Transform into Wisdom Podcast
Transform into Wisdom Podcast is hosted by Mariam Kavai, a Post Traumatic Growth Teacher & Embodiment Coach.
This show offers practical guidance and inspiration to sensitive souls ready to HEAL from narcissistic and exploitative relationships — beyond traditional therapy — and transform deep emotional wounds into Wisdom, Self Trust, Emotional Mastery and Lasting Empowerment.
Episodes will cover how the tangled web of emotional abuse is created, how it secretly sabotages you in your daily life, how to shift into emotional stability, self-love, and respect, and how to become the empowered warrior that you never thought you could be.
This show will also delve into the unique challenges and emotional mindset of sensitive souls and help them move beyond limiting beliefs.
Mariam is a sensitive soul who has bloomed out of emotional abuse. She has a PhD in scientific research, a deep understanding of human behavior, spirituality & consciousness, and is a certified professional coach. She brings a unique blend of science, psychology, and spirituality to support sensitive souls like you. Join the conversation and listen to the shows at https://transformintowisdom.com/podcast
Transform into Wisdom Podcast
12: The Invisible Scars of Growing Up with a Narcissistic Father
Find the full transcript for this episode and other resources for sensitive souls at transformintowisdom.com/12
Today, we continue with our ongoing series into the The Active & Passive Harm from a Narcissistic Father and go into the unseen underbelly of coercion, intimidation, and blame shifting from a father; its impact on the psyche; and the path to integration.
Why is this important? Because verbal abuse (which includes things like intimidation, coercion, berating and belittling, name-calling, and blame-shifting) shapes your inner world.
It leaves behind an internal residue—a kind of emotional static—that distorts how you hear yourself.
- You begin to doubt your value.
- You question your perceptions.
- You minimize your needs.
- You anticipate being misunderstood or rejected, even before you speak.
- Over time, you internalize that abuse.
You start talking to yourself the way they talked to you.
Not because it’s true—but because repetition became belief.
And belief became identity.
And your identity became your reality.
In this episode, I also bring us back to the earlier intention behind the entire series, starting from episode 9, to clearly recognize the invisible scars of growing up with a narcissistic father so that real healing can begin.
Remember, you can’t heal what you don’t acknowledge. You can’t acknowledge what you don’t recognize or understand.
Recognize, understand, acknowledge, then heal.
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