Wounded Boy, Healed Man

Ep. 3 - Stressed and Over It | Part 1: Sneaky Stress Symptoms You’re Probably Missing

Jordan Season 1 Episode 3

Duration: ~26 minutes

Episode Overview

In Part 1 of this two-part exploration, Jordan dives deep into the complex experience of stress, uncovering its hidden toll on our minds, bodies, and spirits. He shares his personal journey of recognizing and managing stress, breaking it into relatable, actionable insights for listeners.


Timestamps 

[0:00] - Welcome & Show Intro

Introduction to the podcast’s safe space for healing and vulnerability.


[1:30] - Personal Story: Stress Hits Close to Home

Jordan recounts a turning point in 2019 when unchecked stress affected his physical health.

Key takeaway: Healing stress involves more than addressing symptoms—it’s about the mind-body-spirit connection.


[3:40] - Everyday Emotional Drains

Stress from small, normalized habits like unclear boundaries, decision fatigue, and digital overload.

How these drain your emotional energy reserves.


[4:55] - Past Emotional Wounds

The impact of unresolved wounds on current stress patterns, such as fear of rejection and perfectionism.


[6:32] - Trauma’s Lingering Effects

Subtle but profound ways past trauma shapes behaviors like startle responses, discomfort with rest, and control patterns.


[10:26] - Sneaky Symptoms You Might Miss

Chronic fatigue: Feeling perpetually drained.

Sleep disturbances: The “midnight mind marathon.”

Physical signs: Muscle tension, headaches, and changes in appetite.

Irritability, mood swings, and procrastination as signs of stress overload.

Social withdrawal and frequent illness as hidden indicators.


[20:40] - Rethinking The Myth of Work-Life Balance 

The flawed ideal of a perfect 50/50 work-life split.

Balance is personal and evolves with time.


[22:48] - Anchoring Your Life with Sacred Practices

Jordan shares his anchors: meditation, movement, walking his dog, and even folding origami.

Prioritizing what matters without guilt.


[24:18] - Closing Thoughts

Healing from stress isn’t about fixing everything—it’s about showing up for yourself in meaningful ways every day.

A teaser for Part 2: Diving deeper into practical solutions for stress management.


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