Guilt, Independence, and the Truth About Caring for Aging Parents with Al Bagocius

In this episode, my guest is Al Bagocius from Oasis Senior Advisors, and we’re talking about something that hits home for a lot of us—how to care for aging parents without burning out or damaging the relationship.

Al has spent years helping families navigate senior care options, and he shares the kinds of things most people don’t think about until they’re already in a crisis. We talk about what signs to look for when it’s no longer safe for your loved one to live alone, what to ask (and what to notice) when touring senior communities, and how to start those hard conversations with your parents without it turning into an argument.

You’ll learn:

• Why balance—not money or medication—is the most overlooked asset in senior health
• How to stop feeling guilty for not doing it all yourself
• What really matters when choosing a facility (hint: it’s not the chandelier in the lobby)
• And how every senior has different needs—and why “a place to grow into” matters more than a perfect fit today

This episode is full of useful, human advice. Whether you're already deep into caregiving or just starting to have “the talk” with your family, there’s something here that’ll help you take the next step with more confidence—and less stress.

So if you’ve been wondering where to even begin, start here.

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