry with you, you walk away feeling drained — and take their stress home with you.
It feels like you have to choose: Be a compassionate leader OR Protect your energy.
That’s exactly the dilemma "Stephanie," a dedicated healthcare leader, faced. She was exhausted from managing constant drama at work. She was emotionally fried and on the verge of quitting leadership altogether.
In this episode, I share the powerful “Be a Bowl, Not a Sponge” exercise — a simple, trauma-informed leadership tool I’ve used for more than 20 years. It’s helped hundreds of leaders (including me!) stay grounded, centered, and present, even in the middle of emotional storms.
If you want to lead with emotional intelligence and support your team without absorbing their stress, this episode will show you how.
🎧 Hit PLAY and let’s get started.
You’ll learn:
- Why your mind might be tricking you into thinking your team’s stress is your own
- A creative visualization technique that helps you protect your energy in real time
- How to lead with compassion without taking responsibility for everyone else’s emotions
- Why emotional intelligence in leadership hinges on knowing what to hold — and what to release
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Apply for on-air leadership coaching here (spots are limited).
0:56 – The Empathy Trap: Why Leaders Take On Emotions That Aren’t Theirs
2:15 – Mirror Neurons, The surprising reason your body reacts so strongly when others are upset—and what to do about it.
5:10 – Real-Life Burnout: A Leader on the Verge of Quitting
7:00 – Be a Bowl, Not a Sponge: The Tool That Changes Everything
A simple exercise to help you stay clear, calm, and present during emotional conversations.
10:45 – How staying grounded helps your team feel safer—and keeps you from burning out.
🧘♀️ ACTIVITY FROM THIS EPISODE:
1. Imagine a bowl you love.
2. Make it big.
3. Let their words & emotions pour into the bowl.
4. Empty the bowl.
5. Let go with intention.
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More Resources for You:
- Get The Empowered Feedback Toolkit for easy-to-follow, step-by-step guidance so you can speak clearly and confidently—especially during tough conversations.
- Explore Dr. Annie's Executive Coaching Program.
- Download your free guide: Trauma Survivors Empowerment Guide
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