Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Partner — Dating Advice That Actually Works from Relationship Expert Gwen Washington

What if love didn’t have to feel like a guessing game?

This week on Success Through Connection, I’m joined by the incredible Gwen Washington—psychologist, counselor, and certified trauma specialist—who has helped thousands of people rewrite their love story. And trust me, this conversation is one you’ll want to lean into.

We talk about everything from where to actually meet authentic, relationship-minded people (hint: it’s not just apps) … to how to flirt without feeling awkward … to keeping the spark alive long after the honeymoon phase. Gwen pulls back the curtain on the truths about dating, attraction, rejection, and even why “Netflix nights” don’t count as real dates.

What I loved most? Gwen doesn’t sugarcoat it. She reminds us that connection isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence, confidence, and being honest with what you want. Whether you’re single, back in the dating world, or looking to reignite your marriage, this episode will give you practical ways to rethink love and relationships in a way that feels fresh, real, and possible.

So if you’ve ever wondered: How do I know if there’s really a spark? How do I set boundaries without scaring someone off? How do I stop choosing the wrong partners? … Gwen has answers.

Hit play and join us for this unfiltered, heart-centered conversation. You might just walk away seeing love—and yourself—differently.