Escaping the Comparison Trap: Finding Clarity and Fulfillment in Midlife

Welcome to a new episode of Midlife Unleashed! Today, host coach and mentor Doug Dorsey tackles one of midlife’s sneakiest obstacles: comparison. From scrolling through social media feeds full of highlight reels to measuring ourselves against younger versions of who we used to be, comparison can quietly sabotage progress and drain our joy, especially as the holidays approach.

In this episode, Doug Dorsey shares powerful analogies and real-life examples from working with hundreds of clients, offering practical advice for escaping the comparison trap and getting clear on the path to personal fulfillment. You’ll learn how to turn envy into inspiration, use action to build momentum, and set healthy boundaries with social media. If you’ve ever felt “behind” in your career, health, or life goals, today’s conversation is your reminder: real growth comes from clarity, not from looking sideways.

Tune in for mindset shifts, actionable tips, and a refreshing perspective on what it means to evolve in midlife and why your best years might be ahead of you, not behind.

00:00 "Midlife Reflections and Comparisons"

04:14 "Stop Unhealthy Comparisons"

08:45 "Awareness and Alignment in Comparison"

10:02 "Action Over Comparison: Get Moving"

15:41 "Breaking Free from Unrealistic Comparisons"

17:06 "Embracing Differences and Growth"

20:29 "Social Media Boundaries at Nine"

24:04 "Overcoming Comparison and Motivation"

28:08 Midlife: Redesign, Not Decline

30:53 "Growth Through New Experiences"

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“Disclaimer: Informational only. Not medical advice. Consult your doctor for guidance.”