Fuck You: Gender Identity

Anne Karber tackles the controversial reality of gender identity and pronoun policies currently sweeping through public schools. This episode examines why many parents are reaching a breaking point with the modern education system and what it means to be a child's advocate in a divisive cultural landscape. We discuss the importance of standing up for common sense and why the traditional school model may no longer serve the best interests of your family. Learn why making life sacrifices to protect your child's development is more crucial now than ever before. Join us for a raw and honest conversation about the future of our children.

What You'll Learn:

• Why the current pronoun movement in schools is creating significant parental pushback.
• The legal and social implications of gender identity protocols in the classroom.
• How to prioritize your child's mental health over maintaining a specific lifestyle.
• The reality of drag queen story hours and their impact on elementary education.
• Strategies for parents to reclaim their influence over their children's upbringing.

It is time to decide if you are raising your children or if the system is doing it for you. #GenderIdentity #SchoolReform #ParentingTruths #Education #AnneKarber

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Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:00

And have you ever been asked what are your pronouns? You know, I don't think I have because I think um I can't remember that I have, but my answer would be the same. Go fuck yourself. This is how I feel about pronouns, just so everyone understands. Um I think everyone should be able to do whatever they want to, and I think that's excellent. And I think that if you live in a world where you have someone that wants to use different pronouns, excellent. You get to choose how how much you want to plug into that person and figure out how to change your language and do all of the things. But what pisses me off the most about pronouns is the fact that people think that they can just shove that down everyone else's throat. And if I don't agree with you, then you yell louder and call me names and try to get me to uh be quiet because you'll you're willing to get crazier than I am. But the problem is I'm willing to get pretty fucking crazy. And I've had my head in the sand for a long time and I've poked it out enough to realize that you guys are fucking this up really big when it comes to gender identity, especially in schools. We've really missed the mark on this one, and I don't know what the solution is other than the folks that have the common sense that understand that what we're doing is really, really, really damaging to the majority of the children. Uh, you guys are gonna have to stand up and get louder and fight about this one because it's worth it. If I found out that I was sending my kid to school and they were teaching some of the shit that's being taught in schools right now, I would not send my kid back to school. So here's the public service announcement that I'm giving today. I highly encourage people to stop sending their kids to school. I would never, ever, ever send my fucking kids to school if that's the kind of shit that they were putting out there, that they were teaching kids that they could be whatever it is that they want to. He, she, they, them, fucking, you want to tape your dick back, you want to fucking, you know, put you these vests on that put your, you know, hold your tits back. Well, what is happening in our schools nowadays? Because people keep telling me these things, and I'm like, at first, when I was hearing it a couple years ago, I'm like, that can't be right. Like, that's I'm gonna take this a step further. Tell me more.

SPEAKER_00 2:07

There was this is a new story. I'm sure if we Google it, we can add it to the credibility here. Um, where in a California school, a kid decided that it identified as a cat, and so it would only use the restroom in a litter box. And the school provided a litter box, I kid you not.

SPEAKER_01 2:25

If I heard that happened at my kids' school, immediately I would just not send the kid back to school. Like, I and I look at this and I and I know that people are listening out there going, How is that even possible? Right? We have both the parents have to work. No, you don't. And I'll tell you why. Maybe, maybe one of you wants to work, maybe one of you doesn't want to work, maybe you shouldn't have had fucking kids. But we're at the time in our lives right now where if you're sending your kids to places where they are literally um forcing this kind of I know Allowing. Allowing.

SPEAKER_00 2:54

I mean, even allowing. I don't think that an allowance necessarily forcing allowing. They're just oh I mean, on the forms that the kids fill out, you ask what the pronouns are, right? When you get their names.

SPEAKER_01 3:05

Yeah, that would happen exactly zero times. If we have to sell our house and sell our cars and drive a house, uh, you know, live in a house that's smaller and and share one car so that one of us doesn't have to work so that we can raise our fucking kiddos. That's the kind of sacrifices that we're at right now. Don't have children if you're not willing to do that, because no one gives a shit how big your car is. When your kid has been completely brainwashed at school and uh wants to tape their dick back or uh, you know, get their tits cut off before they're even of legal age, which is stories that people tell me are happening out there. Energy is everything. And most of us are spending it like drunk gamblers at a Vegas blackjack table. My book is built around one simple but powerful tool: quantifying your energy so you know exactly where it's going and how to get more of it back. Think of it as a manual for your sold fuel tank. If you're tired of running on empty, this book will show you how to fill back up and keep yourself in the game long enough to actually win. Get your copy of the Life Hack Playbook on Amazon or on the podcast website, let's get nakedpodcast.com. If that's okay with you, then by all means live in that nice big house. Because when your kid is 30 years old and completely fucked up because they've given him hormones and shit from the time he was underage, because you didn't have a fucking say in it, uh, I hope that you're happy with that nice big house that you lived in or that fancy car that you drove. We are past those times of normal, you guys. Like we are so far past those times. If my daughter came home and told me we're doing the pronouns thing, we're forcing this, we've got, you know, what what is it that you want to be? We're allowing people to have be cats. I mean, what is is that that is not real? No. That like, how do people keep sending their kids to school like this? I I I literally, I cannot, I cannot get my fucking head around it. It's like, as your as the parent, your job is to be your child's advocate. You're literally sending them to the wolves.

SPEAKER_00 5:08

I told you about the story in Dallas, Texas, at an elementary school where they had drag queen story hour, where the drag queens came in and read little kids in elementary school books. And this is Texas where you would not expect these things to be occurring. Um, and the parents weren't notified because it wasn't a field trip, it was them coming to school. And so the kids went home and they were like, Yeah, this like boy dressed up as a girl came and read all these books, had all this like crazy hair and makeup, whatever, whatever. And then the parents were like, wait, what? Right. And it made the news in Dallas, which is where I was living at the time. And the parents were enraged. And I I told my husband, I go, if that was me, the school would have been burnt down. I would have lost my mind because that is absolutely not what we are in school for. No. And that once again reinforces all of this weird, wild stuff when it comes to pronouns.

SPEAKER_01 5:57

Well, and not only that, but I think let's look at school on a bigger picture. And this is maybe more than just a little mini episode of conversation, but the school system as it currently is is all garbage anyways. It's all garbage anyways. So why we're still continuing to send our kids to school is beyond me. Teach your kid how to read, teach your kid how to write, teach your kids some simple addition and how to use their resources. Because you have the internet at your fingertips from the time that you come out of the womb, basically. You don't need to go to school to learn memorization and to have them, you know, completely uh I don't I don't even know what the right word is because it just blows my mind the influence that these people have over your children, and then we all just continue to send our kids. There has to be a different solution, right? And I don't know what that is. I don't have young kids anymore, so I'm not gonna spend any resources trying to figure it out. But I would encourage other parents that do have young kids to get off of the couch and fucking do something about this. This cannot be uh the way that you thought you were gonna be raising children, sending them to school, and there's all of this hatred and divisiveness that just continues to happen. It just keeps getting worse and worse and worse. I just I'm having a hard time coming up with that shit in general. It's like somebody wants me to put pronouns in things, it's like go so crazy somewhere else. We're all stocked up here. And that's all we're gonna say about that.